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[–]Reddit1984Censorship 46 points47 points48 points 3 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link
If you wait for women to send signals to youll either have a sexless death waiting for signals that will never come OR you are hot enough that you would never have the need to cold approach in the first place.
Maybe a better advice would be on what to do to receive more of this signals, but just waiting for them to happen is not viable imo.
[+]NeverBackDrown -9 points-8 points-7 points 3 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
Again READ if you work on yourself in the GYM like the SIDEBAR has told you to do you Get CHOOSING SIGNALS daily.
I get at least 1 CHOOSING SIGNAL daily when I go out. Mu success rate with these woman are 80% VS Cold Approach 5-10%.
If you are looking for an EASY solution this is NOT for you as you have to put in work to IMPROVE yourself first like the SIDEBAR stated.
[–]Ok-Professional3832 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think having to emphasize your words using caps lock is very alpha.
It screams insecurity and attention seeking.
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well good thing I wasn’t trying to be ALPHA😂😂 I get your point though I typed all this on my phone and didn’t know how to use bold or Italics. Thanks for the constructive criticism.
[–]NeverBackDrown -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If Caps lock is enough to upset you than maybe you should reconsider what it means to be alpha😂
[–]Reddit1984Censorship 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
5% can be better because you can cold approach women indefinetly, just approach 20 and you got a hit on average, while ''warm approach'' is limited in amount right, you got 1 shot daily with 80%. But taking into account what you said ill say that is better to cold approach in places where people dont know you as for your reputation not get tainted in the ways you describe, while warm approach is better in places where your reputation is relevant i can agree with that.
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So what im getting is a lot of you would rather take a 5-10% chance( Being Generous in reality 2-3%) than a 60-80% chance with a 70% chance of converting into A Long Term situationship.
My math WORKS. And you avoid REJECTION instead of embracing it. IMPROVE yourself and you wont have to COLD APPROACH.
[–]Reddit1984Censorship 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think it depends on your style, playing your advantages, maybe you are better at the cold rather thah warm, what im saying is that theres value on both, although i concede in an eviroment where people know you is better to warm approach. So you look bad when rejected by cold approaching, but you also look good when scoring while cold approaching, thats a feat that has meaninful value as well, and an experienced cold approacher probably knows how be rejected without looking so bad. Practice in both makes you better sex warrior overall for sure.
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This post was for people older than 25, thats in the hopes you are out of the phase where Pussy is the #1 thing on your mind. Meaning you are not actively chasing it daily.
That is the phase I am at in life, so I never cold approach because that would mean I was taking time out of my day to chase something which has little meaning to me.
[–]Reddit1984Censorship 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I see, the post comes across a bit agressive i guess thats why people are being agressive back, but i cant tell you know what you are talking about. What do you think about mgtow or monk mode then if pussy is not a priority, how do you see a no pussy or limited pussy lifestyle, do you think pussy even though is not the priority is still fundamental to your fullfillment, or is it just a wet juicy boost to your life? Ive being out of the ring for years but im consiring coming back just for some casual sex here and there.
[–]NeverBackDrown 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I noticed that thanks, I included a disclaimer at the top as I understand the need to get pussy at 18-25, so this method should really be for those who have gotten their fair share and don't place that as a priority in life. Thanks.
Since I do get at least 1 choosing signal daily I am never in a hungry mindset and instead live in abundance. This allows me to focus on accomplishing my life goals. At this point in my life its a nice benefit but I could go celibate for 1 year and not even care cause I have been there and done that.
If all you are looking for is casual sex than Cold Approach would probably be the way to go. But again this is for guys older than 25+ with some experience.
Would you rather have 10 ONS or 3 longterm (3+ months) partners who you don't have to commit to as they already shown they were attracted to you. So you can skip all the games.
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
All the woman I warm approach actually LIKE me from the beginning. Meaning in 60-80% of the time NO DINNER DATES. I can usually get them to the crib that same Day, depending if im in the club or LATER IN THE WEEK. Also MOST OF them end up being LONG TERM HOOKUPS or Friends with Benefits. Meaning I have REGULAR ACCESS to them further REDUCING the need to Cold Approach in general
Also as I said in my post this is when you are OLDER than 25 so you can get all the HORNINESS out of you because I get it we are men.
If you are OLDER than 25 and still CHASING women you’re Priorities jn Life are backwards.
[–]Reddit1984Censorship 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Interesting, do you ''acknowledge'' to her that you received the signals immediatly? How do you play that? Do you mirror the signals? Or do you keep fishing for more signals, make her work harder, tease her, pulling and pushing, if that makes sense.
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Different on the situation however you HAVE to say something before you leave or else she’ll believe you’re not attracted. My success rate jumped to 80-90% using this method though. And my retention rate is now 3 months at least
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
For example this gym employee gave me those fuck me eyes and a wide smile when I checked in the gym. Later when we caught each others eyes during my workout.
I approached her as I was leaving the gym so around 1 hr later got her number and smashed that night. You don’t have to rush it but don’t not say anything it makes you not look confident
[–]Reddit1984Censorship 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
So do you yourself also look at her with fuck me eyes, or i guess ill fuck you eyes?
Again really depends on the situation. In this one I gave her a smile but didn't do much else as I wanted to focus on my workout first.
But usually I will just give her a smile and some sultry eye contact to let her know I understand. But no more than that, you want to play it cool I guess.
[–]Reddit1984Censorship 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ok so basicaly you want to signal back but a less intense signal that the one you received, i presume as you said the intention is for her to be the one chasing you, therefore she has to be the one putting more effort and signaling at all times, at least thats how i imagine it working, and you just smoothly go along with it directly to the bedroom.
Exactly women love to chase guys, but ONLY those that they choose. So when you do get that signal don't immediately give her full indicators of your interest. Make her work for it a little, Women love to do this as it indicates your High Value.
