Paranoid about STDs

Dantello1 · 2020-02-25T15:11:21+00:00

Yes. I met a girl a few years ago... I had no condoms with me but the girl kept repeating "I am clean I promise"... Ok sure..

My crotch started itching a few days after... After a week peeing was straight torture. It felt like I was peeing bites of glass out of my dick.

That was not all, my dick started to leak green goo constantly. Imagine having snot-like liquid running out of your penis all day long... Super nasty!

I went to the doctor and it was confirmed, Gonorrhea..

Got the usual treatment of antibiotics. I was told that I would feel better after a few days...

I DID NOT. The pain stayed with me, It was terrible I'm telling you. Couldn't do anything for a week just because of the pain.

Turned out I had a resistant type of Gonorrhea, so regular antibiotics wouldn't work. Had to go back to the doctor and get a syringe injected slowly into my buttox by a nurse (took like 20 minutes lol).

NoLongerADream · 2020-02-25T14:02:50+00:00

Get yourself an HPV vaccination, wear a condom, go down with the lights on and look for sores (herpes)

FuckWayne · 2020-02-25T14:06:08+00:00

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nameisahmad · 2020-02-25T18:42:21+00:00

Med student here,

Just wear a condom, don’t fuck her raw unless she shows you documents.

offroadrunner · 2020-02-25T15:08:14+00:00

You can get an STD from someone who doesn’t even know they have one.
A girl will lie about anything.
Tests are only useful to the person getting tested. A girl can theoretically get tested and then bang the clinician while she’s waiting for the results.
Herpes (at least) are almost a sure bet if you’re gonna play the numbers game.
Be more worried about making a baby. They’re harder to get rid of than an STD.

BusterVadge · 2020-02-25T13:46:02+00:00

Once and only once. I got Chlamydia from a BJ. So yeah it is possible. It's very highly unlikely though.

Just to put things in perspective, I have slept with over 50 women and this is the very first issue that I've had. I always wear condoms and get tested every 6 months.

mashiss · 2020-02-25T13:59:16+00:00

There is an STD that based on statistics 90% of have been infected (I was a victim of it) it is the HPV Papilloma, this STD is actually not very dangerous (i got cured by burning the little warts with the help of my doctor) The hard part of this STD is that for some girls you can't see it easily. The best you can do is an eye scan if you see a little wart or several get the fuck out of there. Google them, they have a unique form.

This is a very common STD and the main risk is that the warts if not treated can cause you cancer. I have had sex with several girls and LTRs, i'm a bit freaked out after this experience so I take a lot of precautions and avoid the slut type.

(English is not my main language)

knuglets · 2020-02-25T16:20:30+00:00

Long story short, STDs aren't really that big of a deal. They are all either treatable, or very minor annoyances (With the exception of HIV). Yeah, you will get oral herpes if you've had sex with more than 5 women. Yes, you will likely be exposed to HPV (So get the vaccine if you haven't already). Not a big deal.

The only one to really worry about is HIV and the chances of getting that from even unprotected vaginal sex is super low (Less than .1% and that's if they are confirmed to have HIV). Basically unless you're using heroin or fucking heroin junkies in the ass, the chances of getting HIV are super low.

RileysRevenge · 2020-02-25T18:38:46+00:00

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Greaterbird · 2020-02-25T17:05:04+00:00

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FineBet0 · 2020-02-26T07:19:21+00:00

https://markmanson.net/std-guide

Zanford · 2020-02-25T19:05:37+00:00

Never gotten one, but you should assume girls lie about it.

Use condoms

Don't go down on hoes (Michael Douglas probably got throat cancer from Catherine Zeta Jones' HPV). There's no point anyway, they don't like it as much as getting the D, and it will not DHV or make her like you more, at least not if she's already getting orgasms from vaginal sex and/or sex toys. I have gotten shockingly few and mild shit tests about not going down on girls who were giving me tons of BJs.

Go with your gut if she seems too skanky or she hangs out with whole sports teams, the guys at da club, bisexual guys, etc. Real talk time: blacks have much higher STD rates, so if she's black or close with black dudes, she's at higher risk. (If that hurt your feelings, facts don't give a shit.)

