Sometimes it can be tough at the start to have the creativity and speed to flirt and build tension. It can help to have some simple lines that can be used in a variety of situations. Not all of the ones I list are super direct or seductive, but that makes them simple. Plus, they just make situations more fun, which a girl likes. These are my top 10 reliable lines that I'll often use:

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  • "I can definitely beat you in that!"
    • This could be said when she mentions something like bowling or snowboarding. "O I could totally beat you in bowling" or "I could kick your butt down the mountain if we went."
    • This adds a fun competition and excitement that you can playfully argue about.
    • It is even better if you can actually play the game. Then you could say "Okay, we are going bowling then, and I will bet you a round of drinks I win."
  • "Oucchhhh, I feel like I should be offended."
    • This can be said when she playfully calls you something or teases you. If she says, "you're kind of a redneck aren't you?", that would be a perfect time to say this. You have to exaggerate the ouch and what you say so she knows you are joking and not insecure, but it is pretty easy to get that across. Just say it with a smile.
    • It shows you can take a joke and have fun with her teasing.
  • "I think I just fell in love." or "I might fall in love if you say that." or "I may have to marry you now."
    • If she says something you strongly agree with like "I love Led Zeppelin!", that would be when to use this. This is another one to say with exaggeration.
    • It shows you are passionate about something and you like that she is into similar things to you. It is a fun way to show you are into her.
  • "Welp, I am just going to go and act like we never met." or "I don't even want to talk to you anymore."
    • Say this when she says something you disagree with, such as "I'm not a huge fan of dogs." This is the reverse pretty much of the one above.
    • It is a good way to tease her and add a little push/pull tension.
  • "Is it weird that that turns me on a little?"
    • This one is a little more advanced and should be used further on once you can tell you both are already connecting. Say you both are dancing and she puffs on a Juul, you could say it then.
    • This is a good way to introduce sexual tension, but make sure to use this at the right time and with a joking tone.
  • "Ok don't judge me, butttt...."
    • Use this when you are about to reveal something playfully secretive, such as "Ok don't judge me, butttt I have watched a decent number of rom-coms." Say it jokingly so she knows you aren't actually insecure.
    • It is a good way to open her up to teasing you, which is fun and builds more tension. Getting that back and forth of teasing and flirting is what keeps the conversation from being boring.
  • "You're honestly the worst."
    • This is good to say if she teases you somehow, such as "You know, I don't think you're very good at golf."
    • It's another good way to introduce push/pull and teasing.
  • "You seem like that" or "I do get those vibes from you."
    • I like to say this one if they tell me something like "I'm studying to be a teacher."
    • This tends to pique their curiosity and wonder why you made that judgement about them. People like to know what other's think of them.
  • "I'm really only hanging out with you for ____"
    • For example, if she has a dog that you like, you can say "I'm really only hanging out with you for your dog."
    • It is a good way to show you are into her, but joke around and tell her you're into something besides her.
  • "Prove it."
    • This is a good one to say if she says "I am stronger than you." or "I could beat you in a fight." or raises any sort of competition to you.
    • It opens the door for physical competition or fun battles.

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These take practice to perfect how and when to say them, but they're relatively easy lines to keep in your back pocket. Most of them should be said with a smile or joking tone to show your playfulness. Good luck!