Hey guys. This post is especially for all my fellow gen Z brothers here, but I think the rest can maybe also learn from it. In this era of non stop socializing via smartphones, it is essential to have game via texting. What I have experienced though, is you don't especially have to send certain texts, it's more about HOW and WHEN you send messages. I target this to gen Z in particular, because we are all always on our phone and women in our age (16-21) really don't have any hobbies. The younger it gets, the less hobbies they have. So they spend all their time on their phones.

Now, what's the best way to proceed? Mixed signals, just like girls do aaaalll the time with us.

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NEVER double text. just don't

I always noticed, that if I for example texted like 'let's go out' once and there was no answer from her side and I did double text to check if she has received the message, the flaking rate was 100%. Now, if I did not check in after the initial message, they always texted back. ALWAYS. Sometimes it was after a day, sometimes it was after a week, once it was even after 6 months. But you have to stay stable and not double text. If she doesn't reply, that was the last thing she has heard from you. (By the way, that's also how a relationship of mine ended. I texted her to ask if she wanted to go out, and never heard from her again until about 6 months later. She came crawling back to me and she was apologizing all the time, but I was long gone)

Delay your response time

Women get turned off by clinginess and signs of oneitis. They only get turned on by the busy man who's on his shit (it doesn't matter what you are doing, you could be playing video games or working your ass off, the effects are the same). Here I also speak from experience. I once was the most clingy and beta guy you could find. And because of that, I always answered to texts right after I got them. It's also important, that you don't look at the message in your messaging app, because on whatsapp (depends on your settings though) and snapchat she will see if you are just pretending to be busy. Also for snapchat: if you are using the snap map feature, use it to your advantage. don't visit snapchat too often, and when you do, don't look at her text right away. That way, she will see that you were on snapchat but didn't answer her. And this will make her go crazy about you.

Shut down the usage of emojis / emoticons

Emojis, if used correctly, can be a nice feature. But many guys just use them too excessively and with that, come off as strange / creepy / whatever. Because of that, you have the ability to stand out of the other guys if you just don't use any emojis at all.

Don't initiate contact more than 49%

This is very important. The 49% should symbolize that you should always be the one initiating contact less than she does. She always gets hit up by guys. Always. It doesn't matter how hot she is. She can be a literal 1 and she will get messages everyday. So be the one who stands out and doesn't just cater to her needs. This is very important after you went out together. After you went on a 'date' or whatever it was, don't text her at least one day. If she texts you, answer her. But don't initiate the first contact. I always experienced the same. If I was the one that hit her up after the date first, she lost interest very fast. But if I did the opposite, she couldn't get her hands off of me.

These subtle things matter more than you may think. For me it changed my whole life. Notice: they will not work on an alredy existing relationship. You have to start like that from scratch so you will be authentic from the beginning. If you play these games in an already existing relationship and it was not the way you acted before, don't expect her to stick around.

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I hope I could help you with that post. If you have any questions go ahead.