I don't use condoms when getting BJs. There is a risk of STDs (including AIDS), but it's pretty low if it's a white or Asian woman blowing you. It's a calculated risk I decided to take.

Gawernator · 2020-02-25T16:51:43+00:00

Never gotten one somehow, but always have the lights on, I do ask if the girl is clean, but that doesn’t really mean much

idontevenlift37 · 2020-02-25T17:40:18+00:00

Always wear a condom, and personally I never go down on a girl that I’m not in an LTR with.

Gordon-G · 2020-02-25T18:20:00+00:00

Yes they lie

Greaterbird · 2020-02-25T18:41:29+00:00

Unless you're allergic to antibiotics, there isn't much to actually be worried about. If you're worried about HIV, get on PREP.

SpinPlates · 2020-02-26T01:30:48+00:00

I had a herpes scare. Smashed her raw too after she told me she was clean and on BC. A month later she had HSV2. I came back clean than fucking Talos.

I don't think I can ever have raw sex again without seeing the test paperwork.

All you can really do is wear a condom and pray.

dave-505 · 2020-02-26T07:53:43+00:00

A girl told me she was clean, gave me genital warts and chlamydia in one go.

2020-02-28T20:44:08+00:00

Lot of good info in these comments. Then there's the STIs 99% of the population has never even heard of (Ureaplasma/Mycoplasma Genitalium bacteria). Basically similar to Chlamydia-like symptoms (i.e. pissing razor blades, discharge, pelvic pain, etc.) or can be asymptomatic, but these things are so microscopically minute that they're very hard to identify in normal testing methods.

Furthermore, 99% of doctors and clinics aren't even aware of these things and therefore do not test for them. It's absolutely absurd how these things are not tested for regularly. And oh yeah, due to their lack of a cell wall, it makes them naturally resistant to antibiotics that target cell wall synthesis (i.e. most antibiotics). It can take months upon months upon of testing and antibiotics to get rid of this shit. The lack of testing leads doctors to just throw random ineffective antibiotics or dosage amounts at these things blindly, further leading to even more antibiotic resistance. Quite the rabbit hole indeed. WRAP it up!

Ballosaurus · 2020-02-25T14:24:45+00:00

Stds aren't a thing to worry about bro. It's really difficult to get hiv from fucking a pussy with your dick, the reason it's more common with gay guys is because you get hiv from an infected person shooting a load inside you. To catch it from an infected woman you need an open wound on your dick. You get hiv from blood and semen going inside you, which rarely if ever happens to straight guys. Condoms don't protect you from herpes anyway, and everything else is very easy to cure.

Worry more about pregnancy.

Demon-Ace · 2020-02-25T21:06:25+00:00

Banging girls left and right is not what life is about, finding your true self or true love that you want not about going to parties and drinking, smoking yea it’s fun but is that really going to help you in life not in a sense of being successful but for you mind

SAddy97 · 2020-02-25T14:24:23+00:00

STDs are overrated just fuck her raw

AuberyBitoni · 2020-02-26T01:51:28+00:00

I remember making out (just kissing) with this girl who works in a night club. The day after the make out I woke up with a huge cold sore (probably from her).

Recently she went to Thailand for 3 weeks. She kept texting, telling me how much she wanted sex. And once she gets back that I should come right over to her place. Asking me to fuck her raw etc.

I tell her to get tested and she said she would. She got back last weekend, I saw her at a party and she kept asking for sex. We made out for maybe only 1 minute and guess what? I woke up the next day with a huge cold sore again.

This bitch is nasty. Probably has all kind of STD's. Point of the story. Never trust what a chick says. If I had fucked her raw I would have had all kinds of STD's now.

2020-02-25T15:11:02+00:00

Check for Herpes and HPV. The other diseases can be avoided using a condom. Gonorrhea can also be quite dangerous, so if she pees a lot or if she has a Urin smelly vag, bounce.

Title	Paranoid about STDs
Author	PrinceAkechiG
Upvotes	51
Comments	117
Date	February 25, 2020 1:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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