Good bye Red Pill

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-01-10T16:48:24+00:00

Good job.

This is EXACTLy what most of us forget, ONCE you’ve gotten the knowledge

GO OUT AND APPLY IT TO INTERNALIZE IT

NOw GTFO of here and hopefully come back a long time later with cool stories 😎

Practical-Animal · 2020-01-10T16:54:04+00:00

Approach women you think are cute because we could all die tomorrow from a giant meteor and it won't really matter that fucking much what you did today

BlueMyLoad69 · 2020-01-10T17:47:32+00:00

Stop being a faggot and go approach some girls. With any luck they will reject you, possibly cruelly. After the initial shock, take a second, think about it...and realize 1) you’re not dead 2) rejection really isn’t that bad 3) if you put up with this 3 or 4 (or 100) more times you will get dates.

TLDR: don’t be fucking scared of girls you pussy!

RPNorvell · 2020-01-10T18:44:26+00:00

What exactly are you afraid of? Really try to drill down on that.

2020-01-10T20:32:44+00:00

I see there's a lot of typical "asktrp" retard comments here like "just talk you stupid faggot, open your mouth" bla bla bla bla...

Firstly, it won't put you in the right mindset, you'll just freeze up if you're a rookie who has been living timidly all his life.

Secondly, this mindset may work in the gym to pump iron but it does not work for social interactions. Being sociable is about being chill, laidback, comfortable with yourself, and simply enjoying the interactions with other beautiful human beings. The main attitude you need to develop is "why the fuck not". Why the fuck wont I talk to this random stranger, surely it's more interesting than listening to my own voice all time. Why the fuck won't I talk to this old lady sitting next to me in the bus, I can make her day by giving her some attention. Why the fuck won't I start talking to the pretty girl in class, maybe she will change my life.

My advice:

Talk to everyone you meet. When you're on the street, remove earphones, whatever. Try to be spontaneous. Say hi when you enter a shop, look people in the eyes, say thank you, smile, all the basic stuff. Learn to relax around others. I remember I forced myself to make it a habit to look strangers in the eyes on the street. And I was proud of myself when I did it. You need these little pats on the back of yourself to continue growing. Furthermore, these really are the fundamentals of interactions. If you don't learn to properly do these little things you won't be able to approach girls.
To approach girls you're interested in and to get over the initial phase it helps to go somewhere where you're not known and you can't "make a fool out of yourself". For me, it's ridiculous now to even utter these words but I was in the same stage as you a couple of years ago and it did help me.

Infernir · 2020-01-10T17:32:12+00:00

Good luck dude, keep documents of all the most important things you need to remember about TRP.

Quit the internet, reddit, TRP, block it... whatever you need to do and focus on applying everything you've learned over the years here for 2 months. Or even more if you think it's beneficial for you.

It helps to listen to RP minded people, read books, podcast about this stuff to remind you of the reality... but after awhile you shouldn't need any of this shit you should know it all yourself and be a RP man who doesn't need to go to Reddit to ask any questions or understand what is going on. You shouldn't need any of this as long as you've been reading for years already and getting experience with women. You have graduated... you just need to go out in the field, go to war and see that you've already become a soldier.

Never forget no matter what happens or how much success or failures you get with women, AWALT. They will always choose the better guy.

Focus on taking massive action every day, talking to people, socializing. Social proof gets you in positions to get laid with new women... be the guy everyone knows and says "Blank name is fun, cool, chill", have abundance and take your looks seriously, women will be inviting you to hang out, just add some plausible deniability, soft core drugs or just a little smoking if you're in college... and you will get sex/action.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-01-10T19:35:16+00:00

Approach not to close, just to open. Remove the pressure. Talk to everyone, man/woman/gay/straight. Practice so it's natural. Then when an HB8 is the one in line at the coffee shop, she sees you talking to (and remembering the names of) the baristas, other patrons, and sees you're the type of guy she may want to get to know.

Do it for you, and do it pervasively. I do it now and it's nuts how easy it is. And you don't even feel "on" all the time, it's just you.

CainPrice · 2020-01-10T23:58:42+00:00

Lots of guys fall into the trap of reading bullshit on the internet all day and think that they're learning stuff or improving themselves.

They're the same losers they've always been, just with a new internet hobby.

Reddit is social media. It's an online video game. You push buttons and stuff appears on your screen that makes you feel things and react. You type stuff and get awarded with points and stimulus as other people react to you.

Sure, it's an educational online video game. You can read news and learn about the sex and relationships game and stuff. But it's still just sitting at a computer. You're the same loser you've always been, just with a new internet hobby.

If you haven't been to the gym yet today and haven't had sex yet today, you should turn this video game off and go work on that.