Low value men would JUMP at the opportunity but a man who already has women and his life in order can take or leave it. And that attitude shows with how you interact with her You CAN'T fake it, which is why this is for MEN past the age of 25 or who have already had their fill in life.
[–]Reddit1984Censorship1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Exactly , im 34 and i get a fair amount of signals just by mindining my own bussiness, just by going grocery shoping the cashier signals me, or at a restaurant the by the waitress and so on, and this is while im in terrible terrible shape, im 260 pounds at the moment the max ive ever been, but i have a very wide nice upper back wich i believe is my most attractive quality for women, and a nice beard and deep voice and 5'10. So i can only imagine the signaling i would be getting if i actually got in good shape again, although i mostly adjudicate my age for them because i believe men 35's are the equivalent of womens 22's as our sexual attractiveness peak age. I reject them all because ive being very mtgow for years, just the though of having to endure a woman annoying me with woman stuff kills my boner, but my best friend just got a great hook up and is fucking every day is making me wanna go get some as well haha as but in the most casual way possible if not straight up prostitutes as plan b.
[–]NeverBackDrown1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Here we go, anyone can get choosing signals.
[–]Cryptonological 25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
man stfu. i get what you are saying but i get all my lays from cold approaching.
[–]MrAnderzon 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cold Approaches or Choosing signals in both instances the man has to be able to identify those signals and be attractive.
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You obviously didn’t read as I clearly Stated COLD APPROACH WORKS its just not the Best Way. What are your success rates i’m assuming less than 10%.
I don’t do things with less than even a 30% chance of success. So go READ, you can keep getting REJECTED 80% of the time assuming you succeed 20%(WHICH is A CRAZY high percentage)
[–]Cryptonological 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yeah sure, let me whip out my calculator and an excel sheet.
[–]NeverBackDrown -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very funny, but im sure you understand my piint unless you are obtuse. This method only works once you stop caring about pussy and place your life as a priority.
Doing this helps me avoid attention seeking women and I am viewed as the prize because they CHOSE ME.
Ask yourself who a woman values more the 5 guys who cold approach her everyday. Or the 1 guy she chose and who approached her? Maybe this game is too advanced for some of you.
[–]NeverBackDrown -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Waiting for CHOOSING SIGNALS than approaching ahas resulted in a 80% Success Rate for me with 95 NO Flake Rate.
[–]Flying_Wingback 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
You can make all the money in the world, you can have the physique of a Greek god and you might even be fucking all these bitches off the apps or choosing signals but if you can’t talk to a random woman without getting her permission first, you will never be the man that you think you are
[–]NeverBackDrown -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Why are you going after random women who don’t know who you are? Instead of focusing on your purpose.
And if you read what I just stated You Still have to approach women it just lets you know who is there to waste your time and who isn’t.
Also I said nothing wrong with cold approach just not my preferred method. As I clearly stated its fine when you’re 18-25 or whatever age it takes you to realize Pussy is meaningless and there are more important things in life.
[–]grump80 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Bruh what you lack is self-confidence and your argument is an empty defense for social-ineptness
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
https://imgur.com/a/AS6edGT Here's a photo of me. I promise you the last thing people call me is lacking self-confidence. Hell I get called pretentious and egotistical more.
Which now that I think about it makes sense as I see myself as the prize and don't see the value in approaching random women for sex. Please upload one of yourself .
[–]grump80 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
You obviously aren’t past 27 years old and your previous comment is proof of your immaturity. No one cares how you look if you’ve got no game and that’s the essence of this sub, helping men become the best version of themselves which you clearly aren’t with that type of thinking.
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
So me looking my best isn't becoming the best version of myself?
Which version of me do you think gets the most respect the one I just showed you or me without all that? You sound dumb.
I have game, as I get choosing signals, still haven't seen a picture of you yet waiting on it.
I get enough choosing signals to where the strategy I just posted works for me guess I should've prefaced it with that.
Still no picture of you, let's see who's behind that keyboard other than a loser.
[–]Flying_Wingback 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Listen bro the point here is yes the choosing signals strategy might work for you to get laid just based off the looks and the abs but that raw masculinity of approaching a random chick without needing her approval first and risking rejection is still something you’re scared of.
You are not understanding. I already stated I went through my Cold Approach phase.
I am past approaching random women in hopes of getting laid, because that's the only reason to cold approach.
Now I put my focus completely on building my life into the best version. The women that come into my life have to send IOI's or else I won't waste my precious time.
You only get to this point once you realize pussy isn't everything.
Will I Cold Approach a dime if I want her. Yes I will .
That's not the point though, my whole thing is I stopped focusing on women and am ok with being Celibate for years if I have to in order to accomplish my goals.
[–]grump80 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Looking your best is subjective and prone to err. As the pill says keep becoming the best version of yourself and don’t stop when you get 2 or 3 abs popping out like the dude in that pic - there’s always a more ripped guy out there.
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Well I know this is my best version as only I have been with myself my whole life. Not something really up for debate.
I put in the work and my physique is a testament to that. Im not worried about the next guy out there more ripped than me.
That's a lot of you guys problem always worried about what some other man is doing instead of putting your head down and grinding..
[–]grump80 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Bruh you aren’t the best version of yourself yet you still have a long way to go. Appreciate your gains but stop being myopic. Men don’t physically prime till in their early 40s
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
As of right now I am the best version of myself. I am stronger than I have ever been and more cut then I have ever been.
I know this as I take progress pics and track myself.
I am not saying this is the best I will be obviously if I continue training I will reach my peak eventually.
But as of this moment right now yes I am my best version.
[–]grump800 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Go ahead with your mental masturbation and wait for your Snow White to wake you up with a kiss from your sweet slumber or get out there and warp on your reality.
