I had my heart broken and I want revenge. I'm asking for help on how to do that

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dryempire · 2022-08-23T15:45:25+00:00

lmao, i didnt even read half of it to know that you should drop it and get back to working on yourself

Lucazzz14 · 2022-08-23T15:46:54+00:00

Didn't read.

But the best "revenge" you can do is forget about this shit, continue with your life, date other women and be the best version if yourself.

Even then all of that is for your benefit.

cucumbermolester · 2022-08-23T16:08:33+00:00

When u set out for revenge, first dig 2 graves.

Oscarboy3333 · 2022-08-23T15:42:27+00:00

lol do you really want to be with a girl like that ? She is pathetic and you aren't much different. That guy lives in her head rent free. She hates him but she cant let go of him in her mind. She is using you to distract herself from him. Revenge on matter like this is useless, you will always end up looking like the biggest loser. You need to have abundance mindset, there are millions of girls that are better looking than her and most importantly with better mindset. Life with her will always be a trouble, you will go nuts. Just fking ignore her and leave her.

MayhemReignsTV · 2022-08-23T15:40:41+00:00

Revenge for what? Your insecurities drove her off. You kept listening to other people about everything and confronted her. You still come off as very insecure with this pettiness. Do you blame her for not wanting to be in the relationship? Maybe she should have broken it off before seeing somebody else but then again it doesn’t sound like you guys were really all that serious, to be honest. I’m sorry man love hurts but it doesn’t sound like your hands are clean in this mess. Just learn from the experience and move on. It’s hard to do sometimes but it makes you a better person in the end. And it’s something other women can respect. Because you obviously don’t want her anymore and I’m sure she doesn’t want you.

SeniorVeiga · 2022-08-23T15:45:24+00:00

Revenge is for kids, follow excelence. You will find an excelent girl in the path of your life.

You dont know what to do? Gym.

Molteni- · 2022-08-23T15:49:27+00:00

Something similar happened to me. She revealed me she has BPD. I suggest you to move on: it is like losing someone, you are in the "angry phase". You'll get over it

LeftChampionship8306 · 2022-08-23T16:12:46+00:00

You idiot, you don’t get “revenge” on a girl who broke ur heart. If she doesn’t want to be with you than so be it. You cannot force anyone to be with you. That is beta behavior, just move on and find another girl who likes you bruh.

Skadongle · 2022-08-23T16:13:07+00:00

Stopped reading halfway through, but the girl sounds psychotic and you sound insecure

Brush up on your writing skills too because this shit is incredibly frustrating to read

grindforthegold · 2022-08-23T15:46:57+00:00

yeah bro this is toxic that girl is obviously into her ex still move on

Kundalini-Electric · 2022-08-23T16:17:40+00:00

This is incel behaviour. Grow up. You pushed her away by being too emotional and telling her your insecurities.

WickedBiscuit · 2022-08-23T16:57:41+00:00

So you’re upset this girl disrespected you and fucked with your time and your revenge is giving her more of your time and energy…

The best “ revenge”doesn’t have anything to do with action or emotions. The best revenge is apathy.

Really want to stick it to her and do right by yourself? Be apathetic. Completely erase her from your external, but more importantly, your internal life.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2022-08-23T17:02:58+00:00

COMPLETELY forget about this and move on with your life

kenny00111 · 2022-08-23T15:59:53+00:00

Grow up

Dyvanna · 2022-08-23T16:16:23+00:00

The best revenge you can get is to move on and live your best life, anything else isn't worth it and damages you more than her.

Davidskylarkk · 2022-08-23T16:19:53+00:00

Lesson learned, move on with your life bro…

darkmexaya · 2022-08-23T16:23:47+00:00

Your revenge is to get better and watch her regret treating you the way she did. It's a dish best served cold because it requires patience.

CTeeRuler · 2022-08-23T16:26:51+00:00

I knew I'd get this type of response and in all honesty I kinda agree with most of you. I just want her to know how bad I'm hurting. I always told her I'd never give up on us and that I'd always love her. I told her my life's work was to make her happy. I know it was corny and too sensitive but I thought it was okay cos I thought we'd always be together and I could let loose and be soft. That was a mistake. I know she's gonna come back when things get rough with the other guy and I'm worried my dumbass might actually take her back. I really needed to hear this tho. Thank you guys

Satestokjes · 2022-08-23T16:28:25+00:00

Don't take revenge. Like the other guy who didn't read it I haven't aswell but the first alinea told me enough. How hard it may be drop it. Just fucking drop it man. She isn't worth the time and he isn't worth the revenge.

