why does everyone here try to talk like a drill Sgt?

TyroneTheDriver · 2019-07-01T20:35:49+00:00

Thick skin is essential to the red pill, and some men really need tough love. There are better ways to do it then calling someone a cuck with no advice though.

Personally, I dont care if someone calls me a faggot, but I'd appreciate some actual insight afterwards.

ChefCremeFraiche · 2019-07-01T21:29:54+00:00

People are always tough on the internet, especially incels who are insecure about everything in their life (probably a good 25-50% of this sub), so they try to belittle others in attempt to feel superior. Just don't mind them, their lives suck and will likely forever suck.

XT3M3 · 2019-07-01T22:18:34+00:00

People here see the word alpha and automatically see it as trying to be a major dickhead and try too hard to be badass. see the people who give horrible advice or humblebrag in most of these topics.

" MY GF WONT KISS ME IN PUBLIC SO I HARD NEXT'D THAT BITCH"
" YOU WANT TO LTR A GIRL, YOU MUST HAVE ONEITIS YOU BETA BITCH "

shit like that isnt red pilled

throw_this_far_awayy · 2019-07-01T21:32:25+00:00

Some people respond better to orders instead of good advice. For difficult stuff I must admit I need the drill to get it thru my thick skull. I have to hear it over and over before it clicks and I see the light. Or I get tired and accept that for the time being I'll follow orders.

AntiSharp · 2019-07-01T23:03:11+00:00

Agreed. Can only imagine what they’re like irl

Benny757 · 2019-07-01T23:09:28+00:00

As Sonny Barger says, everybody thinks they’re a tough guy until they meet one. Lots of tough guys. All come seeking advice here on the internet. And all happy to shout you shit. Bottom line. Other than hard work and habitual dedication, hard knocks teaches a guy best. You have to go through some real hell in life to gain true perspective. Life for most is not easy street. So at the end of the day, the only person that really has your back is you. Choose how you are going to live...

And go read the side bar, bich! ;). No really, you know what to do. You knew when you asked the question.

RedPillFusion · 2019-07-02T00:24:07+00:00

This is most likely coming from guys that have absorbed juuuust enough content to feel the need to elevate further by speaking from some perceived authority. You don't hear the higher quality posters using ad hominem against those posting seeking help. Let it roll off and pay attention to those that provide substantive feedback.

therealbigoso · 2019-07-02T00:55:40+00:00

I’m one to mostly take advice, not to give it. But the way it strikes me is that AskTRP is about an amoral, logical strategy for attracting women. It’s like reading the how-to manual. Use the part of your brain that thinks to digest this info, not the part of your brain that feels. If you use the feeling brain to read all of this, it will immediately reject the important information being conveyed by the authors on Reddit. Instead, take it in with your thinking brain, then train your feeling brain with real life experiences using the facts learned by your thinking brain.

ogkushinjapan · 2019-07-02T01:48:24+00:00

90% of reddit are white knights. So there’ll inevitably be shy insecure men posing as hardcore alphas here.

Thizzlebot · 2019-07-02T01:57:51+00:00

Most people here are autistic as fuck but more importantly they aren't red pill they are just role players.

freekshow88 · 2019-07-01T21:08:59+00:00

Why do drills scream at new recruits fresh off the block? If you think about it, you’ll see a lot of parallels between new recruits and new guys coming here.

Edit: Oh ya, forgot.

Faggot.

AdeHMar · 2019-07-01T21:16:27+00:00

They try to feel edgy and above everyone else.

Chadster113 · 2019-07-01T20:32:25+00:00

Yea we should really be more compassionate and caring and sensitive here

goochie goochie goo

[deleted] · 2019-07-01T21:12:13+00:00

Little bit of two things: delivering the hard truth in plain terms (good thing) and trying to be a little faux macho (bad thing). I think the latter is typical of people who are recently discovering TRP.

0io- · 2019-07-01T23:12:44+00:00

I kind of agree with you. While it's true that we get a lot of whiny faggots, I see quite a few guys coming in and asking reasonable questions who get (in my opinion) a harsher welcome than what's called for. It's almost a "haze the new guy" culture here, but that's how it is.

[deleted] · 2019-07-02T06:50:15+00:00

It's the same in real life though, most people are just cunts, simple.

seducter · 2019-07-02T07:57:41+00:00

Cue /u/gaylubeoil personally attacked

HastaPronto90 · 2019-07-02T12:21:49+00:00

Good post!

They think it's "alpha" to act like this online. Would like to see how some guys here look and act irl.

revaforce · 2019-07-01T22:05:45+00:00

Stop being a bitch about it you gay maggot sucking soy-boy cock sucker “” yea just eat less soy and you’ll be fine...

