Your capacity for violence.

Mckallidon · 2016-10-22T16:36:31+00:00

Women like a dude that could fuck shit up if he had to, but only would if he had to. Basically they have to know you're only a threat to her threats, not her.

edwardhwhite · 2016-10-22T17:39:08+00:00

That is why Ghandi preaching peace, or some neckbeard praising faithfulness is really not virtuous.

Politics and fucking women are not the same thing. If Gandhi or King had started shooting they would have lost bad.

King had ladies on the side, too

Its not blue pill to win at politics. Its about winning. They won.

But we have to be willing to fight for our personal situation at all times. I have gotten into more fights since I got on an RP path 2 years ago than I had in 30 years.

rpmuc · 2016-10-22T15:15:33+00:00

but girls tend to choose these guys because they want to fix them instead of just finding a "nice guy."

Women that stay in abusive relationships typically come from an upbringing that was abusive. "This is how dad provided attention" sort of deal. Chicks that stay in relationships with alcoholics probably had an alcoholic father. I'm sort of talking out of school on that topic though. To your point though yeah girls don't want to date a bitch.

I remember when I was like 17 or so I was driving with this chick that I was dating and at a light some dude on a motorcycle started screaming at me out of no where. I think maybe he thought I cut him off not sure, I didn't make eye contact or react to him but I turned my head to her with a "what's this dudes deal" look on my face. That was the beginning of the end, I think the way I reacted dried her up so fast she needed an IV drip.

Trump_will_win_2016 · 2016-10-22T19:30:36+00:00

A harmless, nice guy is a dud. A violent psychopath is scary and threatening. A controlled dude who not only has the skill to whip ass, but has the mental and emotional capacity to do so is a chick magnet.

Most of us here are not psychopaths, lift, train martial arts, learn to use weapons and have street smarts you fuckers.

villa_gotaha · 2016-10-22T19:50:58+00:00

Don't jack off for a month. Trust me, your capacity for violence will be sky high.

LuvBeer · 2016-10-22T17:02:26+00:00

The female mind is a dark place once you have some experience with it. I attract damaged women like moths to a flame. Most women are attracted to aggression, if she's been sexually abused, it's almost a sure thing.

p3n1x · 2016-10-22T20:08:51+00:00

"I do believe that, where there is only a choice between cowardice and violence, I would advise violence..." -Gandhi

That is virtuous as fuck.

Portraying the idea of running around and wrecking random shit in the name of virtue is silly. Fellas, don't go around being a 'fake bad ass' to prove to yourselves or others you aren't "that neck-beard" or not a pussy. You might run into a real bad ass one day.

Stand up for yourself ABSOLUTELY

Everything else is situational

mandafukup · 2016-10-22T16:43:45+00:00

funny you mention it i recently saw this with my own eyes 2 days ago i was in a club and my friend almost got himself into a fight...i stood right next to him, ready to jump. the scenario ended good, no violence. but me standing there heated and drunk ready to fight got me extra attention from the girls that were with us afterwards. its sad, and reasonable and the same time. girls want the best lion fucking them, the strongest motherfuker. if u believe in your genes and that you are in fact THE alpha male, then you should be ready to face anything...even if it means your life is in danger.

karpathian · 2016-10-22T15:24:17+00:00

I have guns, I have yet to hear a girl say that it's stupid to own any. Get a gun, learn to use it, don't ever threaten people with them. Use them only when absolutely necessary.

SwagnumMagnum · 2016-10-22T18:57:37+00:00

Women, like children, are powerless. They are weak. They are the powerless. So they want and like those with power. Hence why women like bad boys and men with perceived power remember, perception is reality. Same can be said about children. Who do children want to be or like....

Super Heroes, sports star, strong men, Darth Vader.

Those without power crave those with power. The powerless want to be with or be like the powerful.

GuitarsAreGettingOld · 2016-10-22T17:45:30+00:00

This is why we observe that just being a nice guy isn't good enough, you had no other option.