Perfect_War5446 · 2022-08-23T16:36:37+00:00

Don’t seek revenge it’s immature and weak. Just move on

NatanaeH · 2022-08-23T16:37:48+00:00

U had to beat the shit out of her ex even if it ended with u losing the fight, u cannot let anyone walk all over you. Mistakes were made just learn from this and dont let it happen again king

gunners98 · 2022-08-23T16:47:04+00:00

i didnt read your post. but forget it. it’s not worth it.

work on/better yourself and hopefully move on and be happy and find peace with someone else, and more importantly yourself.

that’s the best revenge, whether or not this person you wanted revenge on finds out about your newfound happiness, if it’s real/true it wont really matter what they think or if they even find out anyways.

best of luck

texaspete3 · 2022-08-23T17:01:06+00:00

beginner's revenge... Fuck her Friends Novice Revenge.....Fuck her Sister Advanced Revenge ....Fuck her Mom

Ultimate revenge, 3 way with mom and sister, while dad is filming. You're welcome.

experiment_137 · 2022-08-23T17:09:10+00:00

Focus on studies kid, girls will just come and go

libert-y · 2022-08-23T16:10:50+00:00

Bruh this looks a like a telenovela script. You are giving it to much attention. Focus on your dreams and become a better man. Hoes come and go

privacylmao · 2022-08-23T16:32:50+00:00

If you want a revenge well I suggest to get fucking huge bro, go to the gym and destroy the weights! I started out as a scrawny little kid some years ago and look at me now after 2 breakups/heartbreaks lol bigger, healthier and stronger than ever and I ain't stopping! (my tiktok is mateosaric you can see my progress if curious)

You will get through this in no time. Focus on yourself, don't embarass yourself by trying to actively attempt a revenge because that will make things worst for you ego. Let that slide and make the bar higher for the next times. Good luck

Sure-Wish3240 · 2022-08-23T16:48:21+00:00

You really wanna broke her?

Forget her. Be Nice and polite. Stay in touch and never block her again. Follow her on Facebook and wait until her life turns into shit with a divorce , single mom with 2 kids etc.

Then you out of the blue message her and say thank you. Thank her for your personal sucess at work, for your happy marriage of 20 years. Say that If wasnt for her you would not have become the man that you are now.

Been there, done that. Twice. Be like me, play the long game.

One of them i messaged when she was pregnant of the 2nd baby and found out her hubby was betraying her. I was like: that IS disgusting, I would never would have done this to you If we were together. I went só far as to say "you deserved better"

PS: only works with the mentally ill bitches. The good girls that you should have married , those will stay married and you will never get the chance to roast them.

logicallyillogical · 2022-08-23T16:51:09+00:00

Forgiveness isn't for the other person, its for you. It's so you can find peace.

Move on, get back to yourself and don't get bogged down by this petty bullshit.

Kevin26039898 · 2022-08-23T17:16:07+00:00

Revenge for foolish Move forward

lewis230399 · 2022-08-23T17:18:41+00:00

Play the same game as her ex. Make shit up about him and when she falls for it sleep with her shoot a load down her throat and then don’t text back. She sounds like a massive bitch tbh. This is assuming you’re ready to permanently disconnect from her emotionally

ZaWarud0z · 2022-08-23T17:23:53+00:00

Hey, do you have a dog? Never mind, you can collect dog turd everywhere these days. Fill a bag with fresh one and live it at her doorstep.
Trevor Bortmen says “Hi”.

mab87117 · 2022-08-23T17:24:13+00:00

I know exactly how you feel and I have been in a similar situation, i also wanted revenge and that is what exactly what i had. i told this girl so many things about myself and so many traumatizing experiences that happened to me when i was younger, and how bad everything was for me, and she exposed me to each and everyone in the school, everyone looked at me as if i was messed up and weird and a creep and i had no respect by anyone, a year later i took all that negative energy and invested it in working on myself, and one night she texted me, she was apologizing to me and all i could focus on is making her look as desperate as possible, then i told her that i grew up and that all of that was in the past and that i wasn't holding a grudge, when summer came she texted me and i was very playful with her, then i started teasing her and she loved it, she was ready to do anything i order her to, and one time i asked her very smoothly to come over and she did, we sat together at my room (the apartment was empty) and we started getting it on, then we ended up having sex, and when we finished i had that postnut clarity, i felt like a king or a god and i wasn't really talking to her at all then i just asked her to get the fuck out, and she did after throwing a tantrum my heart was pounding but i was feeling amazing.