BurnoutRS · 2019-07-01T21:55:55+00:00

"we're all here for the same thing"

Which means the majority of you are here unnecessarily. On any given day the same question is asked in a slightly different form by a slightly different manifestation of the same overarching cultural/societal problem. Its very hard to address anyone as a real individual when doing so through a virtualized aggregate that clearly outlines how the collective voices of the beta male population can essentially be treated as one, giant, lumbering beta male who needs to be shown his way out of the masturbation cave.

"wah, some of these replies are just incels trying to be edgy and not actually posting anything of substance"

which equates to

"wah I spend too much time engaged in reading posts on a self help reddit and the posts arent helping me help myself"

which equates to "wah! community do the hard work for me! spoon feed me the info that will make me alpha!"

diceblue · 2019-07-02T00:33:55+00:00

Thank you for saying this. I was just saying to myself that the poser keyboard tough guys here all use the forum to role play drill Sargeant fantasies.

KonradCurze · 2019-07-02T00:45:32+00:00

You better start asking questions in the front-leaning rest, private!

360_no_scope_upvote · 2019-07-02T03:18:08+00:00

Blue pill the post. Does your mommy hold your hand? D'aw

magx01 · 2019-07-02T04:51:07+00:00

most of trp is just a larp.

communistcontrolact · 2019-07-02T05:32:19+00:00

Some people here are straight up trolls.

Mods neeed to make use of the ban hammer

YallmindifIhitthat · 2019-07-02T06:38:15+00:00

Absolutely agree. People come to better them selves and some guys who are most likely losers in real life make them selves feel better by aggressively belittleing people on an advice subreddit without offering any insight. Needed to be addressed. Good job.

salieri145 · 2019-07-02T07:02:34+00:00

Probably because a large proportion of people came here after being super "beta". And they're still unsecure children so take it out on others to make themselves feel better.

TFWnoLTR · 2019-07-02T13:25:21+00:00

Late to the party, but I think what you're seeing is guys who read the sidebar and have a few brain cells to rub together so they consider themselves experts and regurgitate seemingly obvious sidebar info while making themselves feel superior by being a dick about it.

Some of these guys are probably insecure about their own failures and come here to bury the pain in this way. Others are probably just plain assholes.

A few are probably genuinely trying to help motivate OP by using strong language to emphasize the weaknesses they need to address. In some situations this is useful. Like if OP is clearly ignoring red flags with his oneitis and using redpill language to frame his issue as though he doesn't have oneitis and the red flag is just a minor misunderstanding he can fix if someone would tell him how to manipulate her more effectively and gets upset when people tell him things he doesn't want to hear.

That's my 2 cents.

Matthias_Foley35 · 2019-07-01T22:32:26+00:00

Try applying General Patton’s philosophy: swear tactfully. He did when talking to the troops. That’s how he got his messages and directives to fucking stick.

boy_named_su · 2019-07-02T00:34:12+00:00

I'm one of those guys that talks like that. My answers are usually highly upvoted though

you see a lot of the same questions on here, so you try to be curt
you see a lot of questions on here from people that have obviously never read the sidebar, so they deserve some derision for their laziness
millenials, men without fathers, blue pill simps have been coddled for most of their lives and need real talk to wake them up
i'll call you a faggot, but also offer you good advice and am willing to answer questions and help you out

redpilllogin · 2019-07-01T21:09:28+00:00

You're either posting dumb questions, things that have already been answered and people don't want to bother with, or things that would be obvious if you read the sidebar.

I have not encountered that treatment here yet. Sure not everyone is going to cuddle you and hold your hand but I haven't encountered anyone being purposely hostile in the way you describe.

... You fucking pussy.

gpravda · 2019-07-01T22:18:13+00:00

Jesus christ, are you serious? The answer for this question is so obvious that you should get checked for downs syndrome or some actual intellectual disability.

TheStumblingWolf · 2019-07-01T21:24:10+00:00

See it as a form of hazing. It teaches you to separate content/value from rhetoric. And if it doesn't maybe you're not ready yet. That said, I've never spoken like that and I think only a few people, like gaylubeoil, can pull it off without coming off as a complete try-hard. I didn't like the way he talked at first but now I think it's kind of funny. The value he provides speaks for itself.

