Continue initiating, or start from the ground up?

BluepillProfessor · 2017-06-13T00:30:03+00:00

Now the second my hands cross the line from playful rubbing or affection to going into her pants or grabbing her ass she's immediately angry and pulls away, says she asked me stop before and why don't I listen.

Interesting and rational question she asks. Why?

Ass slapping is a highly advanced Kino move and not all women like it. All will tolerate it for the right guy but apparently that isn't you right now. How does she react when you put your hand on her shoulder or hip without an obvious "initiation?" If it is still a violent pull back then you are way, way down the rabbit hole. I would say that's just about the time to go MGTOW and DTB.

That would be my advice for a wife. For a "girlfriend." Definitely DTB. She is rationing sex and being a bitch about it before the wedding? LMFAO.

donedreadpirate · 2017-06-13T11:03:31+00:00

Time to go buddy. You aren't married. You don't have kids. Don't drag this out the rest of your life. Iron Rule #7. She ain't special. You have a lot of work to do on yourself. Monk mode or you'll end up in the same situation.

stonewall1979 · 2017-06-13T01:15:12+00:00

It sucks to learn the 'why' of it, doesn't it? Why she gets mad when you initiate, why she won't initiate, why she will hamster away her no's, why it's no longer fun for her, why your stuck with once a month duty sex. Because for her it's ,"why should I bother?"

Sex is one of the primary ways men feel intimacy and being turned away and rejected from intimacy from her hurts. As Ving Rhames, A.K.A. Marsellus Wallace, said in Pulp Fiction "...you might feel a slight sting. That's pride fucking with you. Fuck pride. Pride only hurts, it never helps". Pride, ego, doesn't matter. Pack it away, stop looking for attaboys, drop any covert contracts and find your OI in self reliance. Or if you prefer, that pain from pride and ego, it's the pain of the blue pill passing out of your system.

Everyone asks if you're lifting because lifting burns away the ego, while building muscle, generates testosterone, clears your mind, and is a way to earn your sleep. Study up on Stoicism as you progress. With the other books and lifting, it'll help with OI and learning to put your ego side.

Initiate whenever you want, but have the OI ready, have a back up activity in place so you can do anything else with out there butthurt. Really, the MRP Veterans here are constantly initiating. For them initiation starts from the last orgasm. They learned this, integrated into themselves, live it, and call it Frame. We're not there yet though. Keep improving yourself, become a better man, and be the kind of man she wants to fuck, suck and blow like your dick has the elixir if life in it. Then when you don't need it, you'll get all you can handle; it just may not be from her though.

redandswollen · 2017-06-13T01:43:30+00:00

She got a trust fund you're looking to tap into? Because that's the only tapping you'll be doing if you stay with her

screechhater · 2017-06-13T03:54:38+00:00

Ok. I'll give it you with both barrels

Boy cut off from sex acts like she has the only pussy in the world. As he begs to tap the love box with words, the begging and pleading turns him into the unattractive troll

Read. Lift. Smile. Above all else, cut the oneitis.

bogeyd6 · 2017-06-13T12:30:37+00:00

You have just accurately described that unattractive men are considered creepy and hostile.

gixxerthouguy · 2017-06-13T12:39:11+00:00

Buddy, you're not even married and you're on duty sex?

Are you purely beta bux? Does she work, earn more than you? Are you funding her lifestyle? Are bills split 50 / 50?

I hope,if you guys are living together, that you are not funding her lifestyle.

Start being a better man, and decide if she is worth your effort.

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2017-06-13T15:01:27+00:00

the second my hands cross the line from playful rubbing or affection to going into her pants or grabbing her ass

Going to weigh in here with this sounding like you're trying to slowly bridge from affection (rubs, massages) to sex. And by doing so you are ASKING her a covert question: "Are you OK with allowing this?" It makes it seem like youre afraid of her response. And this puts her in the position of making a decision to be sexual or not. Women hate making decisions.

Instead, cut right from massage DIRECTLY to an overt move for sex. Make it sudden like spinning her around to kiss her. This is you communicating "I want sex now." You are commanding, with clear, strong intention. It displays confidence in what you want, and is also a turn on.

I recognize the parallel between what I just said and W&S's reply to my recent OYS. Make your intentions known and unapologetic.

BobbyPeru · 2017-06-13T03:12:23+00:00

The issue is not you trying or not, the issue is you're being a "try-hard."

Lift, sidebar, STFU

JDRoedell · 2017-06-14T13:30:36+00:00

Easy. You lift and get hawt like your life depends on it. Give six months of honest effort with an honest mirror check at the end of it. If she's still putting up this kind of resistance after you're fit, you walk. Holy fuck you're lucky to have found this place at this stage of your ltr.

AustralianArm · 2017-06-12T23:53:14+00:00

Stop worrying about sex. Stop trying for sex.

Focus on improving yourself. For you.

The rest will come when you stop trying to force it. In fact, she will come to you.

chachaChad · 2017-06-12T23:34:38+00:00

Stop initiating altogether. You are nowhere near attractive enough for her. You’re only making it worse. You need to read all the sidebar and lift and work on yourself. Why should she fuck you?

Title	Continue initiating, or start from the ground up?
Author	1puck
Upvotes	8
Comments	28
Date	June 12, 2017 11:20 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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