Found out my girlfriend used to suck off random dudes at parties in college. Now I feel disgusted by her...

quicklogaccount · 2017-04-14T22:56:53+00:00

Congratulations, you're the millionth guy with this issue. Collect your prize, read the fucking sidebar.

For serious.
What you are saying is, you entered a LTR with your dearest girlfriend because of how valuable her sex is, and now you discovered her sex is cheap.

Now, here's what you do.
For starters, you go and fuck around a good bit, so you learn that the problem isn't that her sex is cheap. Sex IS cheap, and it is not problem. The problem is overpaying for it.
Second, AFTER doing that, if you want to get into a LTR again (or continue yours, in case you chose not to end it to fuck around), don't do it because of sex. Because that's CHEAP and it definitely doesn't justify monogamy.

max_peenor · 2017-04-15T01:09:39+00:00

then she opens up to me about her past

No, she didn't. She had to feed your hamster before it started making shit up or getting information from others. It is far, far worse than she is telling you.

smirk_addict · 2017-04-15T01:19:53+00:00

A LOT of girls think sucking dicks isn't a big deal. It is the biggest fucking deal. They honestly think they are modest because they only let "special" dudes enter their vagina but have no problem swallowing the cum of randoms. I seriously think women that think this way have a mental disorder. All of that shit intimacy.

She ain't shit bro. And in the future anytime a woman tells you she wants to "wait" for sex but blows you and let's you finger bang her, don't take her dumbass seriously for a LTR.

EDIT: Dont visibly judge her. Keep a poker face and non judgmental tone. There may be more and also, you don't want her to start lying to the next man and trying to make him a chump. Because of my non-judgmental tone, a married cheer mom divulged to me that her and her neighbor were lesbian lovers for a long time. Her husband has no clue.

2gunsgetsome · 2017-04-14T22:08:28+00:00

Where TF do you think she learned how to do all those things that you like? It's your turn (right now). Unless there are things that she won't do "anymore" (for you), relax and enjoy the experience.

2fuknbusyorviceversa · 2017-04-14T22:53:57+00:00

She makes you feel gisgust. Nothing else needed to be said.

sinjinnn · 2017-04-15T00:05:54+00:00

you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. i don't date monogamously anymore, but if i did, i'd dump/downgrade her on the spot.

plasticslug · 2017-04-15T04:43:39+00:00

There is this picture set that in my opinion is absolute gold, seen it here on reddit, basically its of some chick/slut and of the 15-30? pics its here sucking and fucking different dudes.

We know women are sluts, they wont admit this, but this photographic evidence of of some slut, cuddling with one dude, sucking off a different one, and taking it in the ass in the 3rd pic, is amazing, photographic evidence that this happens.

We (men) can go through dry spells, weeks, months... FUCK years! and to women who look decent (which is basically have long hair and some evidence of tits) they would have zero.. and I mean ZERO issues picking up a dude and fucking him at any given moment.

Its how our species is wired, and like many of the truths here you have to and understand that this is how it works. Take it a step further and with her number and times it by 2.5 and it may be more accurate.

Again, its not time to hate your girl, be disgusted, etc its just time to really open your fucking eyes and understand how this world works.

We live in this world once, we grow old, undesirable and die lol... imagine if just for 5 months you could walk around like you were the fucking hottest piece of ass in the area, women throwing themselves at you, you cant go out in public with short sleeves cause you will cause traffic to slow down, with cat calls. You could go dancing and literally take anyone home. Would you blame yourself for fucking half in the city in in a couple of weeks? This is a what women pretty much get to do if they simply agree to put a cock in their mouths, or just sit on a few dicks. Its not her fault she pretty much enjoyed this temporary gift they get.

bsutansalt · 2017-04-15T11:57:49+00:00

In a row?!
Hey! Hey you, get back here!

As someone else already pointed out, it's just your turn.

clint_bronson · 2017-04-14T22:38:14+00:00

So dump her. Or you do you want to be with someone you find disgusting? i know i wouldn't.

Peter_B_Long · 2017-04-14T23:08:18+00:00

If you're aren't attracted to her anymore then dump her. If she isn't giving you what you want presently, then dump her.

ecrvnr · 2017-04-15T07:40:08+00:00

Trickle truth. Surely she didn't merely suck them off.

SkimSTi · 2017-04-14T20:59:52+00:00

lol. stop asking people about their past? you cant go back and change it.

errorstarcraft · 2017-04-15T06:23:21+00:00

That's kinda hot tell your gf to get at me

shadyindividual · 2017-04-15T00:47:54+00:00

Don't ask questions you don't want to hear the answer too

GreenPiller · 2017-04-15T01:29:40+00:00

Its a good thing.

asktrpthrow123 · 2017-04-15T04:48:17+00:00

Break it off. I had similar issues, the only solution I found was to not get into LTRs and enjoy spinning plates until you get to the point where it doesn't matter.

JackGetsIt · 2017-04-15T16:44:49+00:00

Blame feminism and the sexual revolution not the entire gender. The cock carousel be it oral or vaginal is just part of the modern marketplace. Get comfortable with it and if you can't handle it don't ask. Just assume every women you might get into a relationship has a very high partner count. Your job should be to look for the lower end of the spectrum that hasn't gone fully mentally retarded from all the pump and dump. It's getting very difficult to find women out there that still have the ability to bond closely after about age 22-25.

assured_destruction · 2017-04-15T17:19:13+00:00

Damn, she'd better be sucking you off every day and most nights. With a smile!

50339 · 2017-04-15T17:50:58+00:00

Dude don't LTR thats trash...Like demote her to a plate or just get rid of her imo. Its really dangerous to catch feelings for a girl like that because they never really change

[deleted] · 2017-04-16T05:12:32+00:00

She told me she had only been with 4 guys, so I thought she was relatively innocent. Of course that number didn't include oral sex.

Of course not, guy n-counts arent the same as girl n-counts. They only count bfs (some only serious bfs). That why you always multiply theirs by 3.

Even worse is the guys were on the college basketball team, if you catch my drift...

Racism?

Why the fuck does this always happen? I start liking a girl and then she opens up to me about her past and I don't even want to be in the same room as her.

Thats why you dont ask girls for their number. This girl is from the west, just assume they're all sluts, even the churchy ones.

Congratulations, you're the millionth guy with this issue. Collect your prize, read the fucking sidebar.

Ditto

Birdseyeview04 · 2017-04-18T21:22:24+00:00

What an insecure, beta male. You think less of her because she hooked up with a black male? How intimidated are you. Stand in your own masculinity, or all of your future women will cheat on you with the confident alpha male. And seeing that she already knows what it's like to mate with a King, chances are, she'll go back :P

salezman12 · 2017-04-14T22:04:48+00:00

Why is it a concern for you?

Heathcliff-- · 2017-04-15T16:16:56+00:00

Finding out a girl I'm seeing was a mudshark/coalburner in the past is an instant dealbreaker for me. She might as well have told me she got drunk and fucked a dog once. No way I'm touching her again.

You can't expect the girls you meet to not be sluts nowadays. Not only are they encouraged to do so, they are rewarded for it.

It honestly makes me very sad. These are people's daughters.

TRPTosser · 2017-04-14T22:03:57+00:00

Set up a situation where you play her out for anal then afterwards, get up and say you're going to the bathroom to clean up but actually lock the bathroom door from the inside and sneak out the bathroom window. Have your things packed in advance and have a new place lined up. Delete and block her on everything and ghost

Title	Found out my girlfriend used to suck off random dudes at parties in college. Now I feel disgusted by her...
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Upvotes	57
Comments	103
Date	April 14, 2017 8:53 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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