Shit tests are just plain unattractive

justpickanyusername · 2020-06-14T04:14:37+00:00

Well, you’re self aware enough to know that you are a weak skinny fat faggot, but not smart enough to know that unless your game is masterful and tight as shit it won’t matter.

Also, I should clarify that MRP fixes the man. We don’t give a shit about your wife. She either comes along for the ride or not. You didn’t read a guarantee anywhere on this subreddit that she would come around and suddenly turn incredibly hot and latch onto your cock 24/7 with her mouth. You imagined that one on your own as many people do when they first get here.

What makes you so goddamn attractive? You can either acknowledge you’re delusional or if you feel so inclined respond please do. It’s been quiet around here since Covid-19 and we could all use some entertainment.

Yes, you are correct. If you are doing all of this just to fuck her and you don’t even want to fuck her then you are retarded. Happy?

AlohaMaui808 · 2020-06-14T05:57:35+00:00

Shit tests are unattractive to you because you're projecting your disgust with yourself for being either too low effort or just plain unable to pass them, onto the woman who is giving you the test.

Its an Ego protection mechanism so you don't get your fee fees hurt bi da big bad wamun bean meen two yew.

If you were actually a man who valued himself and had even a reasonable SMV, the shit tests would be an enjoyable challenge (or just enjoyable, no challenge at all), a chance to practice holding your Frame, or at worst amusing because you understand why the shit test is happening and its funny just how "like clockwork" people really are. Hypergamy in action is endlessly amusing when you know you're part of the 20, not the 80.

Get to work faggot.

Lift. Read. STFU.

Reading doesn't just mean you read the material, it means you conceptualize it and apply it to your life as it fits you. You have to change your fucked mental models. That starts with realizing how fucked they are.

BTW we all know you're full of shit when you say you've read the sidebar.

SBIII · 2020-06-14T12:00:47+00:00

What if you find the wife's shit tests unattractive and don't actually want to fuck that?

What if your wife finds your skinny-fat, weak ass body, lack of frame and your Dancing Monkey behaviours unnatractive?

SteelSharpensSteel · 2020-06-14T11:09:59+00:00

Ever consider it’s not your wife that’s unattractive, it’s you, Mr. Butthurt?

markpf73 · 2020-06-14T13:16:48+00:00

It’s natural to not want to fuck the oldest teenager in the house.

This feeling you have is early stage progress towards outcome independence and doing what you really want in life.

This feeling you have should lead you to the realization where you’ve kicked the pussy off of the pedestal, and you do things for yourself...not the approval of the oldest teenager in the house.

mrpfuckarounditis · 2020-06-14T12:53:40+00:00

I am also guilty of fuckarounditis, so I will give a try to answer your low effort shitpost, but don't expect kind words.

I'll skip all the bullshit and cut straight to the question. I've read the sidebar, I'm not "Red Pill Aware" (the fuck?!?), my lifts suck ass and I'm a skinny fat faggot. But I'm owning my shit and working on it.

Yeah, you have skipped all the bullshit for months. I saw one of your posts here 7 months ago. Still, no OYS, your lifts suck and you are a skinny fat faggot. And then you dare to say that you are "owning your shit" and "working on it"? How are you "owning your shit"? How are you "working on it"? Man, most of the guys here that are trying to help stopped reading at your first paragraph. If you want to get some value, start putting some effort instead of bullshitting yourself about where you are and what you have done.

Question.

What if you find the wife's shit tests unattractive and don't actually want to fuck that?

You find shit tests "unattractive" ( whatever it means...). I don't "like" shit tests per se, but having a slave who would respond "yes, master" with no personality on her own would not satisfy myself either. Resistance makes me stronger. Confrontation makes me wiser. So I guess I like shit tests, in the same way I like to put 200 lbs in the bench press and lift them AMRAP, as I know I am challenging myself, improving myself. You "dont' want to fuck that" (again, whatever it means. Do you speak "fagottese" or what?). Read on...

I guess it means they put you in an emotional state that you cannot stand. You are affected by them, they hurt you or they make you angry, or both. This affects your perception of your wife, and then you rationalize that you simply don't like her. Well, you don't. But it is your fault. And all the people here is trying to tell you that. You simply want to escape that answer, that YOU are creating this, that YOU are at fault, and no matter what you write or say, YOU are the one who is unattractive, and a weak and sensitive (don't try to register this username, someone wiser did it) whinning faggot.

Man, I am not going to tell you if you should like or dislike your wife. But before classifying her as an harpy that is making your life hard and thinking your life will be better off without her, put some effort. Lift, read, give the guys here some opportunity to get to know you (kids? job? lifts? age? background?) and you will find honest anonymous buddies here that will help you with all that. Otherwise, doing whatever bullshit you are doing "owning your shit" you are going nowhere. Take some time before deciding anything.

The RP set up is: Approach a hot chick you want to fuck, pass shit tests with Fogging, Amused Mastery or Agree and Amplify with the ultimate goal of getting what you want - fucking said hot chick.

Yeah, kind of PUA, right? That is not working when you are married. That is why we call it here "RP in hard mode". And it is. Because "nexting" is harder when you have invested in a life with kids and mortgage than when you knew the chick last week. Because confronting you is harder that just picking other random chick. Because your fogging, AM, and AA need to be in fucking master level because you are sharing your life with a woman that sees beyond your bullshit, that sees the "real you" behind whatever mask you want to put for your flirting adventures. Because it needs to be real. And you suck. So you need to improve. And improving takes effort. Guess who has to do this effort.

