Everything I do is for women

omnip0tent19 · 2017-02-18T10:46:40+00:00

Doesn't making money, lifting, dressing better and being a more confident, independent man improve your quality of life regardless of women? The point isn't to thirst after women and dedicate your life to impressing them but to improve yourself as a man which gives you the option to attract more women of a higher calibre than you could before.

tourdepook · 2017-02-18T11:39:39+00:00

Who are the unhappy males? those who live for women’s desire. These include the Nice Guys, the Players, and anyone who dresses, talks, and even puts their profession at what ‘women want’. These guys have no sense of self when a woman stands before them.

SirWillisVI · 2017-02-18T11:10:45+00:00

My frame on this topic is that my end goal is to be a better person physically and mentally. I don't view the goal as being 'I will lift to look good for women'. I lift because I know it will prolong my life as I will be healthy. Getting women from having a strong body (strong mind too) is just a bonus.

Nyquil-Junkie · 2017-02-18T14:59:26+00:00

So in a sense, you are still a slave to the vagina no matter how much red pill you ingest. Interesting observation.

brideboy · 2017-02-18T13:45:53+00:00

Keep doing it for the women, dont fight it. When ot comes time you'll eventually find yourself doing it because you love it.

DevilishRogue · 2017-02-18T20:41:31+00:00

This reminds me of the episode of Cheers where Sam admitted that everything he did was about women until he realised he liked the Three Stooges independently of women. Find something for you that you like that women wouldn't and enjoy it. Build from there until you are improving yourself for yourself.

antariusz · 2017-02-18T13:32:14+00:00

Find out the "why" you want to attract women and then continue from there.

Do you want just mindless fun? Or are you looking to have kids?

If all you're interested in is sex, and you're having more sex, then what is the problem? Well, ok, I'll answer for you, why is only mindless sex is your only goal in life? Improve your goals. Don't seek mediocrity. It's easy to get laid a lot if that's your only goal in life. Ideally you should have many goals.

pennypun · 2017-02-18T15:16:55+00:00

it ALL comes down to attract women.

Only remedy for you would be to cut of yo dick. Cut out parts of your brain, too. Because otherwise you cannot win this fight against your own nature.

spassa · 2017-02-18T15:48:56+00:00

As soon as you got enough ass you will realize that they are not worth it. Don't stop doing that improvment shit then and you are golden.

alphabachelor · 2017-02-18T16:49:44+00:00

It may be your motivation but the benefits pay dividends in other aspects of your life. Never forget that.

beau-dhi · 2017-02-18T17:07:48+00:00

Looks like it's time to evolve your paradigm. I recommend that you keep at it with the self-improvement and keep digging deeper with your whys. Why do you want to attract women? Why does sex feel good to you? Why do you try to do anything at all? And so on.

topapito · 2017-02-18T17:22:01+00:00

"We come out of a pussy when we're born and we spend the rest of our lives trying to get back into one" Me...

Haha funny, right? But is it true? For most men, it is, very true. For those that are weak minded, short minded and can't see further than the tip of their dicks, it is true.

It is never a bad thing to have that as motivation. For a step, a step in the right direction. A step up in the ladder of life. As long as it's just a step. The stairs leading us to whatever heights we can achieve will have certain steps where we focus on becoming more attractive to women, nothing wrong with that. But oh what a bitter taste it leaves in our mouth to arrive at the top and learn we have made the climb only to taste wet, soggy pussy.

There are solid reasons to do things, and stupid reasons to do things. Choosing to do something for the pussy it might get you is like choosing a 9-5 strictly for the money. When choosing a job or career, choosing it for just the money it makes is equivalent to buying a car because the girls will like it. About as shallow as a flat rock in a stream.

No gentlemen, when I chose to hit the gym, I did it so I could get healthy, the muscle building became a payoff from the trek to get healthy. When I bought my first exotic car, it was me, just me, driving it around and smiling like a little kid on Christmas day where Santa dropped off the wrong toy. And oh what a toy it was! My work is very difficult to explain, many people fade away when they ask me to explain it, so it comes down to me telling a kindergarten version of how it works. Women just snore. Yet I could not think of anything I'd like to do better than what I do.

