Never Go To A Nightclub

BackgroundRepublic · 2018-10-05T03:42:33+00:00

Pablo Escobar snorted a shit ton of cocaine lol.

enfier · 2018-10-04T23:36:54+00:00

If your an unattractive sperg with no self confidence and zero rhythm that showed up by yourself with the sole purpose of getting laid, then yeah you aren't going to have fun at a dance club. It's obvious to everyone around you. If that hits close to home then yeah avoid the dance club. Or maybe do whatever it is you need to do to learn to dance and find some friends to go with.

I have never met a successful or rich man (excluding those who are dating coaches) who focused/cared so much on women.

Yet here you are, unable to enjoy dancing because you the only reason you showed up is to get your dick wet.

If you don't get wasted on $10 drinks and don't pay cover then it's actually really cheap. Dancing is lots of fun, you go find a girl, dance with her for a while and have a bit of fun. Zero commitment or drama, you don't even have to find out what her name is.

I'd suggest you go to the club with some friends and go try to have a fun time dancing instead of picking up women and see how that goes.

LittleOmid · 2018-10-05T07:31:34+00:00

Wtf is this shitpost. You need to find better clubs.

TheStoicCrane · 2018-10-05T07:36:40+00:00

If anyone here has ever read or listened to 1984 by George Orwell or The Brave New World by Aldous Huxley intently one would come to the understanding that things like Night Clubs, Porn, junk media, partial politics, sex, and sport are for Proles.

A way to keep the working class distracted after long, miserable work weeks to keep the exchange of money flowing and to prevent them from developing personally to the point where they realize that they're little more than slaves in this Capitalist system (I'm no proponent of communism either but the reality behind Western Capitalism is that those with the money make the rules. It becomes soft form of totalitarianism when one or two companies like Coke and Pepsi essentially dominate markets while collaborating in private to avoid being called out as "monopolies" in the public eye. Both the same sugary poison that gives people an illusion of choice.)

More & more the prole is distracted the less likely they are to escape their intangible prison and remain a wage slave hours long after their more viral days are behind them.

Excellent Post OP. Though many here are still too young to appreciate it there is much wisdom.

Edit: Brave from "Beave".

lovs2spuge · 2018-10-05T00:33:44+00:00

Millionaires go to nightclubs all the time. Not sure where you’re living. But it’s quite common in America.

Even if that were true, not every man reading this is going to become a millionaire. Probably nobody reading this post is. So it’s sortve falling on deaf ears.

Ramesses_ · 2018-10-04T23:48:21+00:00

Appreciate the passion pal but you sound like a born again Christian. Just chill out a bit on what people have to do. Does it really make that much of a difference to you? Let people blow off steam or blow their dough however they want. Some guys true deepest desire is the player lifestyle. Some guys want to be digital nomads or play in bands. Some guys crave validation and attention like women. Let them. It's great for you to focus on your serious achievement businessman lifestyle but doesn't mean everyone who is not like you is wrong.

Auxfite · 2018-10-05T01:08:09+00:00

I remember back in my BP days always at a club or bar every other weekend I thought I was living my best life. I became RP and I just get disgusted with the environment. It’s a bunch of thots who go for the alpha male or settle with the beta cuck who buys them drinks. The BP cucks are full of anxiety and the alphas just chill and approach without the need to buy them a drink. Once you realize all those girls in the club are low quality I lost interest

ledbymorpheus · 2018-10-05T04:00:47+00:00

Nah, you are framing rich people as something they are not to rationalize your way out of doing something that scares you.

10211799107 · 2018-10-05T03:17:41+00:00

Men will develop themselves differently. Maximize your strengths and minimize your weaknesses. Nothing in the world "should" be done except eating and fucking.
Some guys are good at club game and some not. TRP foundation is a toolbox for men on how to mavigate the sexual market as a man in this age. How you develop yourself is your choice, use the tools the way you see fit. You wanna fuck sluts in clubs because you decided its worth developing yourself in that area? Then do it. As long as your decision is yours.

ex_addict_bro · 2018-10-05T10:48:27+00:00

Kind of solid idea but lousy delivery.