Exactly.

No matter what you do, if you have options and choose one approach over the others you will always be more attractive than when doing something just because you have no other options.

Same for spinning plates and then making one of them your LTR.

Girls want a man who is A. capable of protecting her, but at the same time B. capable of wrecking somebody who threatens her.

And this is a problem I have. Maybe you can help me out.

I am capable of wrecking somebody easily (martial arts background, lifting heavy and no moral qualms about inflicting damage).

The problem is that I don't look as if I was capable.

I am in good shape but not buff at all. I do a lot of compound exercises but keep calories low at the moment. But even when I was fat-built 200 pounds, 6ft, people never thought that I'd be willing to fight, because I have the typical nice guy aura.

And not only that, I come across as educated and intelligent because of the way I talk and lead conversations in reallife. Women seem to think this was mutually exclusive with being a fighter.

Martial arts have changed how I move. Women compliment me on the way I move but they think I have a dancing background or something.

Whenever I mention my martial arts background, for example when we see a movie with fight scenes or talk about sports, I can see how women can't imagine me being in a fight.

Once I was at a party with my then girlfriend. I met a kickboxer and we got along great, talked about workouts and techniques and so on and soon we were exchanging kicks, combinations and throws and had a lot of fun. My girlfriend said afterwards: "I would have never believed that you can do this stuff. And your reflexes are great." "But we have been together for 2 years. You know that I trained a lot of martial arts. Why wouldn't you think I can do this stuff?" "I just couldn't imagine you doing it."

It all changes when for example a bar fight is imminent. My body language completely changes and I come across as threating and dangerous. People are suddenly afraid of me. I haven't been in a fight for over a decade. Not because nobody wanted to attack me but because they backed down when I went into calm but assertive "don't mess with me, I am going to end you"-mode. To the point were a guy put his knife away and just left the bar.

Friends who have seen me like this say that even they were afraid of me in that moment.

So...can you gents help me out here?

I am capable of wrecking somebody who threatens her. But until a woman actually sees me doing it, she won't feel physically protected, because she can't imagine me being in a fight.

What can I do?

EDIT: I'll ask that question over at asktrp, too.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-10-22T16:02:03+00:00

If women are attracted by those who have the power to inflict violence.
And if the State owns a monopoly on the ability to inflict violence.
Then women are more attracted to the State than to men.

This is really the root of the problem.

Why are Beta Bucks considered of low value?

Because at any time the woman can Divorce Rape him and make him into a slave to Child Support and the State will inflict violence (prison) if the man attempts to have a free will.

Women are in love with the State... the State has the maximum violence potential.

Remove the power of the State and man becomes master over women.

Give women the right to vote and they enslave the men through the State.

SomeGuyNY · 2016-10-23T19:29:01+00:00

I don't agree at all with your conclusion.

When I'm clean shaven and smile the level of female attraction I get is very low.

When I'm unshaven (3 to 7 days not huge hipster beard) and mean mug the level of attraction is the highest.

Women want strong warrior types which mainly leads them to abusive guys in the western world.

9-2-6 · 2016-10-23T20:17:19+00:00

Even Gandhi wouldn't completely disagree with what you have to say here:

"It is better to be violent, if there is violence in our hearts, than to put on the cloak of nonviolence to cover impotence."

VicVineger16 · 2016-10-22T17:12:55+00:00

A long standing joke between me and my buddies is if you see a girl at a bar surrounded by guys hitting on her, walk up the group and punch the unluckiest motherfucker there in the face. It's certainly not "how to make friends 101", rather "how to get laid 101".

iConsu · 2016-10-22T21:15:51+00:00

Great post. Another reason to drop the weights and hit the jujitsu mat.

Edit: You guys act as if it's all or nothing. Of course hit the weights from time to time but jujitsu will give you huge gains as well, especially in day-to-day functional strength. Not to mention it's great cardio and you learn how to fuck shit up.

Title	Your capacity for violence.
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Date	October 22, 2016 3:06 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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