Heybuddyyyyyy · 2020-01-10T23:46:36+00:00

Serious: do you jerk off? Stop immediately and give it a few weeks...then go in on these hos

swaghole69 · 2020-01-10T16:41:26+00:00

You think flipping thousands of pages of books is gonna magically solve your fucking problem? Why do you follow internships at school? Practical lessons? You cant just read hundred books and think youre some pimp, you actually have to put it in practice and find out what works best for you. And go fucking lift. Jesus christ these people, now go out there bro endless reading isnt enough

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2020-01-10T19:29:55+00:00

Here, have a dose of reality. You won't be missed.

That said, you're making the right choice.

huey764 · 2020-01-10T21:58:19+00:00

$5 say you wont approach a hottie

EdvardMunch · 2020-01-10T22:28:07+00:00

Do you smoke weed? If so fucking quit.

pebblefromwell · 2020-01-10T22:33:37+00:00

The older man who red piled me befor I found this sub gave me what he called the game. It works like this. You win by being rejected 100 times in 90 days. To do this you have to ask out all 100 girls in person. No social media no phones. If you get a date go on it and it does not count to your 100 keep asking.

ProFriendZoner · 2020-01-10T21:49:18+00:00

You can read all you want.

Or not.

But action is where it's at.

You're leaving us because you're reading but not taking action.

So by leaving this sub that's going to change?

I'm missing something here I just know it.

Start an accountability thread.

Hold yourself accountable.

Have us hold you accountable too if need be.

But leaving isn't going to change anything until you get off your ass and take action.

And you've "tried" to overcome this stage for how long now?

And suddenly that's all going to change?

Not knocking you, just trying to find out your reasoning.

You've got the learnings.

Now get out there and apply them.

2030isCloserThan2003 · 2020-01-10T16:47:34+00:00

Books are just tools, in the end it’s between you & your brain.

If someone were to ride a book about skiing, how many of those would you need to read to learn how to become a great skier?

You can read thousands but it’s not until you put on those skis yourself & go down hill, where you’ll finally learn how to become a good skier. Even after reading the books, you will still wipe out & fall many times, but that’s life.

Iluvalmonds83 · 2020-01-10T17:39:46+00:00

Good and I hope you succeed in self improvement and reaching your goals and moving on from the stage that you’re stuck on.

There comes a time where you’ve read all you can from a resource and now need to execute/experiment with what knowledge you’ve obtained in real life to realize what works for you and what doesn’t. Doesn’t hurt to chime back in and share personal successes with implementing a RP technique.

PrettyBarbiePerson · 2020-01-10T18:50:39+00:00

Have fun with it

empatheticapathetic · 2020-01-10T19:03:47+00:00

Great step forward. Good luck.

red__Man · 2020-01-10T19:34:38+00:00

make sure to come back later, the knowledge eventually fades away if not properly refreshed

Zombiespire · 2020-01-10T21:25:35+00:00

The book Models has a pretty good system on how to overcome the fear of approaching. It involves doing safe meaningless actions to talk to someone in public, then ramping it up slowly with meaningless small talk. Then eventually you get to the actual flirting phase and it won't make you want to throw up the first 20 times you try asking someone out. I recommend you check it out.

arcanepolar · 2020-01-10T21:41:26+00:00

Meh. You don't need to approach to live RP, you only need to approach if you're looking to score fast. If you focus on yourself, exude confidence, etc etc, the girls will flock to you and you wont need to approach. Downside is you'll have missed a lot of practice and may not know what to do when a girl comes around. good luck

drcube2000 · 2020-01-10T22:05:08+00:00

There is literally no downside to approaching women. Worst case scenario you get rejected and you're in the exact same position (not picking up women) but you have a data point about what you need to do better next time.

manu_gd · 2020-01-10T23:27:09+00:00

Good luck out there, remember Yolo, that kinda helps it for me and the fact that other people don't get the same chance you do, my twin brother died when I was little, everything crazy I do I do it for him.

SirAttackHelicopter · 2020-01-10T23:34:57+00:00

That's why I decided to start living life instead of reading

This is EXACTLY what I was gonna say as the solution to YOUR problem. Get out there and enjoy life. Better yourself with experiences and shit. Ask girls out, get dumped, learn from it, and ask other girls, repeat.

MeansToABenz · 2020-01-10T23:57:50+00:00

Good riddance. Now hurry up and get off your screens

Patches0wholahan · 2020-01-10T16:49:13+00:00

Sounds like you read these books hoping for the miracle pill. You want the easy way out.

You want, but you refuse to earn. You are having a pity party, and personally I hope nobody shows up.

See ya later. You won’t be missed here.

Good luck with life. Keep your chin up, kid.

MisterRoid · 2020-01-10T21:19:47+00:00

Have you had your testosterone levels checked? I have an easier time interacting with people since I started injecting (I had a shitty 16nmol before I started). The change did not happen overnight, but now social nervousness is almost gone. I can act like a dick or total retard and not care about what people think of it.

Title	Good bye Red Pill
Author	mrkinix
Upvotes	83
Comments	41
Date	January 10, 2020 4:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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