A large part of swallowing the red pill is in understanding that women and men are actually different and understanding in what ways they are different. This fact has become very controversial in our society, whose narrative largely depicts women as men without penises. The reality is that men and women are very biologically different and this post is meant to share with you a really unique perspective on what is the difference between how it feels to have male vs. female hormones in your body.
Last week on the front page of Askreddit there was a thread asking transgendered people about unexpected changes they felt after they took hormones and (presumably) surgery. Submissions were frozen at that moment, so I am submitting this now.
The responses that people are giving are very interesting, and reveal something very red pill about the nature of how different hormones affect us.
Let's start with comments from "male to female" transgendered commenters:
I was completely unprepared for the emotional changes. Once I began treatment I became incredibly sensitive and empathetic. Ever giggle at girls that cry at commercials, gifts, a cute kitten? Yeah that's me now. I was nowhere near this emotional before, but now, even years later, emotions just seem more powerful.
It’s confirmed. Men and women are not identical, we do experience emotions in a different way. But this was not the only such report from male to female cases.
Men are way nicer to me in general while women have more polarized attitudes toward me; they're either much nicer or much more dismissive… People seem generally more eager to help, like when I got a flat tire, or if something technological isn't working…People open doors for me a lot more, and let me through in traffic.
Surprise surprise. Men are nicer to women, and women often hate each other.
After reading the thread, and seeing everyone talk about libido, I just want to say that my orgasms are Earth shattering now. Body trembling mind explosion orgasms. Even my skin feels more sensitive to touch. Like, oh.my.god. This shit is thoroughly good.
This one is important to note. Men often forget how much more powerful sex is, in physical and psychological terms, for women. This is why alpha widowing is such a thing. If you can control a woman sexually, you’ve implanted herself in her mind in a very deep way. If you can’t do that, there’s not much that can be done to compete with a man who can.
Here’s another very red pill remark from a “male to female” transgender:
Emotionally, I'm less depressed, still depressed sometimes, but overall, life is just okay, as opposed to horrific. Highs are higher, lows are lower, I get lonely more easily, which is strange I guess. Libido goes all over the place, sometimes up super high and sometimes non existent (like currently) I think most guys don't know what it's like to go to bed and think "do I want to masturbate? Nahhhh sounds like a waste of time" but that's me some nights. This compounds with my third point, the desire for sex is low, but the reward is so much higher. Orgasms become something completely different, it's like someone dumped a bucket of awesome over your whole body, instead of just awesome shooting out of your dick I guess.
Female hormones made this person more emotional (surprise!) and more fickle about sex, and when sex does happen, it’s more intense. It’s often said here – all women are sluts for the right man.
I didn't expect all the support I got. When I started transition, I was attending high school in a conservative, religious suburban town in the Deep South. I was worried that I'd be bullied or attacked, but everyone was awesome. The administration didn't give me any problems about bathrooms, my classmates used my new name and pronouns without a hitch, and students I didn't even know came up to me in the hallway to congratulate me. I was blown away by how positive the whole experience was.
Imagine that. The victim narrative was mostly fantasy. Another comment in the same vein:
I wasnt expecting how people would react. I thought i would be stared at and tormented by people in public. But 99% of people do not notice or seem to care.
SJW’s take not. No one actually cares.
Now let’s look at some “female to male” responses and what kind of things former women had to say about life with male hormones:
The most wonderful change for me, personally, has been the sort of calming effect testosterone has on my emotions. I feel a lot less intensely now and, as someone who used to cry at every little thing, it's a serious blessing. I also now can't really cry--I can feel like I want to/am going to but the tears are non-existent. Being able to kind of keep my emotions in check has been wonderful, and I've made a lot of progress maturity-wise because of it.
It’s biologically more difficult for women to control their emotions. It’s evil for men to say this because privilege or something, but if a post-op transgendered man is saying it, it really tells you something.
The main lesson to take away from this is the fundamental red pill truth is somehow controversial in our society: men and women are fundamentally different, and our biology causes us to think and behave in different ways.
You can’t interact with a woman assuming that her thought processes are functioning in exactly the same way that yours are because they just aren’t.
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