Her recently message to me: "Babe, my God, I’m not interested in other men, I really just want my peace, simply my peace, I’m telling you honestly. I just don’t want to be ‘scanned’ by you every second, I just want to be normal, not to be ‘weird’ every week and then we fight. I believe in you, that you can change a lot, but most of the time you don’t. Yes, I’ve lost trust in you as a man to a large extent because you were talking all the time and then did nothing of what you said.

No, you’re not disgusting to me and I do find you attractive and I love you, but your ‘you don’t want sex with me’ and then months of fighting afterwards don’t give me any feeling of wanting sex. I constantly feel in danger of doing something wrong, even over little things, like when you feel watched every minute and anything you do could provoke an argument – that clearly turns me off. If things were different, then I would feel much better and more aroused.

Otherwise, if I do something wrong at home, we fight. If I don’t do something, we fight. If I do it the way you say, then it’s still not right. Like today – you told me you wished the apartment was cleaner, so I cleaned the kitchen, and still it wasn’t good enough. So what do you want from me? Nothing ever seems right for you, all the time something is wrong, but when I ask you how you want it, you don’t even know yourself."

Feel free to nuke me, as honest as you can. The bigger the pain the more I can improve myself. If you have any questions regarding the situation I will deliver.

I would appreciate some good advice and please tell me, If I already lost her, or if I have still a chance.