Strict_Chemistry_797 · 2022-08-23T17:24:50+00:00

How do you know she unblocked you? Is there a notification?

Charge36 · 2022-08-23T17:29:00+00:00

Revenge is stupid. Stop spending your precious time and energy on this girl
There is no way she's having sex with you again so forget it.

Agreeable-You9777 · 2022-08-23T17:30:12+00:00

Hit the gym, eat a lot of protein and carbs, do some cardio maybe. You’ll start looking like a champ and feeling like a champ as a result. Then you’ll forget about that girl and move on.

Majestic_Ad_2885 · 2022-08-23T17:30:20+00:00

Fuck her best friend. Marry her best friend. In 20 years when she’s married, ask her if she wants to hook up and if she says yes, send the convo to her husband. Go crazy. Get sent to the mental hospital.

UnfunnyTroll · 2022-08-23T17:31:36+00:00

pee in her butt

iMeatatarian · 2022-08-23T17:35:49+00:00

Do yourself a favor and delete this post and man up.

StayFrostyMyFriends7 · 2022-08-23T17:36:03+00:00

Bro just move on, she’s living rent free in your head as her ex is in hers, so the best thing you can do is just use the negativity you have inside you and work on yourself, it’s very cliché but it’ll certainly make you forget about revenge and her and she’ll notice that and then crawl back as exes always do

wwwhhhgggwq · 2022-08-23T17:52:39+00:00

Man, you young guys are some dumb motherfuckers.

Here is the deal, women aren't shit and the sooner you realize that, the easier your life will be and the more women you will get.

If a woman does anything even slightly shady, cut that bitch off immediately. You don't react, or cause a scene, or talk shit. In the friendliest, most polite way possible, you cut off all her access to your life. Her punishment is that she no longer has access to you or your life.

You're friendly and polite because in your heart she isn't a big deal, and her leaving your life isn't a big deal. That will fuck a woman's head up 1000x more than saying some wild shit in anger.

Then you go holler at the next chick, because there is an ENDLESS stream of them. When you meet the next chick, you quietly let them know your policy, you don't even say it, you just operate with the energy of: I'm the man, you're only in this relationship because I'm allowing you to be, I don't take shit and the SECOND you cross one of my lines you're out. No drama, no fanfare, just a polite message of thank you and goodbye, and then it's 100% ghost after that.

The sooner you realize women aren't your's(it's just your turn) and act accordingly the more their behavior makes sense and the more you turn them on.

If you dropped this chick the second she started acting like a dick you wouldn't be in this situation and she wouldn't be up in your feelings.

Figure out what you want to do with your life and worry about that. Women are fun that comes and goes, don't try to hold onto them or let them get in your feelings. Worry about school, worry about your job, worry about getting your male friendships and money right. If that stuff is in place, and you have the mentality above, women will magically show up to be a part of your life.

IOW worry about creating a life women want access to, don't worry about women. When you have that, they show up and you'll call the shots(and that will turn them on even more).

Finally, always remember, a woman will never love you, she only loves what you can do for her.

YakOk4903 · 2022-08-23T17:57:57+00:00

I’m telling you gangy DROP her ain’t no point in competing for a girl twin💕

zapadz · 2022-08-23T18:02:49+00:00

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Use these to move on

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http://happinessbeyondthought.blogspot.com/2012/05/surrendering-i-letting-go-of-suffering.html

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CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-23T18:41:00+00:00

Revenge… Dude you sound like a serial killer or someone you see in the news that murder a women as revenge, think of what you actually said dude.

Healthy people don’t seek revenge they just move on because they are mature.

You sound immature as fuck and that can be dangerous to society. Learn to accept that life doesn’t always go the way you want and move on.

Title	I had my heart broken and I want revenge. I'm asking for help on how to do that
Author	CTeeRuler
Upvotes	1
Comments	64
Date	August 23, 2022 3:34 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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