NMMNG Safe Person

ReddJive · 2018-02-22T11:57:47+00:00

NMMNG has a couple areas where it diverges from RP and MRP. This is one of them.

First thing you need to understand is that no one cares about men's feelings except the man having them. No one does.

At all.

You are expected to deal and move on. Women have feelings and talk openly about them because they connect so much of their reality to their emotions. And great that they do. Women seek community. Men seek value.

What you do is find a room. Cry. Then dry your eyes and get back to work. For me a good heavy session at the gym works. Or a nice glass of whiskey and some mates. Talk a little treason. It's all good. It's that simple. Men don't emote about their fee fees. Feelings are transient. They aren't laws. They aren't royal edicts.

They, in no way, rule your life.

It is possible to feel anger without being angry. Feel sadness without being sad. You can't control the physiological response to emotion. Getting flush, tears, shaking, flight or fight stuff. These things are natural. What you can control is how you react to them. Again another reason why lifting is highly important. Filling your time with physical activity.

No man here should be sitting at night watching TV. If you are sitting it should be pursuit of some intellectual task. She is always watching. She is always shit testing you.

If at the end of it all you still have emotional issues to work on. Go hire a counselor and get your feelings out there. At least he will be honest and not care once the paycheck has ended and you feel better.

broneilbro · 2018-02-22T08:55:23+00:00

Just hit you up in chat.

red-sfpplus · 2018-02-22T16:44:41+00:00

As long as you are OK with ball punches and ass kicks, then we are all the "safe" people you need.

AquitasVeritas · 2018-02-22T13:25:09+00:00

Same boat. No real friends and the friends i have are extremely blue pilled.

Altho a lot of people here will say that you should fuck off with your emotions, i think it is good to stop and think about them. Why do you feel this way? Where do i want to go? What are my passions/mission? Its good to talk about it with a red pilled person. Ideally someone you dont really know so they can slap you the fuck awake when needed.

Wish i had someone in my pussy phase then the anger phase and finally swallowing the pill.

But sometimes its good to go through the journey by yourself..

Its all you. Your life. You decide.

If you want to chat. Hit me up.

Altho in living in the netherlands, im also a night person so time zones wont really matter.

That goes for all you fuckers.

Cheers!

mindfulbutgutless · 2018-02-22T10:56:33+00:00

My best friend is pretty blue piled but I still reached out to him, mostly because this part of the process isn't necessarily RP(and he is the only person I felt remotely comfortable sharing with). I have also researched male CBT therapists just in case I wanted to get professional assistance.

dcapt46 · 2018-02-22T14:41:30+00:00

OYS is remarkably close to the same as your safe person.

FoxShitNasty83 · 2018-02-22T10:54:18+00:00

I am also in the same situation, if anyone can spare some time it would be appreciated.

chachaChad · 2018-02-22T11:30:11+00:00

I initially used my therapist then started sharing with a few friends then finally my brother.

ex_addict_bro · 2018-02-26T19:10:37+00:00

I can be your safe person. You can call me and every time you start whining I'll call you a weak fuck and scream at you. For free. I'm somewhere around GMT, what's your timezone?

Title	NMMNG Safe Person
Author	ExceptionableCell
Upvotes	8
Comments	20
Date	February 22, 2018 8:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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