ZenOfFool · 2019-07-01T21:41:18+00:00

At a point your understanding of game and trp you will just "get it". And most of us that completely understand it. We had to go through the sloughs of hell and make it out alive. Those of use who "get it" do not feel sympathy for those who don't. We earned our strips, so should all the newfags. So when you soyboys posts something whiney or why a girl won't do something. That means you haven't experienced or learned enough to have the mental fortitude to "get it". Nobody is going to hold your hand on this journey. The trp is real as it gets. Somethings can't be taught or told, they have to be learned through hard earned experience.

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-07-01T22:31:46+00:00

cos it feels good to act superior

Eminencemiddle · 2019-07-01T23:46:39+00:00

Tough love. So much panty waist shit. They are told proper information, yet, they cling to and boast of their actions, and fagginess. They need to see the infection, or they will not seek to cure it.

wheresMYsteakAt · 2019-07-01T21:28:53+00:00

Sidebar until men speaking doesn't offend you. Then speak.

MarvelousWhale · 2019-07-02T02:00:39+00:00

I'll give you the answer, a question I asked myself a few years back when this community went from a secret sub few knew about that had gold in nearly every post, to a overpopulated clusterfuck of reposts and ignorance it is today.

Some posts get replied to by senior contributors who start off with hard hitting name calling followed by sound advice, both parts necessary to thicken your skin and advice necessary to correct your actions in the future.

It's followed by fuckwits who get half chubs by pretending they know what they're talking about by emulating the senior contributors by again, starting with the name calling hard hitting come backs, but fail when they can't follow it up with the sound advice and reasoning skills that come only from true experience, analytical thinking and intellect.

When you make a post/question and it gets 100 comments, 80% are immediately worthless and you'll have to sift thru to find the gold nuggets much like anything else in life. Not everyone on this sub has a clue what they're talking about, including myself half the time.

Given time, you'll develop thicker skin and become aware that all the "lol read the sidebar faggot" posts that don't include any helpful material or direction are actually just faggots themselves who prefer to comment on a sub to neg newbies looking for answers to questions the commenter doesn't have the answer to begin with because they get more enjoyment out of negging others than going out, gaming women and developing their livelihood. They may have not even read the sidebar themselves.

Ignore these worthless cumstained t-shirt wearing basement dwellers. Learn how to identify gold and tune out the background noise.

Edited to remove my own pube fluffing

StoneHurk · 2019-07-02T02:49:28+00:00

Because it's funny

FuckMichaelMcCoy · 2019-07-02T03:20:55+00:00

Powertripping, they feel alpha online. They also regurgitate and copy other posters who do the same thing because it gets heavily upvoted and sooner or later everyone does it

E9er · 2019-07-02T04:55:57+00:00

you started whining... and now you’re gonna get banned... these mighty alphas mega kings... love saying sidebar or getting butthurt

mikayla_rivera · 2019-07-02T14:54:50+00:00

Lol there is a shit ton of incels on here, women are really not that difficult guys. You just need to stop telling yourself that you don’t care about anyone and that all that matters is sex.

Sex is better when you earn it by being romantic and kind. Go to meet ups or events and talk to girls, don’t try to fuck them, just talk to them and get to know them better. Ask them a lot of questions and be interested in their responses, you also want to make sure that you remember what they say.

Later, when you see them again (because you got their number or you just are going to) bring up the things you talked about before. Make girls feel special, like they are the only one you are focused on. Girls like respect. Tease them and make jokes, you also want to at some point say something that is vulnerable. Mention something to them that you don’t usually tell anyone, this will make them feel like you trust them and that you guys are getting closer.

Plan interesting dates where you go to multiple things, don’t just pick dinner and a movie or drinks at the bar. Take them to dinner, then go for a walk, then look at shops together or go do a fun activity. Lol that wasn’t really a perfect date idea, but you get the picture. Girls that are worth dating, you will have to work for a bit more. Plan your approach with women and don’t have expectations when you meet someone you like, I have found that being friends first is the best way. Don’t know what to tell you if you get friend zoned though, I’ve never had that problem.

throwaway19991312 · 2019-07-01T22:19:45+00:00

See a lot of people here aren't really redpilled. They are "beta" and saw how the "alpha" in their life bullied them and assume that being a dick is necessary to being "alpha".

At the same time its necessary sometimes with some people being so stubborn that you need to give tough love to them to get through (and even that doesn't usually work because to admit they are wrong makes them feel "beta").

A good example of tough love being met with over whelming stubbornness was this literal nobody who lost all his money on Bitcoin and still assumed he was a genius. Reading his pretentious replays to everyone giving genuine advice was fascinating. r /iamverysmart material.

travlingsomewhere · 2019-07-01T23:09:25+00:00

I’ve noticed it too. Lots of young people here that think talking tough or being a dickhead to someone is “alpha” behavior.

