I was out with the wife the other night and she threw the "were you just checking out those other girls right there" shit test at me. I had honestly not been at that instance. Froze up at the time, and answered honestly (no) as that was the only answer in my frame at the time. I honestly had not in that instance, despite having checked out plenty others that night, and didnt have something canned to throw back. But I've been trying to think of a good response after the fact, because I'm sure she'll throw that one again. I got it a few times when we started dating and haven't seen it in years... so that's a good sign at least. Would something like "would it upset you if I was" (pressure flip and not really answering) or "yep. them and every other chick in the bar" (AA) be good answers here? I feel like this question is a landmine in particular... especially because I'm 7 years younger and probably a good point or two higher, and she's well aware of that fact. What other answers would work well here?