Earlier today I opened Snapchat to reply to a few people, and one of those cancerous buzzfeed news cards caught my eye. The title read, "I'm dating two guys." The video basically consists of an HB6 hamstering about "love" and "freedom" that her relationship cultivates.
Open relationships can mean different things to different people. This sub embraces open relationships as two people in a relationship who can also fuck whomever they please. From what I've read in the sidebar and also gathered from reading TRP for the past few months, an open relationship really works if you, as the male, are in control.
In the video that Buzzfeed posted, I couldn't help but notice that these men aren't in control of their relationship, but instead are subjecting themselves to a form of voluntary cuckoldry. Lets start with the cuckolds:
Beta male 1: John
Relationships are always something I was nervous about getting into
"I have no social skills, and can't game women."
And then I met Kate. She basically wouldn't have it any other way.
"Kate wears the pants in the relationship and I can't do anything about it."
Here's the first gem:
When Kate first told me she was seeing someone else, it was like a punch in the gut for a second...and all these fears and insecurities just bubbled up, like "What if I'm not good enough? Like why is she looking outside of me, like what could she possibly need? And she goes over to this guy and hugs him. I'm like, "wow." and it was a big breakthrough for me.
This man, for a split second, experienced the anger that a lot of us on this sub feel when we first swallow the pill. He was so close to seeing the truth. But then, the programming from his feminist overlords kick in, and he suppresses his masculinity. He realizes that even though she if fucking this other guy, there is nothing he can do about it. So he forces himself to be OK with it.
He then goes on to say how he developed feelings of "Pride" and "Love" for himself because he reacted in a way that his blue-pill programming taught him.
Enter Beta Male 2: Andrew.
It just felt good, it felt right to get into this relationship, just to try it out and see how it works and just be fully, 100% committed.
Wait, what? If he intends to be in an open relationship, why is he 100% committed to this girl? This is proof that deep down, he knows that he is not OK with his situation, but there is no way he can change it.
I instantly felt those negative emotions - I need to be better than him,... The emotions changed because I made a conscious decision to want to change them.
It's interesting how both of these men had the same gut reaction. It's almost like they both know they aren't actually OK with it. But this guy acknowledges that he forced himself to suppress his feelings.
I get jealous of Kate all the time, but the jealousy started to diminish over time as I start to realize that the jealousy was stemmed from ego.
"I am angry and resentful that I can't control my relationship. But over time I accepted that I can't change the fact that I'm a beta male."
And here's some lines from Kate:
An open relationship for us just means that we're open. (Duh) If that's a new partner, if that's like a one night stand every once in awhile, just whatever feels right for either of us.
HB6 confirms RP truth: women are hypergamous and want to fuck Chad.
Our relationship dynamic is a "V", so like, I'm the partner here (center), and I have two partners, but it's not connected.
"I am in charge of the relationship, everything revolves around me."
They're not dating anyone else, but if they meet someone and they decide to start, they're more than welcome to.
"I know these men worship me and are devoted to me, so I'm not worried about them standing up for themselves and dating someone else."
It's really not about sex. It's about being able to connect with people
"It's not about sex with these men. These men give me validation, while Chad gives me sex."
The idea of closing yourself off to any other partner seems inherently unnatural.
Need I say more?
We're all coming from a place of love - it's not about sex, it's not about not wanting to commit, it's about wanting to experience love.
Again, she basically admits that she doesn't desire sex with these men. She wants to experience "love" (validation, free stuff, etc), while getting fucked by Chad.
Essentially what this boils down to is this: Kate knows she has the upper hand in her relationships. She has acquired essentially two beta-orbiters that she holds onto with promises of "love" and "freedom." She knows that these males are too beta to stand up for themselves while she fucks whoever she wants to.
The full video is here if you want to see for yourself.
TL;DR Woman holds onto 2 beta orbiters under the guise of an "open relationship," while in reality, these men are too beta to stand up for what they want.
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