Shame. It's one of the biggest indicators of the nice guy. The nice guy is always worried he'll do the inappropriate and get disgraced for it. He doesn't wanna be `that guy.' The creeper.

But the bad boy knows that one of the best compliments he can get from a woman is, "You're shameless!" It means she thinks he doesn't care what women think of him. That's so attractive. You can use this to your advantage by purposely putting yourself in situations to demonstrate shamelessness. Here are some ways to do that.

I'm in the middle of conversation with a woman. I look down at her necklace. I say, "That's interesting" as I reach over and touch it.

As I touch the necklace, I just barely touch her breasts with the back of my hand.

I put the necklace down and look at her as I say, "Nice necklace... And I wasn't trying to touch your tits... Okay, actually I was."

They always laugh.

Whenever a girl asks, "Do you do this with all the girls?" my response is always, "Yes."

"Do you take all your dates to this bar?" She asks. "Yes," I respond.

"Do you play this game with all your dates?" she asks. "Yes I do."

Most guys would sputter and try to pretend they came up with it just for her. Fuck that. You don't know her that well. Don't try to make her feel like she's the most special thing ever.

Recently, I invited a girl out on a second date over text. She responds, "Okay, I'll do Thursday if you agree to pick someplace you haven't previously brought a bunch of bitches. Deal?"

"You drive a hard bargain," I respond.

Last week I was with a girl in a bar. The conversation got sexual pretty quick. A bit later she asks me, "Be honest, were you thinking about taking me home when we talked about that stuff?"

"Honestly?" I respond.

"Honestly," she says.

"No." I tell her and I let it sink in.

"Okay," she says, looking at me suspiciously.

"But I was thinking about fucking you over there in that hallway." She punches my arm.

This doesn't mean that you should always go for the sex move and always be sexual. You of course need to temper this with some disinterest. The vibe I'm trying to give off is that I want to fuck her, but if I don't fuck her, I don't really care.

It's a third date. We just ate in restaurant. It's near her place. It's freezing cold out. I wouldn't mind going back to her place and hooking up with her, but at the same time, I'm not going to put myself out there. So I throw it out there.

"Let's go back to your place for a little bit."

"I don't know about that..." she starts to protest.

I cut her off at the end of the sentence with, "Alright. I'm catching a cab." And I physically turn and start walking away from her. I really am going to catch a cab because I'm not in the mood for any bullshit.

At that point she stops me and says we can hang out at her place for a while. "A while" ends up being all night.

With another girl, it was a first date. I had moved her to a bar that was closer to my place. It's getting to the end of our drink and we're talking about leaving. She asks where the trains are so she can go home. I tell her. She asks where I live. I point to an apartment complex you can see from the window of the bar.

"See that building right there? That's where I live."

"Are you trying to get me closer to your place?!" she protests.

"No," I say. "I'm trying to get ME closer to my place."

As we walk out of the bar she asks, "Where are we going now? Am I getting on the train? Are we going to another bar? Going to see your cat?"

"We're going to see my cat," I tell her and we head back to my place together for the night.

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Eric Disco