[–]NeverBackDrown2 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'm confused how is me being at my strongest and leanest in my life not also me at my best?
In this very second I am the best version of myself physically.
I don't understand how difficult that is to comprehend.
At this very second I am the strongest I have ever been and my physique is the best it's ever looked as I track it.
You're not making much sense.
Obviously there is still work to be done but I am my strongest which means the best I've ever been.
Does that make sense?
obviously there’s still work to be done
Doesn’t this negate your argument?
Are you purposely acting obtuse.
I clearly said THIS is the best ive looked my entire life.
There is always room for improvement but as of right now this is the best.
If I were to gain 30lbs I would not look as good as I think I do.
Doesn't mean I am not at my best right now.
Your best is dynamic. Fuck shouldn't be this hard to understand.
Not going to indulge your conceitedness. There are a million and one more ripped guys with their shit together cold approaching women so why should they go after you?
I don't know why don't you go ask them :)
See how easy it is to make a judgment on the internet without knowing shit.
Taught you a lesson huh.
[–]YMEYMEYME 16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
CRINGE post especially the WAY you type random words into CAPSLOCK for NO particular reason.
Your anecdotal advice isn't universally applied to all men. If you want people to take you seriously, don't state stupid made up statistics like 'your succes rate will increase to 90%'. If you have a perspective you want to convey, make it short and concise, I've had to read through all this garbage which you could write in 10 sentences total.
[–]Cryptonological 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's the statistics that sent me. I'm expecting him to whip out an excel sheet next.
[–]PillUpAss 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
In sales, you win through a combination of inbound, outbound, referrals and upsells. In the end, the color of the money you make is the same so it don’t matter.
Also, I fully disagree cold approach (outbound) lowers your value. My experience has been the exact opposite.
My point is would you rather have a 10%< chance at success or 70-80% chance?
Cold approach does lower your value as again when have you EVER seen Drake, Future, or someone of status Cold Approach a female? My point is if you have status and are living in abundance you NEVER have to cold approach as you will already have your fill of women.
Women know this, same way when you have a GF you seem to magically get more looks and interest from women right? You give off a different energy when you are living in abundance.
[–]PillUpAss 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Bro, you ain’t Drake. That’s top 0.0001%. That’s a world of inbound none of us will likely ever know. Trying to get there is overkill, game is a far better payoff for time invested.
So consider, at your 10% success rate for cold approach (which is high if you’re talking lays, but whatever), you’d fuck 1 out of every 10 girls you approach. Realistically, it takes 2 hours to have 10 sets. That means you could fuck / get numbers from / whatever 1+ hot young girls per day. Game is the only strategy that will give you those kinds of results.
Ask yourself now - Is this post really just looking for validation because you don’t want to do the work?
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Ok, you obviously don’t understand. Men who are already getting pussy like drake don’t Cold Approach Women.
Ill say it again men in abundance don’t chase women or cold approach. Why? Because they already have it.
When you cold approach you let her know you are in a drought otherwise you wouldn’t be trying. Foes that make sense?
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Im speaking from the perspective of someone who is living in abundance its a wast le of my TIME which I value more than any female. To Cold Approach. Again this advice is assuming you are already getting pussy and not needy
[–]PillUpAss 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
How do you mainly sourcing pussy now, after your injury? My impression was you were back in the have nots category (can’t claim that 0.00whstever % on campus). If you are still a star athlete, I get it.
If not - How many girls are you currently fucking in rotation?
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
That was years ago, wasn’t a star athlete but my physique carried me as I was well above the average college student in terms of looks.
I still maintained my physique through college and in accordance to the sidebar where it says to workout.
That allows me to get choosing signals and I capitalize off that and maintain those relationships as long as I can.
[–]PillUpAss 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
So you only approach ioi’s. Still outbound, we call that “a warm lead.” Stay abundant my friend.
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Capa lock is only for emphasis im. typing on my phone so I cant bold or Italicize
Yes but again that’s because I stopped making pussy my #1 priority which I have stated takes Time usually guys realize this by the time their 25 or whenever they have had multiple lays.
It would be a waste of my time to try and convince a woman to like me nowadays through the cold approach.
So the only woman I go for are those who show me signs of interest or as you said IOI. This saves me immense time as it leads to a long term lay almost 70-80% of the time as I try to keep those woman in my rotation for as long as possible.
They let me do this as they CHOSE me not the other way around. Making me the PRIZE in their eyes, and they’ll do danm near anything to win the PRIZE.
[–]PillUpAss 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Where you may be stuck is mastery of cold approach isn’t about convincing her to like you. It’s about seeing if you like her.
No, you only Cold Approach women who are physically attractive correct? Women aren’t stupid they know this meaning she knows when you saw her the first thing you thought of was sex.
What you’re saying is not in line with cold approach, you don’t cold approach someone looking for a good personality correct?
My method allows you to deal with ONLY women who have shown IOI which now means she is trying to IMPRESS you not the other way around.
You are in control and have all the power with my method. Cold approach you willingly give away power to her in order for her to reject or accept you.
[–]PillUpAss1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Ever meet a hot girl you can’t stand? I have.
Yea same here through both Cold Approach and my method. At least my way you have a Higher chance of converting to a lay. With cold approach you just wasted time and energy and shes much more likely to play with you as she knows you like her.
Your point?
[–]PillUpAss2 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You have the wrong frame for me. Sounds like butthurt laziness. But if you’re happy then god bless.
So being focused on getting what I have to do in life is butthurt laziness.
You sound like you’re still at the point in life where you think Pussy is the priority 😂😂 Im focused on building my life and don’t have time to be cold approaching random women.
I value my time more than that. It should be used making money not for a 10% chance if getting laid😂
You either are very young or very dumb. Pussy will always be there. I realized that at 20 and haven’t cold approaching since.