You sound like you’re making up some idea so you can wank to it.

whuttupfoo · 2018-10-05T02:07:34+00:00

Have you ever seen a millionaire shopping at your local store? What about a nightclub?

Yes. I’ve gone to nightclubs with my millionaire friends multiple times.

Nightclub owners are never in their own nightclubs drinking and dancing.

Maybe because you don’t know who the owners are. I’ve partied with owners in their nightclub plenty of times. Those mother fuckers rely on their status as a key to getting laid

Does zuckerberg spend as much time as the average person on Facebook?

No he spends time way beyond the average user.

Does the CEO of McDonalds eat at McDonalds?

Yes. Why wouldn’t he be checking the quality of his own product.

Does the owner of Reddit read reddit?

Does the owner of Charmin Ultra Soft wipe his own ass with Charmin Ultra Soft?

TheStoicCrane · 2018-10-05T03:41:24+00:00

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Batmanforreal2 · 2018-10-05T07:42:15+00:00

Idk man. I like to go clubbing after a week of work and lifting like crazy. I like music and dancing, but maybe its just me.

2018-10-05T08:02:10+00:00

To be honest, I had quite the experience with nightclubs. If you're going to a nightclub looking to get laid, then forget about it, probably nothing will happen. When I stopped doing that and started going to nightclubs with my friends just to chill, dance and have fun, things have changed quite a bit. Girls take interest in us and us approaching girls have become a really casual business.

Nightclubs are for fun and loosening up. If you want some loud music, if you want to get drunk and just release all that energy, then go to a nightclub and get drunk. It's a good way to release the tension and shit.

trp1784 · 2018-10-05T09:55:18+00:00

Not all nightclubs are bad, the one I frequent I go to for the music. I can pay $10-$30 cover to see DJs that would be $50-$80 at a bigger venue. The people there are for the most part really chill, I don't waste money on drinks, I always pre game, maybe buy one or two drinks there are most, and once in a while I will take some drugs instead. I've picked up a couple girls there, most of the time I don't, but I've never not had fun there, because I only go if they have a DJ I really like playing that night, it's fun dancing to good music, or getting into a headbanging circle to some really heavy shit. Yeah I suppose I could save that time and money to grow my wealth, but it's fun, and I need fun sometimes to not be miserable.

Yorkshiretea83 · 2018-10-05T10:01:43+00:00

If you wanna go to a club go to a club . Don't need to navel gaze this much fucking hell. the

dslkjnavoiuweqrlkjas · 2018-10-05T10:44:13+00:00

improve your standing and income.

That's retarded. You judge your success in life by the amount of money in your bank account?

freestyler2k1 · 2018-10-05T10:53:11+00:00

Its disgusting when a man says he goes to a club for "dancing"! "Dancing" is for women to get the attention of man. Can you imagine James Bond goes "dancing". NO he has more important things to do! Dancing in a club is the most beta move you can do! LOL

thepanda37 · 2018-10-05T11:47:52+00:00

Does Mark Zuckerberg spend as much time as the average person on Facebook?

he actually does, as much and more. facebook makes a point of making most of internal communication go trough facebook.

I hope the responses here make you reevaluate your view. And by that I don't mean that nightclubs aren't trash.

I have no doubt the majority of you will miss the meaning of this post.

That you haven't found a way to monetize your true passion, writing walls of text for the mere sake of it?

dongpal · 2018-10-05T11:57:29+00:00

After so many years Ive never read a post about "help, im a millionare but cant find a woman!". guess why

Valenx_Ackerman · 2018-10-05T11:58:11+00:00

My strongest ideology right now is that women are of zero importance.

Sure, after reading your whole thread I've come to the conclussion that you're utterly obsessed with money and somehow angry with women, nothing wrong I respect your thoughts but you should respect other people's ideologies

You don't get money via chasing after it. Money comes when you create value. In the same way, a successful man WILL have women, this is such a fact that you would actually need to take action in order for you to not get women.