I have learned to "see" beyond the pussy, the self ingratiation of having people see me succeed at anything, and just stop, and enjoy the fruit of my labor while I sit alone somewhere, sipping on a latte, just thinking about that kid that presumably had no chance and has made it far beyond anything he himself could have ever imagined.

There are much better reasons for doing things, many reasons that go beyond the lowly pussy. Performing certain acts "for" pussy becomes a mouse and trap game you play to while away the time. Put yourself in a position to be able to offer that 9/10 a job working for you. Then think about how ineffective it would be to fuck this employee once she's under your financial power and you know what? You will have lost interest in fucking this alleged 9/10 because she is just a simple cog in your machinery. Women will become a tool you use to get your rocks off. And the thought that you did everything you did to get your business(es) off the ground for the mere benefit of getting laid becomes as laughable as thinking you did all that to impress your peers. Congratulations! You have finally achieved true independence. You can now sit down and enjoy that hooker hunting trip around the world where you planned to taste pussy from many different countries. have that 9/10 setup the parties for you. She'll love it.

If the only reason you can think of to do something is just to get more pussy. Sit down and analyze your motivations. Expand your mind. Read about the lives of the rich and famous. Big business heroes and villains. It is the little things you learn about their experiences that will eventually replace your reasons to perform.

fcb98292 · 2017-02-18T20:14:18+00:00

Sorry you feel that way. I am married RP 30 years strong. I was RP when blue pill was cool. I live RP for me. If others disagree, I respect their right to oppose me but then DGAF. If someone assumes I am RP only to keep my wife attracted, again, I respect their right to oppose me, but I really DGAF. I live RP to make myself a better man and that includes a better husband and father. If my existence centered around women, I would be fucking more than just her. I suppose this understanding comes with age. My abs, pecs, guns and sheer size do command female attention, that I cannot argue. And it feels damned good. But my primary motivations are for ME, not to give females some eye candy.

DadOnDabs · 2017-02-18T20:14:54+00:00

You lack purpose. You do all of these things but have no purpose for yourself. Take a monk mode for as long as it takes. Explore yourself and find what drives you. Make that your life purpose. It's up to us to make meaning in our lives. Don't expect someone else to make meaning for you.

KumonRoguing · 2017-02-18T20:16:35+00:00

You have to make it about you. I lift because I like being a big, bad motherfucker. Hence why I don't mind bulking to 20% bf. I read books about history and people skills to improve my business and education. I dress better to make better impressions. Make it about you, not them.

Viking_RnP · 2017-02-18T20:21:13+00:00

TPR is a guide to a males self improvement. Women are a byproduct of our self improvement. Your personal goals and how you view them are relevant to only you.

jttjt · 2017-02-18T20:24:59+00:00

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” -Oscar Wilde

As men, sex drives us in one way or another. I don't try to fight it I just try to harness it well

FlexGunship · 2017-02-18T21:56:20+00:00

Ever play a game?

Monopoly? Poker? Risk? Basketball? Halo? Chess? Hockey? Frisbee?

The goal is to win. The way you win is by being better at every turn. Smarter. Quicker. Stronger. Fucking... Just... Better.

Life is a game. It starts when you're born. It ends when you die (sometimes unexpectedly). Treat it like the only game worth winning. Ever play chess and dominate so much that you're capturing pieces you didn't expect to capture? Ever do so well during a hockey game that people fucking ask you what the hell happened?

Harder. Better. Faster. Stronger. Do it because it's worth doing.

Edit: I'm at a hotel with a shitty "fitness center". Pro-tip: you can do dips on the treadmill and bitches love it.

assured_destruction · 2017-02-18T23:16:55+00:00

I fucking love (good) women. The good ones are awesome, fun and entertaining. Many are toxic and useless, as are many men.