Tell me 1 thing of value you gain from sex? Other than a nut😂😂
Focus on building your life into the best version and pussy will come I promise. Ever heard the adage “First you get the Money, than you get the power. than you get women” They are the LAST aspect of life to focus on.
When you Cold Approach you place them first. My method allows you to focus on your life and build it while getting some play on the side. But again this may be to advanced for most of you as it took me a decade 10-20YrsOld to recognize this.
Just trying to save you guys the time. Focus on yourself and stop waisting time Cold Approaching women. I promise they will come but ONLY if you focus on yourself. And at that point you won’t even care.
[–]Maleficent-Paint-343 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I get your point but not all of us are going to become high value to the point of becoming famous, getting recognizable social status or becoming rich to the point of driving a very nice car down the road. Focus on yourself is nice to say but in reality I want sex now. Not tomorrow. I want it today. In order to get it today, I have to play the numbers game.
If I only focus on women that give me IOIs, I will be losing out on potential women who don't give me IOI but will like to get to know me only when I approach and talk to them. Getting women to approach you is not easy without fame or money. You can become a bartender and that's a cheap way to do it, but there aren't that many ways to do it.
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yea you will miss out on those who potentially would not have sent you IOI. But im at the point in my life where I already have a rotation so I never am in a drought. Meaning im always satisfied and don’t care about adding more woman as I use my time to further my life.
Again this is only for those who are past the pussy fiend phase and have built themselves into someone of status. Whether that be financial social or physical, either works.
[–]Maleficent-Paint-343 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I have a friend who has an athletic well-built body that draws attention of many women, him being 6'2 also helps. But he's a somewhat successful drug dealer in eastern europe who had enough money and time to build his body. It took a LOT of effort to build his body according to him.
Point is, if you have something you can leverage to get women easier by 25-26, sure - use it and focus on other things. But what if I don't? Does that make me a loser and I need to go monk mode to get there? Or should I keep working at where I'm headed, but still pursue women in the free time I have?
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Im 6’3 210 and a former CFB player at around 8% BF. I wasn’t always this way it took about a decade to develop my mindset of putting myself first instead of woman.
I’m not going to lie to you you will have to do the same in order to utilize this method. You’re not a loser unless you think you are. I had to go Monk mode as you would say but involuntarily as I would’ve much rather been having sex.
Its going to take as long as it takes unfortunately that time period is different for everyone. My advice would be to put yourself and your purpose first. The woman who are meant to be in your life will give you those IOIs and depending on where you’re at in life you will convert those to lays.
I wouldn’t tell you to avoid all woman just don’t Cold Approach like these guys would tell you to. If it really gets bad I would even tell you to buy an escort just to release and refocus on your grind.
Because once you get to the point where your life is in order everything falls into place I promise. Meaning you HAVE TO hit the gym, take care of your face, and build a social life in order to obtain the best results.
Itll take time how much depends on you entirely and how serious you take it. Took me a decade to get to this point.
[–]Maleficent-Paint-343 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'll agree with you on the fact that as we age it's best to choose paths of least resistance - building the right social circles with women, getting real hobbies where women can be met, your body, financial assets and status etc than blatant cold approach. Meaning focus on yourself before others.
But then again, I know guys in their late twenties and thirties who are beast at cold approach in bars/clubs/daygame. They know the game in and out, are extremely charismatic, energetic and pull all the time. I dated very attractive women through them - they made the first steps in cold approaching groups of women and I'd slip my way in the interaction. They made this far only by consistently approaching, getting rid of anxiety, social barriers and becoming a better person.
In the end it's about what game you want to play. Life is a game. There are no set of strict rules to play it by. Whether you have a range rover or you can talk your way into any situation is up to you.
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It really comes down to thsi. When you die what do they talk about, How many woman tou slept with? or what you’ve accomplished in life?
At some point you got to ask yourself when have you had enough pussy? I reached that point earlier than most at 20yrs old. And now am focused entirely on building my life to the best I can.
The pussy i’ve gotten now has essentially fallen into my lap as I never go out of my way to Cold Approach and instead let woman Choose me.
Saves a lot of time and money.
[–]BrickedHampster 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Nah, you’re describing the most awkward cold approaches possible, wherein you walk up to them like an alien and try to immediately butt blast them with some bullshit conversation.
A cold approach isn’t a surprise attack awkward engagement like in Youtube videos from 8 years ago.
Let me break it down more actually. If it is that bold you just say hey, hello, or what’s up, and then immediately read her reaction and decide to walk away or not. Shit, if you want, at a bar, you can read the rejection and immediately friend zone yourself and use that to your advantage with other women at the bar if you didn’t come off as a complete weirdo in the first 30 seconds.
[–]NeverBackDrown -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok what is your success rate with that approach I'm guessing less than 20% and that's being Generous. My method has resulted in again 70-80% success and I get to avoid costly Dates, and playing the game of seeming High Value.
As she already knows I am through the fact I didn't cold approach her. Most women get Cold approached 5x at least daily. So don't you think she places more value on the guy who doesn't do that?
[–]BrickedHampster 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How is a cold approach ending in a costly date for you?
Also, who said people aren’t just doing both?
So everytime you cold approach its a ONS? You are trying to get HER when you Cold Approach making her the prize. Meaning you will want to wine and dine her. Forget expensive date just a date in general.
Using my method I dont have to go out on dates 90% because she CHOSE me not the othet way around.
You can do both but why would you if you’re living in abundance? Its a waste if time due to low success rates of cold approach
[–]dynospectrum7 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What kind of autistic bullshit is this? Maybe you should spend another three years on the sideline.