The MRP playbook would have you passing enough shit and comfort tests, owning your shit and increasing your SMV to the point where the rope snaps tight and the wife ups her game to keep you.

Yeah you master MRP. Now start doing fucking efforts to get there, and bookmark this comment to comment about it in your OYS #30. You will be amused at yourself.

What I haven't seen talked about much is during that stage where you've increased your SMV and she hasn't responded yet - what if her behaviour during that time is a major turnoff?

What? Have you read any post here? Any part of the sidebar? During that stage, you do the same than before reaching that stage. HINT: you are NOT at that stage. Repeat with me. You are NOT at that stage. You may "think" you are there because you have read a bit of the sidebar (we don't know what bit, guess why?) . But you are NOT at that stage. You cannot even fathom what that stage is.

You STFU, OYS, read, lift, and come with a question when you are there. No magical formula, simple steps, one after the other. You suck up your moods, your feelings, your angriness, your insecurities, your fears, your whining, and improve yourself as a man of value. THEN we start talking about dread levels, MRP theory and blah blah blah... but FIRST, do yourself a favor, suck up your ego and start at ground 0. See you at OYSs.

I'm self aware enough to know that this is probably not DNGAF on my part and more likely butthurt denial and resentment that she hasn't responded yet. Plus I wouldn't be getting shit tested if she perceived my SMV was high enough so I need to just keep working on that and doing it for me I guess.

Well, you are not ready to DNGAF. You are not self aware enough. You have the wrong goal in mind, as shit tests will NEVER end. See how you haven't read anything? Shit tests are an assessment from any woman to measure your value as a man. It is the way you respond to them how they will see you, not your "I have improved my SVM" bullshit. Yes, you have to START working, and you have to do it for you.

Anyone further along with their MAP than me care to tell me what happened at this stage?

Someone will tell you when you reach this stage. By the information you gave us, you are not at this stage, you are in the angry phase, and with a hint of rambo on the horizon, let me recap for your TO-DO list: you barely read or understood any information here, you don't lift, you are weak, your frame is weak, your wife despises you, you are delusional on your assessment of yourself, you resent your wife, you are lazy, and giving a blind shot you are afraid of opening yourself exposing your life here while at the same time you know this is the path and are asking for help.

It is a long road. Longer than you expected. Take a deep breath. Today is day zero. I wish you good luck.

simbarlion · 2020-06-14T09:55:16+00:00

Yes had that. She hasnt changed, you just were shown the rules of the little game you have both been playing.

You're likely angry at yourself for being a dumb fuck going along with it all for so long.

It goes away. Sounds like early days in this for you.

InChargeMan · 2020-06-14T16:54:18+00:00

I don't like getting rained on when getting out of the car. But I do like all the other good shit water does for me. Water is wet, I like water.

EasyDaysHardNights · 2020-06-15T12:06:00+00:00

Your wife's attractiveness is a reliable measure of your own.

Sepean · 2020-06-14T09:20:26+00:00

"What if I want to get fit but don't want to look like an awkward noob when I starting out?"

Just deal with itm Suck it up. Reframe it, think of shit tests as flirting. There is no way you'll get through this if you get butthurt over shit tests.

macheagle · 2020-06-14T12:29:46+00:00

RP is about self-improvement and outcome independence. The fact that you even placed an emphasis on your wife shows you’re an even bigger faggot than you may have originally thought about yourself. Please read the sidebar again and work on YOURSELF. The wife joining or not is up to her and as captain of the ship, it is up to you to save your own sinking ship regardless of whether the first mate will stay.

2wo2wo3hree · 2020-06-16T14:08:02+00:00

Shit tests are very unattractive when they are true. Own your shit.

FoxShitNasty83 · 2020-06-14T16:49:50+00:00

Stop thinking of them as a bad thing, as something to banish. Change your mindset and start thinking of them as positive signs that a woman is into you and an opportunity to practice using your frame and use your skills like agree and amplify or your "no" and best cheesy grin stare. Silly little girls and their tests.

RStonePT · 2020-06-17T20:11:03+00:00

Nuke them then, you don't have to play.

RStonePT · 2020-06-24T17:02:50+00:00

I've read the sidebar, I'm not "Red Pill Aware" (the fuck?!?), my lifts suck ass and I'm a skinny fat faggot. But I'm owning my shit and working on it.

Not red pill aware but you have the red pill aware uniform

Brushyourteethm8 · 2020-06-14T09:48:12+00:00

I can feel like this when I'm tired - it makes me grumpy and emotional.

Serious suggestion - get more sleep amd have a plan of how to attack the day. It will be fun again tomorrow and she will pick up on your levity and fall into line

iwillruletheworldkjh · 2020-06-14T12:24:03+00:00

I agree with you. Unless you're in a marriage there should be no reason why one should stand a b**** attitude. I mean, if you know you deserve better you know you should not be with her

Title	Shit tests are just plain unattractive
Author	SteveMuskles
Upvotes	2
Comments	30
Date	June 13, 2020 7:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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