Got denied when asking girl on date because i'm friendzoned....

900PercentSaltIntake · 2017-10-23T22:45:20+00:00

next her so damn hard you don't even think about talking to her in 4 years time.

oldslut · 2017-10-23T23:09:47+00:00

do not respond

ghost

how does it feel to be the gay guy best friend? remember this feeling and never repeat it. (stop being an emotional tampon...)

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-10-24T01:18:32+00:00

Dude, you are like "Level 99 Friendzoned".

Ghost. And go bang hotter girls.

NobleFarore · 2017-10-23T23:16:04+00:00

The appropriate response is to hard next, ghost and never talk to her again.

Peter_B_Long · 2017-10-23T23:33:40+00:00

That's a fucked up response she gave. Personally, I've had 0% luck with trying to game / fuck girls that I knew from high school or even pre-TRP. I was in a 5 year relationship right out of highschool so when I ended things a few months ago, I thought it'd be a good idea to hit up girls from high school that either liked me, I kissed, or that was super hot and wanted to try my chances. They all either flaked, ghosted, or both.

Don't go back dude. Do not game any girls that you knew before TRP. Move forward, meet and game new girls, and always have abundance mentality at all times. You shouldn't even be asking that type of question, you should respect yourself enough to know that you should hard next.

CreateANewAccount___ · 2017-10-24T03:04:21+00:00

She hit you with a 25 piece Monster combo. No recovering from this OP. This isn’t friend zone, that’s her being a validation loving bitch. Tell her you can’t be friend zoned because you’re not friends then block like you’re Mutombo.

MRPFuckMe1 · 2017-10-24T02:50:02+00:00

Kind of honorable that she gave it to you straight. Not a lot of room for interpretation here bud. Still ice cold.

Love8Death · 2017-10-23T23:43:04+00:00

Are you really one of her best potential options?

Doubt it.

Next.

mrpoopistan · 2017-10-24T00:18:46+00:00

If a chick you knew from back in the day digs you, she will show her interest first. Remember, head space is the real estate you're fighting for with women.

My experience has been that if a woman has had years to think about you, it'll show. It'll show when she's on Facebook. She'll damned near go retarded when she meets you in person.

The last time I had a run-in with a chick I knew from back in high school, she damned near described me -- to my face no less-- like I was eight feet tall and the funniest and smartest person who ever lived.

If you're not getting that vibe, then she hasn't been thinking about you. Better to have not fired that shot at all.

zeussingh · 2017-10-24T09:11:36+00:00

Okay here is the hidden commandment :

Any girl who uses the word 'Friendzone' on you is not even worth fucking being the last pussy in this world. Let her die wet. The point being any girl who think you are just her friend ( in true sense ), would just avoid sexual topics and not shit on you by saying ' you will not get my pussy but we can talk '

Ghost her as in you can see through her even when she is standing in front of you.

Revenge mode : Teach yourself some game and fuck her best friend while still ghosting her .

kick6 · 2017-10-24T01:48:12+00:00

You obviously didn’t next her if she thinks y’all talk about ex’s.

Moolg86 · 2017-10-24T09:17:10+00:00

This girl does not see you as a sexual entity whatsoever. As such she should be dead to you. No ghosts, no Marvin’s room, not another state of entropy, DEAD AS A DOORNAIL.

Her responses to you convey a sense of contempt cultivated by your level familiarity.

You can be the juiciest sweetest, most muscular, maximum alpha peach; hell the branch is bending from how robust of a peach you are...

this bitch hates peaches.

Let that sink in, and focus your efforts on other girls that are more receptive, you’ll be happier for it because for the most part all vaginas feel the same, and girls that are actually into you will move heaven and earth to create a situation that involves you connecting your private parts.

RedPillRocket69 · 2017-10-24T09:43:20+00:00

Dude, do not say a goddamn word to this girl unless she comes crawling back to your doorstep with tears in her eyes. That last message she sent you, is a MASSIVE shit test. Do not respond, don't even view it. She is looking for validation. DO NOT GIVE IT TO HER.

Delete her number, delete her off all social media, and MoveOn. If she messages you, ask "who is this?" Followed by "Oh, did you need something?"

RedDespair · 2017-10-24T11:16:12+00:00

*she just sended now “someones spechless”

haha, ghosting causes the hamster to spin. Keep the hamster spinning

1Pink1Stink · 2017-10-24T00:55:59+00:00

Should i just next her? like i did back then for 4 years.

You're only fooling yourself. You're clueless. Women need to be blunt like this because chumps like you can never take a hint.

chooseaburner · 2017-10-24T04:53:56+00:00

If you've known a woman for 7 years and she hasn't thrown attention your way, she's not going to unless you're the bottom of her fuck list.

Ghost her, don't wait 7 years to ask someone out next time.

johnnight · 2017-10-24T08:08:26+00:00

If something could be between us we wouldn´t be talking about previous dates or past EX's.

Sounds like she learned that men get angry when she lists off her past bangs. She can discuss those WITH YOU though, because she decided that nothing will happen with you. You are her girlfriend.

ReddJive · 2017-10-24T11:08:27+00:00

There's a lot here that isn't making sense.

Based on what I am reading you need to figure out why you got friend zoned. Not jus walk away thinking she had the issue. I am betting it happens a lot more then you are admitting here. This girl is essentially a random chick off the street, UNLESS you have more interaction that you are admitting to.