[–]dynospectrum7 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A post is not a discussion, b. Your writing is HORRENDOUS. That’s why I suggest THREE more years on the SIDELINE.
You’re talking about Drake and Future as if there aren’t levels to this shit, and them dudes still approach women.
And don’t get me started on your success rate numbers. You’re pulling shit out of your ass bud. All these dudes might as well cold approach so they can learn social skills. Plenty of girls will fuck without throwing you the AMS patented choosing signals, and many more won’t even though they did.
But please, keep saving us.
Great commentary instead of noting which points of my discussion you disagree with you resort to name calling.
Im guessing your still a teenager however i’ll give you a second chance. What points exactly do you disagree with?
[–]juerz 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Bro, do yourself a favor. Delete this post!
No one has yet to explain to me why you would want to be one of the 5 guys who approach the same girl daily vs being the 1 guy she chooses.
When someone does ill take this down.
And noone has been able to debunk any of the Logic I gave. Check out the replies they always end with me being right.
You can try, go ahead
[–]1_do_not_read_this_ 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And noone has been able to debunk any of the Logic I gave.
I'm guessing most here didn't read past your first few sentences to see that you have no idea what you're talking about.
Well why don't you be the first?
But you may be right im starting to realize based off most of you guys responses this content may be too advanced for most of you guys.
If you like Cold approaching with at most a 5% success rate, be my guess. I promise even the best of us men only have a 20% chance just because women have their own preferences.
So when you Cold Approach you don’t even know if you fit what shes looking for hence the low success rate.
My method allows you to be very positive she finds you attractive and thus have a higher win ratio.
Is that too hard to understand? Let me know
[–]grump80 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
This is the most shitty bullshit ever posted here. You’re trying to find an excuse to keep munching on Cheetos in your mums basement rather than meet girls outside in the real world. Loser.
https://imgur.com/a/AS6edGT heres a photo of me post one of yourself for comparison lol
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Didn't even want to flex on you, just had to let you know don't make assumptions on the internet and avoid name calling.
How are you Red Pill and resort to childish insults. Loser
Still waiting on a comparison picture. Let's see who's the loser out of both of us.
[–]grump80 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Yikes so you really expect me to engage in this beauty contest with you boy? Nah don’t need that shit.
You can keep flexing in your mums bathroom mirror and complain about how you never get girls but tinder sluts or wear a shirt and go cold approach some beautiful women. Your choice.
[–]NeverBackDrown 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
lol, don't need to cold approach as I they give me IOI. Speaking from experience not from what I heard.
That's what im trying to get through your hard head.
I've tried Cold Approaching and Warm Approaching, I will go with the later everytime as the success rate for me is personally 70-80%.
If it works for me why do you care? Seems like your upset, as you came through childishly name calling.
I've put in the work and earned my IOI and surprise surprise the women who give me these IOI are some of the most beautiful i've been with.
So not only do I get to avoid mass failure by trying to play the numbers game but I get what I worked for in the form of IOI which more than likely lead to a lay.
I'm speaking from experience not what I heard lol.
[–]grump80 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Yeah so says the alpha scared of failure.
[–]NeverBackDrown 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
If that's what you call it fine. I just don't see the point in doing something with less than a 10% chance at success.
I used to, when I was younger and dumber and placed pussy on a pedestal. But now I realize there are many more important things than pussy.
I can tell you are not at that point yet or else you would realize how much of a waste of time cold approaching is.
And I never once called myself Alpha, preciate that though since that's what you think of me :)
[–]grump80 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Eureka you finally discovered that pussy ain’t worth pedestalizing.
News flash: even the ancients knew that!
[–]NeverBackDrown 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Well shit obviously you don't know that otherwise you wouldn't be Cold Approaching.
By Cold Approaching you put her on a pedestal. Do you not comprehend that?
You are basically telling her that her beauty is so immense that you had to stop whatever you were doing to go shoot your shot.
Does that not sound like placing someone on a pedestal?
Vs me living my normal life and if a girl chooses me via IOI I have the option to pursue or keep it moving.
When you Cold Approach you give her the power to deny or accept you. I value myself too much to let a random girl deny or reject me based on how good she looks.
[–]grump80 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I cold approach cuz I’m a confident man that goes after what he wants and is outcome independent if she says yes or no to me because I am indeed the prize and can get other women which she senses and is what makes her swoon over me.
If you are such the prize wouldn't women chase you?
Meaning you wouldn't have to cold approach?
lol your almost there buddy.
When have you ever seen the prize give itself away?
People always have to earn it correct?
So if you're such a prize why do you have to give yourself away?
Cmon now shouldn't be this hard.
[–]grump801 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Being a high value man is a compendium or looks, social status and money. You’re still a “wannabe” idk whatever you want to be otherwise I’ll have known you from that pic so don’t expect girls to literally chase an obscure whatever with probably nothing but a few gym PRs
If you say so, shit's been working very well for me that's why I created this post.
As someone who has done Cold Approach and Warm Approach.
I will never go back.
Do whatever makes you happy bro, and i'll do the same.
We can agree to disagree as what you eat doesn't make me shit and vice versa.
Yeah yeah. I should probably mail you a larger mirror as a Christmas present so you can enjoy your narcissism better
Narcissism in the #1 trait of an Alpha male.
You have to put yourself first in this life, I appreciate that compliment as I used to let others be placed in front of me.
Your comment just confirmed to me I have been placing myself first in life and if that comes off as Narcissistic so be it. I would rather be that than what I was before. Thank You
Hey you forgot to add pics of yourself with your hb10s lord Achilles
Why tf would I do that, I already took a risk posting my real self. Not going to expose them as well in hopes of appeasing some anonymous dude on reddit.
But if you go first and i'll do it as well:)
[–]Freezer2609 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
To me going out approaching girls was less about getting pussy (which I initially thought it was), but more about overcoming the fear of rejection and the ensuing feeling coming along with going out, talking to a a few girls, and still going home "alone".