Ok then I will just create value for myself and sit in front of my computer eating cheetos and drinking coke while reading stuff, making plans and creating Internet business that require no social skills at all. There's no need to approach women in real life! They will come to me because I've got tons of 0 in my bank account!!, Tinder, Nightclubs and social circles are useless because if I create value they will ding my doorbell desperately looking for sex, validation or love... Jesus Christ

U-94 · 2018-10-05T12:30:32+00:00

How about the practical reasons of: the music sucks, the drinks are expensive? You can meet that club girl at a coffee shop and make her come to your comfort zone at night. No reason to suffer.

snowdenlaydying · 2018-10-05T12:50:29+00:00

If you are in a nightclub, just remember that the women do not want to compete, they want to fuck the winner. Cultivate an air of victory around you; namely dress to stand out, be overly extrovert, walk around as if you own the place (except to staff), treat staff well - tip them including door staff and dance like nobody is watching. Keep your wits about you however. Limit your drinks, don't approach women who are obliterated and watch out for mate guarding betas- "there's nothing more dangerous than a weak man", particularly those are being openly challenged. Good luck out there.

ArchetypicalDegen · 2018-10-05T13:02:28+00:00

I'll be honest, it seems like you're equating financial success with happiness. If that's the case for you, then power to you, but you should avoid projecting your views onto everyone. Also, isn't the against the content rules? The rules state that titles shouldn't say "don't do x".

DocZTheRockstar · 2018-10-05T13:37:29+00:00

Only time I go is if I'm on stage playing music.

spistruth · 2018-10-05T13:40:03+00:00

People definitely didn't get the point of this post, going by the comments. Put women aside and hoard your valuable possessions as a man - commitment, attention, energy, time, focus. Use those things to maximize the gains of your life through - workouts, goals, finances, spirituality, self-realization etc. Many great saints of the world have said women are the biggest stumbling block in self-realization and spiritual advancement.

Personally, I'm an mgtow. I come to the redpill for self-improvement posts and to know more about women's vile nature so I can remind myself to stay away from them.

Zeparic · 2018-10-05T13:46:20+00:00

Sigma v. Alpha debate.

OP is taking the stance of the former without realizing it. Alpha is a consumer position. But what an alpha can do a sigma should be capable of doing as well. Otherwise you get a situation like the comments have mentioned, the intention with which you go is what matters.

Walker501_S · 2018-10-05T13:47:53+00:00

Agreed. Funny how all the comments just try to shame you instead of address your points. You're more of a MGTOW than a pua and that's okay. Hope you'll accomplish whatever you're focusing on.

Mr_Queef · 2018-10-04T23:35:33+00:00

I dno man. I just like to go to the club to listen to beats and have a boogie. it's fun. you're thinking too much into it.

icarus1033 · 2018-10-05T05:59:07+00:00

Does the CEO of McDonalds eat at McDonalds?

yes he does

https://yourquestions.mcdonalds.ca/answer/do-mcdonalds-executives-eat-their-companys-products/

Does Mark Zuckerberg spend as much time as the average person on Facebook?

well he definitely does because he will be constantly testing, innovating and exploring new ways to further the product.

also $10 bucks you dont have your own business and wrote the post as a mental wank

StrongAttitude · 2018-10-05T00:09:18+00:00

Very good post, I personally went to night club twice and never again. It's a waste of time and money.

ledbymorpheus · 2018-10-05T10:20:54+00:00

Bullshit post. I go to clubs by myself quite often and have a great time.

But who are we kidding, I have no doubt the majority of you will miss the meaning of this post.

Get your head out of your ass.

foreignbois · 2018-10-05T05:21:51+00:00

bro clubs are fun, people like having fun. go out every now and then, make some friends and just go with the flow

you're right here imo - if you go out hoping to get laid you'll be disappointed but nothing wrong with going with your boys and having a few drinks

2018-10-05T08:53:34+00:00

One of my greatest annoyances about the RedPill is it’s ridiculous focus on women.

This is the point of this subreddit - sexual strategy for men. It doesn't mean you should obsess over it, it's just the focus of discourse here.

riggedved · 2018-10-05T10:22:39+00:00

"Don't get high on your own supply."