You are friendzoned you know that,and thats why we can talk about everything. If something could be between us we wouldn´t be talking about previous dates or past EX's.

Which means she has talked to you about these things and like a good boy you listened. Has nothing to do whether you did or not. Remember solipsism what they feel and think you do as well.

Should i just next her? like i did back then for 4 years.

Were you dating her? you use next like you actually had a relationship when you really had orbiter status. You can't next someone you aren't fucking.

Thank you all for the comments, I ghosted her.

ghosted? It must be the younger version here but I would suggest stop using next and ghost like you had the upper hand here. You didn't. You lost the game and are making yourself feel better about it.

If your fragile ego needs it that bad then go ahead. You curb stomped your feelz, now get your dick out of the dirt and figure out why you couldn't make it with a girl you've been orbiting all this time. This whole post is you saving your fragile ego. Something occurred in the past or present...or BOTH to solidify the fact that you are not attractive to her and yet you keep coming back for more.

Don't ghost. Remove her from your life and move forward.

specialCupcake · 2017-10-24T11:18:29+00:00

"You are friendzoned you know that" what a putdown. Ghost this bitch and don't even think about getting back together.

Nergaal · 2017-10-24T08:10:15+00:00

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/

– “Can we be -just friends?-“ – Translation: I think you are a beta that should do my bidding. The answer to this is almost always no. Unless of course you don’t want to bang the chick (she’s a uggo) and for whatever reason you think she’d be cool to have around.

bluedragon239 · 2017-10-24T11:31:00+00:00

You were probably beta when she first met you. And that's what she has you classified as. Which makes it incredibly hard to break out even though you are TRP now

TakeEverything · 2017-10-24T11:32:50+00:00

Block her completely on every avenue and move on. Never come back to this one. Do not respond to her at all.

htbf · 2017-10-24T15:51:33+00:00

How did you feel when you read her answer OP ?

If you have no feelings for this entitled bitch, I would answer, just to torture her ego. I would have answered with one or several "crying laughing emojis".

You ignored her and she came back to you with "someones speechless". Tell her you're too busy laughing at her. You wanted to grab food with her, not discuss her insecurities and now the offer for meeting her is off the table, you don't have time for her pointless drama.

And realize that this is shit test like any other one. It's a massive one, but a shit test non else, and all shit tests can be passed successfully by being above it. And OP, you're above this, know that

that_italia_guy · 2017-10-24T01:53:39+00:00

You have to build up that sexual tension. You can do that by telling her you want more from her than just a friendship. If she's into that you keep escalating. If she shuts you down initially she just might be shocked, surprised by your interest. In that case escalate again and gauge her response. If she's still not interested then it's time to leave her and give her the final ultimatum. Basically tell her your not interested in being friends any more at this point. Then just shut down contact. If she eventually talks back then your in. If not, oh well, you got to be able to take the loss. It's not even a loss because it wasn't even a win to begin with....plus any advice you got from her was garbage anyways. Time spent with her is time taken away gaming other women. Read more sidebar.

rikleeRed42 · 2017-10-24T04:10:28+00:00

if it were me...

"okay, Ill respect your decision and leave you alone."

ScottDurden · 2017-10-24T05:50:14+00:00

You should never pursue girls you've known longer than a year because by that time all the mystery is gone. You no longer have the chance to be her mysterious bad boy alpha because she knows you too well.

You're chances are infinitely higher with girls you haven't met yet.

iqbal002 · 2017-10-24T07:27:42+00:00

That's why I don't let girls get too comfortable around me I think that works ... and helps to stay out of the friendzone

martinger · 2017-10-24T09:05:49+00:00

Bloody_Rayne · 2017-10-24T10:46:11+00:00

I see that she keeps taunting you with messages. Block her number and her social media accounts. She's not worth it.

Questionnaire7 · 2017-10-24T16:03:37+00:00

I have had little luck with pre trp girls. Im thinking to game them you will need an unbelievable amount of preselection

redhawkes · 2017-10-24T16:41:56+00:00

*she just sended now “someones spechless”

Ghosts can't text. Block, delete.

Aktiv8r · 2017-10-24T17:46:06+00:00

Hahaha, she thinks she's hot shit.

Put her number on every bathroom wall you find.

Don't respond. If you see her in the wild, call her by a different name each time you see her. I dunno why, but basic bitches hate that shit lol

HappyMexican · 2017-10-23T23:16:55+00:00

Other posters are right, but I wouldn't just ghost her. Are you ok being her friend? Ask yourself that honestly, you don't want to wreck a friendship (She might help you meet other chicks) because you got a boner. Just ask yourself, "Am I ok not sleeping with her and watching other guys successfully fuck her". If the answer is "Hell no", then proceed to the gambit.

Text her back "Lol ok, well I like ya, and don't feel like being in your friendzone. If that's an issue..."

She will either reply positively in your favor or ghost/shut you down. Which case your in the same boat and you can feel manly that you sent that and were true to yourself. Win win. It's social proof too, if any other friend asks about it, you can just say you were being honest, and gave a honest answer. She the one that made things weird and ghosted you.

Title	Got denied when asking girl on date because i'm friendzoned....
Author	denieddd
Upvotes	34
Comments	44
Date	October 23, 2017 10:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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