Porn teaches young men that sex will happen in an instant, basically right after meeting (opening a video). Well, it doesn't.
I'm more into social circle dating now, having a vibrant group of people around me, and if a girl stands out I'll do something fun with her without the other friends.
That's where we disagree, I love rejection as it teaches me something everytime.
I believe the Cold Approach and numbers game has made a lot of people numb to rejection which means they don't feel the need to improve.
As I define rejection as not right now for xyz reason. Pick a reason go improve and try again.
Social circle dating is the best and my preferred way of getting women but this method I listed above is secon up.
[–]revente 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
LIMITING BELIEFS: THE POST.
Sorry, as a dude who dated & fucked lots of attractive girls through cold approach in my 30’s, your post is just ignorant.
Using this method of ONLY approaching women who send you these choosing signals you will have a much higher success rate and a much greater experience with women as they are the ones who like you.
Many hot girls, don’t scan the room the way we guys do. Just approach the girl you like the most, instead of looking for a bargain.
This raises her Anti-slut Defenses immediately and results in the abysmal 1%-5% success rate most of you have.
If you ever done any sales, you’d know that 5% is a decent close rate. You could have succes under one hour.
How many of you guys cold approach 7’s and below?) If you think she’s attractive don’t you think everyone else does too?
Actually most guys approach cute-but-not-beautiful girls that seem like easy-lays. Most guys are scared of that one uber hottie.
My point is people are going to watch you go up to that hot chick, get rejected and spend your whole night repeating that.
Lol, nobody pays that much attention to you. You sound like someone who has hever conquerred your social anxiety.
But by letting Woman CHOOSE you 1st
Sure, but your post sounds like a college dude giving advice to older guys.
Even most high status guys, won’t have social circles full of beautiful college-aged chicks.
The real beauties are super rare. There won’t be more than 1-2 in a large, crowded club.
During the week i’m working on my business and self improvement. Then on the weekned i’m gonna have a few shots with my bros, who’d later return to their wives while i’m gonna visit some club that i like.
And if i see a beautiful girl i want to approach, then i’ll approach.
That's fine. Do whatever makes you happy.
I see myself as the prize and thus only give my efforts and time away to women who let me know through IOI.
That is all. I don't think a dime is worth the Cold Approach anymore I value my time to much to try and convince a female to like me.
That's it.
[–]revente 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You’re contradicting yourself. If you were the prize then you’d be going after the girl you like the most ;).
I value my time to much to try and convince a female to like me.
Cold approach isn’t about convincing anyone. It’s about introducting yourself, and seeing if she likes you and your energy.
What gameshow have you ever seen where the prize goes after contestants?
No with Cold Approach you have to put your best foot forward as you are approaching a complete stranger in hopes she likes you.
Don't get that confused you give all the power to her as she is under no obligation to entertain you.
[–]revente 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The prize does whatever the prize wants stop with silly analogies.
[–]lifeintraining 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That’s it. TRP is dead. I’m putting lipstick and a lil’ wig on my hand.
Say's this without providing any justification.
Please tell me where I am wrong. I do not cold approach women as I am too focused on living my life and don't see the value in a method with less than 10% odds of success.
When I was younger, hell yeah.
But as I have gotten more pussy I realized it wasn't worth the effort and so instead place my time and energy in bettering myself and only go after women who show me IOI in order to waste as least time as possible.
Is the Red Pill not in order to self improve or am I missing something.
[–]1-Fidelio- 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The justification is the seething insecurity leaking from each of your posts.
Yes I am insecure for trying both methods and as I have matured realized pussy isn't worth the abysmal success rates cold approach offers and now just go for the warm approach.
Sound's like you are upset I am downgrading the Cold Approach, which is fine to me take your <10% chance I'll keep doing what I am doing it's been working splendidly
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Cold approach is dumb. I get doing it at 18-25 but any older is kind of sad. Women know immediately when you cold approach them that you’re only there for one thing. This raises her Anti-slut Defenses immediately and results in the abysmal 1%-5% success rate most of you have.
3% success rate is normal for men who are attractive and good at this.
That's 30 approaches before you fuck a girl....... BUT...... most of those approaches go nowhere fast so take little time, and the girls who fuck you once will generally fuck you lots of times...... so the ratio is MUCH better than you imply.
The women who like you will send you choosing signals, in the form of a smile, fuck me eyes, putting herself in your presence, starting a conversation, bumping into you by ‘accident’ etc.
Not always. Sometimes yes, but usually not. Women get shy when they are attracted.
You'll get a greater success rate with less attractive women. The hotter they are, the less effort they put in to meeting men. If you make more effort and require less signals from her, the hotter the girls you'll get.
What game at the casino do you plat with a 3% chance of success?
Where’s your sense of pride I value myself more than giving myself a 3% chance, if that means waiting for a year thats fine, why?
Because like I have state multiple times I have ALREADY went through my Cold Approach phase and left with my nuts and pockets emptied.
Wrong again top 9’s and 10’s do put in less effort but only to average men. You do realize supermodels DM men right?
Check the DM of Floyd Mayweather, Drake, or Donald Trump. All these men have made themselves into success stories and have 9s & 10s chasing them.
My whole point is once you have gotten your fair share at SOME point you should realize it’s not worth the 3% chance.
Instead put all your energy into improving yourself (Like I thought The RedPill) was about.
And you will not have to cold approach.
Sure you will miss out on the shy women, and I do love bagging shy women ngl.
However this is an advanced game as you don’t really have that need to chase women anymore. And thus can wait.
The beautiful women only chase the 1% of men. That is facts. Look at any of the Argentina Mens world cup members DM’s.
