1. Keeping my hair relatively long (I am almost 27, and rock a messy parted haircut. I think women like a guy who at my age still has good hair, but doesn't put effort into styling it or making it look perfect. It's a blend of prettiness and ruggedness, which will be a theme of the post.)
  2. Getting tattoos (only got two, which are family-related pieces of ink, on both of my biceps. Some girls definitely love the "more the merrier" approach with tats, but in my experience, one or two kind of tells them that there's likely a story behind the ink which must be important. Also, once again, adds ruggedness.)
  3. Not trimming body hair (my arms are not that hairy, my chest is very decent, but my abs are fluff city. Body hair is such a strange turn on for girls, but it's very much a true one. They adore "playing" with it, especially during intercourse.)
  4. Gym, gym, gym (you'll always hear how the ideal body type for guys is Brad Pitt: Fight Club. In my experience, that isn't the case. Girls like a guy with a bigger frame that still has some ab definition behind it all. Being ripped and being jacked are torturous experiences in their own way, so being in the middle worked for me.)
  5. Wearing darker colors (for the past year, I've wore black and darker shades of grey and blue to a lesser extent exclusively. I used to be a flamboyant dresser in my youth, and only recently did I realize how jester-ish I looked. Sticking to the most basic palette not only looks good, but ensures whatever you wear will match lol. Black gives women the allure of danger and class simultaneously it seems.)
  6. Dressing like a hoe lol (another mistake I, much like MANY other guys make, is that I was always covered up. Even while inside, I'd never take off my jacket, coat, whatever - I'd remain in 4 layers of clothes. Now, I dress to show off my body, with my favorites being V-neck shirts. I've realized that women fantasize just as much as we do, and when you provide visual "motivation", you're doing a lot right.)
  7. Leaving jewelry behind (yet another weird hack I found, but women ain't into the whole "4 rings on each finger, 3 necklaces and 15 bracelets" vibe TikTok told you about. This is likely highly effective if you're a teenager, but once you reach my age, rocking more jewelry than the woman you're on a date with is, quote, "pretty gay". Luckily, I was always a watch-only kind of guy, but it's still an important note to make.)
  8. Trimming your eyebrows (speaking of which, I never ever could've imagined what proper eyebrow trimming can do to a man. It somehow frames your face completely and makes you look more proportionate. My advice would be to let a professional, preferably a woman do it for ya, because they ain't playing around when it comes to the brows.)
  9. Nice skin complexion plus a nice body cream is a great combo (a friend of mine helped me uncover this trick, and even though it sounded stupid it really did work. Using a body cream based in some exotic yet delicious fruit like strawberry or pomegranate, especially before you go out or before intercourse, simply triggers something in women. I was amazed that it actually worked, because again, the aforementioned hairiness mixed with the sensuality of an alluring cream awakens something primal in girls apparently.)
  10. Toning down smiling (as much as it sucks, it's true - smiling kills your aura, as the kids say. This was a hard pill for me to swallow, as I have a very good smile, but after I not only observed how other Chads I know never smile, and after receiving numerous compliments that I look better whilst serious, I quit. A smirk is fine, grinning like an anime schoolgirl is not.)