Thanks for all the input in my last post. I kinda need the harsh truths. While I don't struggle with getting some, dealing with other people non romantically still poses some problems to me from time to time.

So today was the day my GF and I arrive to her elder brother's wedding. The situation turned out even worse than I expected. He picks us up at the train station as this is a very rural area (no Uber, no taxis).

BIL is visibly grumpy as fuck and after some brief small talk starts to blame us for all his problems. After a while I crack and say okay I'm just gonna leave then but he refuses to stop the car. I can't handle the negativity and I refuse to be blamed for all his wedding problems, since he chose to have it during Rona time.

The dialogue went something like this. Bitchy AF.

BIL: You guys really made it hard for us. Me: Umm, okay. BIL: why didn't you come on Monday? Now you were mingling with other people, increasing the Corona risk. Everyone is scared and many people cancelled. (Monday was never on the table mind you)

Me: Gotta work with what you have, mate. Maybe you shouldn't plan a wedding in a pandemic. BIL: You have no idea how much work planning a wedding is! And now I am always in a bad mood because so much goes wrong. Me: Maybe you shouldn't worry so much and just enjoy it now.

BIL: Maybe we shouldn't have invited you guys! This is my wedding and you are sabotaging it! Me: Alright, stop the car right here then. BIL: Oh I don't wanna fight. I'm happy you came but just know how hard you made it for us. Me: Jesus.

So at the site I take a piss and leave with my shit, hiking 2 miles to the nearest bus station and then taking a train onwards. Told gf she can either join me afterwards or do whatever. Notice that most of the wife's site doesn't actually care and the guy is just generally a toxic person who likes to single me out for criticism.