I promise you they are full of models trying to get to know them, Why? Because they have achieved massive success.
^ Achieve massive success and you will see Women DO CHASE only the top of men.
If you haven’t experienced that it means you have some work to do.
I was like you but through some work I get IOI’s at least once daily and my closing rate with those is 70-80% WAY higher than 3%.
So why the fuck would I cold Approach. I put the work in to get to this point and am reaping my rewards.
When is the last time you seen, Floyd Mayweather, Donald Trump, Mark Cuban, Joe Burrow, Tyreek Hill or any man who has some semblance of success in their life Cold Approach?
They don’t have to because the most beautiful women SEEK them. Same reason any Championship team gets the most pussy.
Or when you were in Highschool the QB got all the attention.
Women HAVE always CHASED men of importance.
If you aren’t being chased you haven’t become important enough. Which sucks but not you know and can fix that.
Men of importance NEVER cold approach so when you do it you automatically let her know you are not important.
Please name 1 man of importance who regularly Cold Approaches women.
Please tell me that you understand that?
Not saying never Cold Approach as we all start somewhere but if your past 25 or whatever age and that is still a priority in your life.
Congratulations you’re in for a long ride
Any man can cold approach a female but not any man can have women chase them.
Does that make sense? I keep trying to word it different as you guys have a certain way of misunderstanding what I am saying.😂😂
Focus on making yourself the guy women chase instead of the chaser.
Im surprised as a Senior Endorsed member I have to explain this to you.
Just goes to show the blind are truly leading the blind.
[–]throwitdownman 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey, at least OP has the balls to post a ‘real’ pic. Even if you disagree, he at least lifts and looks the part. This sub has no nuance - there is always something to learn from contradicting opinions.
IMO building SMV to the point where you no longer have to approach like a dog are endgame goals, he’s not wrong. If you want to get your feet wet, obviously approach, but the end game is for bitches to come to you. If it’s not achievable in the short term, then approach. Chess not checkers.
Thank you bro, I had to clarify this is past 25 yrs old as I get the need for woman before that.
But at a certain point you have to realize there is more to life than approaching 30 women for 1 to say yes.
I'm past that point and am trying to help others get here as well.
Chess not Checkers!!
[–]kclanton80 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Really solid post! I agree. Cold approach is not the way. Level up you character and women will choose.
[–]2319Skew 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
There are so many fallacies in this post. OP, if a man sees a woman he wants, he'll go up and take her. Even if he shoots his shot and misses, at least he's tried something rather than wait for choosing signals out of fear of rejection, or being worried about strangers.
[–]NeverBackDrown -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You didn’t name a single fallacy. My whole point is women get approached by 5x men daily, and may choose 1 guy that day.
Who do you think she respects more, and is more receptive to??
The guy she chooses. I only go for woman who choose me first and otherwise go about my day not being a fiend for pussy and needing to Cold Approach 100 girls to get maybe 5 lays.
Does that make sense? By doing this she automatically associates me as High Value as she CHOSE me not the other way around.
I don’t think I can explain it simpler than that.
Be the guy she CHOOSES not the Guy who CHOOSES her and you will easily convert her into whatever you want.
The power is in your hand once she CHOOSES you. Do you understand? I know this takes discipline that’s why I said it only works past the age of 25.
Or whatever age you finally realize pussy is not a priority in life and thus stop Cold Approaching and instead focus on improving your life.
This may be too advanced for you.
I also stated in my post that there are times when Cold Approach is fine, seeing a random woman that is exactly your type, I don’t see a problem with that especially if you will never see her again.
However I don’t advocate the Cold Approach as a primary way of getting woman as it has low success rates for even the best of us. The best of us are successful 20% of the time and thats outlandish male model results. Due to woman having their own preferences.
The warm approach skips all that as You already KNOW she finds you attractive so you can now approach with confidence.
Do you understand now? This may be a little advanced.
[–]2319Skew 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're coming across as way too emotionally invested in this.
Assuming this isn't a troll post, I'll humor you and answer.
I don't think you honestly care about anything that doesn't reaffirm your worldview since you're quick to be defensive and react to everything like a gender's studies major. But whatever. Maybe someone ELSE will get some value out of this.
I think the fallacies that I can see with your rant is that it boils down to waste of time and rate of failure.
I, personally, don't see it as much of a waste of time to go up to someone I just met, build attraction, and see if I can get them to become someone I see naked. From my perspective, it's a fun chase where I can see how long it takes to build a desire and have them chase. I'm not overly invested in it. My ego is fine if I get rejected.
I'm also not building a deck, painting a room, or tilling a field. It's not a huge time sink. I don't spend my evenings approaching everyone I see with a pulse and tits. Waiting in line for a coffee. Elevator ride. Picking up groceries. Etc. Quick interactions.
Second, you're talking about percentages. You do know that anything is better than zero., right?
According to your reasoning, if I see someone that I want to sleep with, I better hope that she gives me an IOI so that I got something. Otherwise, I'm not getting her. Never mind the fact that if I don't approach her then I'm reducing my low chances to nil.
But I'll agree with you on the fact that when she's giving you IOIs then it's much better. That's not the point I'm contesting. I also don't think anyone is arguing that it's easier to seduce someone that's attracted to you because that'd be pretty stupid, right?
I'm contesting the whole waiting for her to send you choosing signals bit since I believe a man should make his own path instead of wait for a woman to open the door.
Maybe it's because I don't really care if she's been hit on the whole day. I don't even care what she thinks since women's thoughts are fleeting and emotion based.
At any rate, I don't think anything of this will sink in. I can't tell if you're lazy, butt hurt over some rejection, made the earth-shattering discovery that it's easier to sleep with women who are initially attracted to you, on some sort of spectrum, or all of the above but not gonna follow this up.