2018-10-05T11:06:00+00:00

Do you even know what good dance music is? nah I didn't read this post but am I gonna listen to a random on the internet telling me to never go to a nightclub? probably not lol

you don't go to clubs to pick up women, you go to clubs to dance with women, take drugs/drink/party and then because you're having fun you meet women.

if you like clubbing, you can monetize that too mate. go and be a dj/producer. just because you don't make money dancing doesn't mean it's not worthwhile.

Imperator_Red · 2018-10-05T13:08:43+00:00

Only low IQ men enjoy nightclubs. It's so loud that you can't even talk. Forget the girls - you can't even talk to your friends. You just stand there screaming at each other until you give up. This is a perfect environment for a man with no wit, game, or interesting things to talk about. He can buy girls $20 drinks all night and convince himself that this is "fun." Or he can go out onto the dance floor and dance around like a clown trying to draw attention to himself while his dead male ancestors look down on him and hang their heads in shame.

I suppose if he is really good looking, or rich, or if he comes to the club with some women he could get laid, but this is true no matter where he goes and thus has nothing to do with the club. Like the federal government, the night club is nothing more than an institution designed to transfer money from haves to have nots. I can't recall ever going to a club and making through the night without getting the urge to go behind the bar and make a molatov cocktail.

Thunderbird93 · 2018-10-05T13:44:33+00:00

In economic terms, monitor your marginal propensity to consume. For every dollar you make how much is saved? How much is invested? I think your essay touches on the problem of consumerism that is rampant in America. The whole buy now pay later mentality is what is driving the country further into debt. It occurs both at the microeconomic as well as macroeconomic scale,current debt to gdp ratio for the U.S is 108%. Contrast that with ze Germans who have it at 64% and are known for their frugality,also happens to be Europes largest economy

hatguyfromXKCD · 2018-10-04T23:31:04+00:00

https://i.imgur.com/4sBuzKD.gif

*Sheds Single Tear*

Well done OP someone here is finally getting it..

frooschnate · 2018-10-05T01:16:54+00:00

Right...

But see I’m in Berlin for the first time and my man Villalobos was playing at Berghain.

How could I not go and suck some gay german dick while I’m at it

haroldpeters · 2018-10-05T03:40:51+00:00

Mate if your clubbing in Edingburough that's the issue. I think generally getting wasted is a waste. But with the right strategy, and knowledge u can get entry for free into a club, buy one drink and walk out 15 mins later with a chick ready to bang.. I've done this many times.

EPArt · 2018-10-05T06:11:02+00:00

Your not wrong cant see a single thing in this post that i doubt. So many go for fun and get so drunk they wont even remember it. I mean nothing wrong with going every now and again but if its one of those situations that people go everyday or the amount of people who complain about always being broke after spending 6 months plus wages on a holiday just to do it over and over again. Or stay in the same job for years never moving or taking promotions. Its fine if your comfortable with it but if you want to aim higher its always possible to try you may not succeed but at least attempts can be made.

“Never let a person who is more successful than you to work harder than you.”

This one resonates with me lately my work ethic has really decreased and this is why.

replicaplater · 2018-10-05T00:32:40+00:00

I agree with you on it being a waste of time/money if you're just focused on getting pussy. That being said, if you're a well-connected guy within the club scene i.e. personal friends with owners/promoters or high profile DJs, and have good game you can certainly get laid. If you're just a random nobody waiting in line to get in and paying the cover charge etc, you're fighting an uphill battle more often than not.

Club owners and promoters are creating value, maybe not to you, but value to other people nonetheless. If anything, what they do is more impressive in that they've successfully created a false perception of value which many people buy into.

bouldurer · 2018-10-05T01:48:49+00:00

Not sure about others, but I go to the club to dance. I don't chase the ladies, I don't drink, just dance. Ten bucks for two hours of dancing is a good deal for me.

Just don't be a sucker and show up at 11:30 and wait in line for two hours...

Title	Never Go To A Nightclub
Author	Lendoran
Upvotes	67
Comments	89
Date	October 4, 2018 11:17 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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