Not everything I do is for them, somethings I do actually decrease my SMV, like making electronics things in my basement... IDGAF.

ticklethegooch1 · 2017-02-19T00:32:22+00:00

Yes and No. Betas strategy doesn't work. TRP strategy instead does work.

If you want self-improvement without women, check out MGTOW. I don't think that is the way to live because we human need growth and warmth. If you lack in one area you will try to compensate.

TRP just has one additional side effect that is worth mentioning: creating options.

JackGetsIt · 2017-02-19T14:41:37+00:00

This gets talked about A LOT on redpill and asktrp. Let me try to lay it out for you (at least how I interpret it).

There's nothing wrong with acknowledging that women have a strong effect on men. You can make an argument that it's deep in our psyche and genetic expression to protect and provide for females (this is of course debatable). A women's smell, touch, shape, mannerisms and movements are like kyptonite to a healthy man. She will even help you genetically clone yourself into a new generation!

TRP advice that says 'don't improve for women' is trying to prevent men from being crushed when women flake, divorce, cheat, or take children away. Some women do even far worse. Many men are not a well positioned to bounce back from cheating and divorce. Women systematically leave relationships and use them to move up not down in society. Men tumble hard because our physical and emotional resources are often completely cleaned out by our ex partners. Women are able to do bad, disloyal, disrespectful things to men because they operate in a grey safe zone in society. Men and other women alike shelter women from accountability and responsibility. This same desire to protect women also allows them space to manipulate and game the system. Redpill has 189k subscribers but the knowledge that women aren't unique innocent snowflakes is lost on the bulk of people in the western world. It use to be common knowledge that women have lots of potential for evil, and can even destroy whole kingdoms (men of course are too but women are capable of a particular type of evil). That knowledge is lost right now in our culture. On the flipside our society currently sees men as bumbling idiots that need women to dominate and direct them (this narrative is so polar opposite of the day to day reality of male and female dynamics.)

So, to circle back to your question(s). It's actually OK to have women as a big pushing drive you shouldn't have 'one' women as a pushing drive (you never sell your fishing boat, so to speak) and you should have other drives. Power, spirituality, skill development, self worth, support of friends and family, hedonic drives, drives to help society, etc. etc. Women should factor in to your drives but not be the only factor.

This mindset also helps you to walk away from women when you do start getting laid more. The power to walk away is the only power we have and if you haven't developed some other strengths then you'll be indebted to women. This is an enormous turn off for women and ruins relationships no matter how well they might have started.

Kalidane · 2017-02-18T11:32:01+00:00

When I helped my mate move furniture from his old house to his new house there were no girls watching.

He has a large wooden one piece corner bar and a pool table.

He didn't ask his skinny/fat mates to help.

gorillabazooka · 2017-02-18T16:24:21+00:00

Same problem here.

Women is by far the most motivating factor in my life. My life is pretty decent and comfortable now and it's getting better, but most of the things I do, I do it having "getting girls" as a goal in mind. It's not that I have a lot of girls, it's that I do a lot to get them.

My advice is to go see the therapist, the thing I'm planning to do myself.

theredpill22 · 2017-02-18T16:58:48+00:00

I lift because I like looking at myself in the mirror and it helps me to destress.

I make more money to have more freedom to make the choices I want to make. Money = freedom.

I read because I enjoy it.

I dress well because I'm genuinely interested in fashion and I like playing around with different colours and textures. Taking pride in my appearance also makes me feel better.

I meditate because it makes me more calm and relaxed.

None of it is to do with women for me.

poetyaright123 · 2017-02-18T23:24:06+00:00

I'm really starting to question if the "juice is worth squeeze". I've been the lord and mayor of the friend zone all of my life. I wish I could lift more and just do better, but now I'm wondering if it's really worth it all to impress some stupid bitches.

sir_shitfuck · 2017-02-19T01:19:57+00:00

I've been in the same boat brother.

Do 3-6 months strict nofap hard mode and your motivations will change drastically. Have a break from the over-stimulation.

Title	Everything I do is for women
Author	AdieuAmigo
Upvotes	35
Comments	32
Date	February 18, 2017 10:25 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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