If it helps, feel free to downvote this comment, say that I'm too young to understand this, call it advanced gaming or whatever pretentious remark helps you feel more secure.
"I think the fallacies that I can see with your rant is that it boils down to waste of time and rate of failure." - Neither of which are fallacies https://blog.hubspot.com/marketing/common-logical-fallacies - here's a list.
We can agree to disagree as you have stated you love the chase and that's fine I have no problem with that.
My problem with the Cold Approach just stems down to the simple fact that it makes you appear lower in value and average. Why?
You think you are the only one who notices an attractive female and has the urge to go talk to her? No she get's 5+ guys like you everyday, meaning when you approach her she already is expecting some stupid pick up line and thus has her guard up.
I already stated I have NO problem with men cold approaching if you like to do it go ahead.
The odds however are never in your favor as you do not know if the woman even finds you to be her preference.
Waiting for IOI allows you to be sure you are not wasting time, you have said that you do not consider this a waste of time and this is where are main disagreement stems from.
I have better things to do than go holler at every girl I find attractive. As I prefaced in the beginning of the original post.
Warm Approach ONLY works if you understand that Pussy is NOT important in life. As a man our job is to build ourselves UP.
I want to be the guy she chooses and the only way I found to do that is to focus on myself and not Cold Approach.
We can agree to disagree, as I am at a point in my life where I would rather have 2 Women who I know are for me as they have sent IOI's.
I have NO problem waiting for them to appear as when they do I KNOW I can convert them to a long term situationship.
That is all
[–]mrschubi40 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think your assumptions are not accurate.
In my experience attractive woman are getting approached once every 2-4 weeks.
For me 70% of the time the woman gives me her number and goes on a date with me. Then on a date the success rate is the same as from online dating. Sometimes there is chemistry, sometimes there is not. The difference is, that if I do cold approach I can get girls which are much more attractive than if I just use online dating. However I do cold approach in university and dont approach somewhere else. I do not waste any time cold approaching since I would be in university anyways.
Not assumptions. So you are telling me College aged girls 18-22 are being approached ONCE every 2-4 weeks.
You do realize they go clubbing almost 3x a week. Are you really telling me they never get approached at the club? That's a fucking lie and a retarded one at that.
They get approached at LEAST 5x every time they go to the club, as that's the main reason most men GO.
COLD APPROACH SUCCESS RATES OF PUA's
I took the liberty of giving you a link which estimates the average man's success rate at 3% not the very generous 10% I previously stated and most definitely not 25%.
Are you crazy?
If your success rate on Cold Approach is 70% you should write a fucking book, or be a male model. As even the best PUA's as noted in the LINK above hit 25%.
I may be talking to the male Aphrodite right now.
And if that was the case you wouldn't be on this subreddit now would you?
How does it feel to lie and then get exposed in that lie?
[–]mrschubi40 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I study in a technical university in a major international European city. The girls im interested in go clubbing once half a year and are usually cute nerdy type girls. The guys in my university are usually shy nerdy type guys who don't go to the gym. Very few guys cold approach here, most people use dating apps. I approach only girls in university either in the cafeteria if they sit near me or in the library. I first start small talk for 1-15 min and then ask them for a coffee. Out of 10 times I did it during my 1.5 years being single, Id say 7 times led to dates and 3 times I got rejected. 3 more times I could sense that the vibe wasnt there or that she was just too shy and I didnt even ask for a coffee. Im not a male model although I am tall and athletic and can get a date a week if I use online dating. But in comparison to the thin nerdy guys with a long beard I am quite attractive. My high success rate doesnt mean I am having multiple beautiful fwb at the same time hence there is still room from improvement and im here.
[–]theredsperg -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this guy is trying to advise men to not approach women, when men have been approaching women since the dawn of time.
rejection is what we do,
rejection is life.
embrace it pussy
[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorNightwingTRP 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is basically a massive post about why I advocate "warming" the approach.
In a sense however, Ill try to summarize.
The Cold Approach is dumb and a waste of time. I live my life getting what I need to get done done. Any interaction I have with woman in hopes of getting laid is always started by THEM.
I never approach a female who has not shown IOI. This results in 70-80% success rate for ME personally.
Trying to get guys to understand Cold Approach is outdated and lowers your value.
Woman get approached by 5x men daily, and may CHOOSE 1 per day.
Who do you think she respects more and responds in a positive manner to? I realized this at 20 so I stopped Cold Approaching and only go for woman who see me as that 1.
Which results in a smooth transition to me getting what I want and I automatically am seen as High Value in her eyes because she CHOSE me not the other way around.
[–]TimeXo9 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well i truly am not that focused on myself but women aint a priority or even a factor anymore
i just want to die in peace.
[–]sussykeke 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So when I see a gorgeous girl that’s not giving signals I’m supposed to just keep on going on with my day? Absolutely not lol.
I see gorgeous women all the time. And if you read any of my post this is post 25 years old meaning you should've already hit a couple of 10's.
If seeing a gorgeous girl gets your panties in a bunch still this is not for you.
Im used to it already, her pussy is the same as any other female I promise. :P
[–]1_do_not_read_this_ 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women know immediately when you cold approach them that you’re only there for one thing.
Didn't read past that. Grow up.
Search my post history for the one called, "Ditch "cold approach" in favor of "learn how to initiate conversations with strangers" without having a goal other than the initiation itself."
And lurk more.
[–]NewCommonSensei 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Will never stop cold approaching, sorry not sorry.
Good for you take that 3% chance if it’s what you want.
This is for men who value themselves more than that.
[–]whataccent 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For the guys in the back: someone explain fuck me eyes.
[–]ddelicia 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Disagree completely that famous dudes don't cold approach. They be sliding left and right in those insta thotties DMs my dude. Simple google search would show you.
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