Might be going out alone for the first time ..any tips?

rahhumilovedogs · 2022-09-17T20:00:47+00:00

Sit at the bar. Almost always other solo people there. Traveled alone alot, meet lots if cool people sitting at bars. It's not an issue what so ever.

zertsetzung · 2022-09-17T19:14:13+00:00

If you go to a bar, make sure you sit AT the bar and not a table off in the corner somewhere.

Chicks notice shit like that and it will turn them off to you if you are sitting there alone in a corner all weird and shit and then decide to go up and approach them. It portrays what is called "negative social proof". Which will hurt you with women.

seniortwat · 2022-09-17T19:03:04+00:00

My bf and I (20 m&f) are looking for friends to go out with near the Tampa area too! Pm me if u want (:

inline6throwaway · 2022-09-17T20:30:13+00:00

Yes I tend to go to bars by myself. I sit at the bar by myself. I've met women this way. Sometimes people will start talking to you. I've had random people buy me drinks. It's not a bad way to go

Contango6969 · 2022-09-17T21:43:46+00:00

Go out early. Talk to the people who work at the bar and give them tips. They will be there all night and they have to be nice to you. Once you are on friendly terms you won’t even feel like you’re out alone.

burncushlikewood · 2022-09-17T22:00:58+00:00

Don't just approach women, but men too it's a great way to make friends, also helps in finding a wing cause beautiful women are seldom alone, hit the dancefloor

Radicalmattitude1 · 2022-09-18T02:38:06+00:00

Just enjoy the social environment and get into your own flow. Even if you’re just sitting there by yourself, the alternative would be that you’re home alone doing nothing. You’re already winning just by being there. Next, talk to the first people you see when you get into the bar, ask how their night is going. Even if the convo goes nowhere, you’ll instantly be in a more social mood. There’s no downside. Keep the momentum going and approach a group of girls, ask them how their night is going. Chat it up for a bit and move on to some cuter girls. Keep going like this a few more times and before you know it you’ll be talking to a stunner like it’s no big deal and think how did I go from not knowing anyone to meeting this cutie? Bam, now you’re gaming

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-09-17T19:21:14+00:00

going out where dude? you don't drink so what venues are we talking?

zapadz · 2022-09-17T19:20:18+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPCU03Dp8Zw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K41O98cKKpg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBcmsygDJGU

PhoenixNightingale90 · 2022-09-18T00:05:09+00:00

https://youtu.be/7sheKRnZWHY

Successful_Teach366 · 2022-09-18T03:56:13+00:00

Give us the update!

Responsible_Part_901 · 2022-09-17T19:10:10+00:00

I'm in the same scenario actually

ReptilianApe · 2022-09-17T23:25:22+00:00

After my wife and I separated, I started going to bars to read. I've met a lot of great people that way. Even if I don't have a conversation that night, it got me into a new hobby that I enjoy. Just some ideas.

Icy_Rub1839 · 2022-09-18T10:56:45+00:00

Look your best. Sometimes when you go out alone girls may even approach you and invite you over to where their friends are.

It's happened to me.

Handle-me-timber · 2022-09-18T12:45:23+00:00

If you meet a group, you need to engage the whole group, not just a girl you’re into. It’s a bit harder to do when you don’t have a wing to engage the group and let you interact with the woman 1 on 1. I would prefer to meet at the bar and have her bring me back to her group, then the guys would be out of line to try to call you out.

It’s unlikely to find people out without other people, so just remember that in order to get the girl in the situation, you need to gain some approval or trust from the people around her.

MK2718 · 2022-09-18T13:27:39+00:00

How to Go Out Alone

Feisty_Stuyiiyy · 2022-09-18T02:55:19+00:00

Have fun. That’s the whole point of going out. If you’re hot, w0men will take notice of you. If you’re average you’ll have to prove you’re worth her time. And if you’re ugly, just truly enjoy what you’re out doing. W0men aren’t interested in ugly looking men.

Title	Might be going out alone for the first time ..any tips?
Author	ImpressFar7945
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Date	September 17, 2022 6:48 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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