They use the excuse “though love”... lol no you’re just being a asshole.

fuckrbrasilmods · 2019-07-01T23:47:49+00:00

Ppl here talk like men: no nonsense, directly, a bit harshly to drive the point home. You should ask yourself why it bothers you, and here's a tip: society has descended into an inoffensive, ball-less mediocrity desert of ideas. Tough lessons are much more valuable than participation trophies.

guywhoisambitious · 2019-07-02T03:54:30+00:00

Another thing is that this sub is bipolar as fuck. One day everyone telling me I'm a bitch. The next day everyone telling me I took shit too far, when I literally followed the advice of 90 percent of the commenters. Both posts got hella hate comments and dislikes.

mitchopatamus · 2019-07-02T06:32:49+00:00

I always assume the ones that talk like that are in the early stages of the red pill. I remember for myself in the beginning I realized I was a people pleasing beta bitch, and so I did a complete 180. I feel like it’s almost a knee jerk reaction to overcorrect before you settle on being comfortable just being yourself

felix04490 · 2019-07-02T08:09:22+00:00

Some people have inflated egos and feel like they need to prove something.

Redditgoodaccount · 2019-07-02T09:46:23+00:00

It's the way of men and it's used in the military because it's effective with men.

Hitting the P (pride) spot can be very beneficial for a man.

So to me yes it's acceptable to go sgt drill when it's appropriate and also provide consistent advice.

TheRedPike · 2019-07-02T15:57:12+00:00

richasalannister · 2019-07-02T01:15:17+00:00

Because the people asking questions here often need direct, blunt advice.

And the people commenting all think they're oh so alpha and that acting like a dick proves it.

Ivabighairy1 · 2019-07-02T00:37:13+00:00

Hep, 2, 3, 4!

nobody_thinks · 2019-07-02T00:38:40+00:00

GO LIFT AND SUCK DADDYS DICK FOR ALL THAT SPERM PROTEIN FUCKFACE

gay

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-07-02T06:10:35+00:00

This is Asktrp. Not everyone is here for the same thing.

nicyhasreddit · 2019-07-02T08:32:10+00:00

Real men know how to take insults in stride.

If its warranted, you suck it up and think about what you did for someone to describe you as such. A pussy or basically anything demeaning your masculinity means coward. You were cowardly when you should have stood up like a man. You demeaned your own masculinity and people see you as such. Same with all the other insults.

If its not warranted, you can make him spit blood. Talk shit spit blood.

But a lot of times, insults are warranted. Take the shit like a man and learn.

redhawkes · 2019-07-02T11:11:31+00:00

Because you talk like a bitch and have fragile ego.

Someone called you a 'needy bitch' in your last post, here you are bitching about it with a new shit post.

Tough love motherfucker. Noone is going to coddle your balls here. If you prefer feelz over reelz, head over to relationshits.

mickey__ · 2019-07-02T11:44:33+00:00

You should come up and check trp discord server, it's like everyone is keeping sidebar open and read it while having a simple discussion

T-P-T-W-P · 2019-07-02T12:28:24+00:00

When I occasionally comment here I don’t do that because I tend to expect that if you post here you have a semblance of manhood/resolve/wherewithal/ etc. This is a forum of discussion. If you are someone who needs to be pushed super hard like that by strangers over the internet, you’re probably going to lose at whatever you’re doing anyway so why bother. It’s also rude.

slip_like_space · 2019-07-02T14:11:06+00:00

Redpill sidebar does not judge.

TheRealMewt · 2019-07-01T22:14:33+00:00

Funny, I don't recall Sgt Hartman talking to his troops like some spergling faggot fresh out of /pol/ and I certainly don't see earnest advice here sounding like one either. But we can generally see who reads the sidebar and who doesn't gauged by reactions like "why does everyone here try to talk like a drill sgt" and other gay shit like that, so if you want actual advice maybe not try to generalize an entire community. Maybe read the sidebar. Maybe even lurk a little bit and see if someone else asked "how do I get my high school crush to notice me like the sand pie she is" before attributing to the noise.

Advice here is a public service. You get what you get. Nod and say "thank you sir, may I have another" and people might not think twice about helping you out down the road.

Title	why does everyone here try to talk like a drill Sgt?
Author	BradyBrosef33
Upvotes	354
Comments	123
Date	July 1, 2019 8:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/c7zo5j/why_does_everyone_here_try_to_talk_like_a_drill/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/why-does-everyone-here-try-to-talk-like-a-drill.244108 https://theredarchive.com/post/244108

Comments