My wife crossed a boundary (driving home drunk and in my car) this is more than once she has done this. I told her about it once before. And then she crossed it again. Begged for forgiveness.

She didn’t do it for a long time. Now she did it again last night. She lied about being drunk and said she only had two beers which was def a lie. She was slurring her words.

She comes home and starts talking to me. I say. “You’re drunk” she said, I did have 2 beers. I don’t say anything and continue what I’m doing.

She keeps talking. I say, look I’m not happy with you. We can talk tomorrow. And walk away. I hear here mumble some shit to herself. And then she goes up to bed.

I stay downstairs and put on the tv too cool off. I fall asleep. At 3 she comes down. Naked trying to cuddle and touch me. I tell her, don’t. She says whyyy. I say I’m upset with you. She says I know I’m sorry. I’m upset with myself.

Now this morning she’s trying to cuddle with me. Saying she’s sorry. But she did this last time. And still did it once again. We have a family and kids. We can’t afford her to get a DUI. Or worst.

Advice on how I handle this moving forward and how long you remove your TAA?