Help me decipher this test before I fuck it up

2ndal · 2018-02-22T18:57:08+00:00

I'd respond with "Wow the Fresh Prince looks old as fuck these days."

matrixtospartanatLV · 2018-02-22T19:14:32+00:00

My wife started hanging out with her divorced friends.

She is now becoming my ex wife.

Look into that shit.

Not to mateguard, just don’t become a cuck and stick your manhood into a poisoned well.

youcantdenythat · 2018-02-22T20:51:36+00:00

Nothing wrong with that video, good perspective. You can lead a woman in a way she will be happy, but she has to choose to follow that lead. Nothing profound there.

If my gf sent me that I would send her a thumbs up emoji or something similar and stfu.

Amused mastery, fogging, etc if she wants to go into it.

Overall you sound like you're still way to invested in how she is feeling. You DEER too much and need to work on outcome independence.

When she was going on and on about the carpool or whatever, you should have simply said something like "that sucks. let's talk about it later, gotta go"

Random shit she sends you or talks about doesn't need much more than an acknowledgement. Like that video says, live your life man, be happy, don't be all sucked into what she's doing and saying.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-02-23T00:05:11+00:00

I read your whole fucking post and then watched that video.

I forget what you wrote.

I loved that video.

Thanks for posting it

Persaeus · 2018-02-22T20:22:24+00:00

your responses to enquiry look all fair enough to me, you acknowledged where you fucked up and you're aware of the divorcee pitfalls (if this morphs into slut attire GNO's you're going to have problem to deal with)

my answer is it's maybe a shit test; but mostly nothing. the message of that video (which is pretty solid btw) is a reflection of what you told her that day (you're not responsible for her feelings). she's essentially agreeing with you; and appears to have done her research on NMMNG.

best answer now is nothing, although https://www.reddit.com/user/2ndal response is great if it appears like you just got the text.

to me the larger issue you should consider is how deep are in your wife's frame that this would even cause you to question yourself . . . one step at a time though i guess

RPWolf · 2018-02-22T21:05:33+00:00

My wife does the same thing to an extent. She is all into the Law of Attraction shit and it makes me want to puke. She sends me videos all the time about this and that which usually has to do with relationship things. I watch them for a couple reasons. One, I am open minded regardless and am always willing to learn or see someone elses side. Two, I am still interested in knowing what my wife is into even if I dont participate, care or otherwise GAF. Third, I like to see what she sends me or says and then watch her actions. 99% of the time she doesnt act on any of it. Watch what she does not what she says.

I am willing to bet her friend went on a feels spree about what she wants in her next man and how her beta husband was codependent and looked to her for happiness and smothered her. Were you like this before or still? Did you look to her for your happiness?

donedreadpirate · 2018-02-22T22:24:11+00:00

Man, the video, my wife doesn't understand the concept. You're lucky yours does.

RedPillCoach · 2018-02-25T18:06:52+00:00

out last night until late with her recently divorced friend

Major red flag but the video is not bad at all. Very Red Pill. You cannot make others happy. I think she is telling you that she feels you are still to clingy but it is your wife, not mine so you would know much more.

Sounds to me like you are on Dread level 2 and need to move to level 3 (Get Busy and build an active social life apart from your wife) and that your wife knows exactly what is needed.

Do you even lift?

The video reminded me of some Arab poetry:

The Prophet on Marriage by Khalil Gibran

Then Almitra spoke again and said... "And what of Marriage, master?" And he answered saying:

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.

You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.

Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love. Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together, yet not too near together. For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

ex_addict_bro · 2018-02-26T19:06:33+00:00

took a muscle relaxer

that's how you amerikkans call benzos now?

ReddJive · 2018-02-22T19:10:20+00:00

For new guys learning. Let's tear this down.

Yesterday she called me at work to complain about the neighborhood car pool.(woman passive aggressive drama with neighbor lady)

Fuck Up #1 You answered the phone

I offered a few solutions

Fuck up #2

I took a muscle relaxer and went to bed on time to fix my hurt back

Fuck Up #3. Showed weakness.

she asks me this morning is if I ever finished that book I

Fuck Up #4 Talked about Fight Club

As for the video....your girl is pretty fucking cool

Alpha_Engineer99 · 2018-02-22T21:14:41+00:00

Glover also recommends to purposely go without sex for a month - which is retarded too. That books fails on those two suggestions. Stop reading it faggot.

Time to read all the other books on the side bar.

Over there: ===>

Tons of material on here what to do if wife calls you during the day to vent. Don’t talk logic or offer solutions, just boo her villains and cheer her allies. Yep, that Susie is a little cunt, I hear ya, Becky IS a bitch! I can’t believe she did that! Ok babe, got to go, make my favorite meat loaf tonight. I got us the new 50 shades of grey movie from red box for when the kids go to bed tonight..

Ignore the fresh prince text video, he’s talking about love and relationships, basically trying to say that only you can make yourself happy, not anyone else, bla bla bla bla bla fucking bla bla bla bla.

consumer market:

99% = women 1% = beta faggots.

They talk about feelings, love, and relationships.

Stop reading nmmng, look down to see if you still have your balls.

3 months in after 18 years... Are you gaming her, teasing her? What’s going on? Gone through the anger phase?

Help me decipher this test before I fuck it up

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Title	Help me decipher this test before I fuck it up
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