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ohropax · 2022-08-23T12:45:35+00:00

I'm actually exactly the opposite. Street approaches are super quick and when you get rejected you're off and away before she says no. No awkwardness.

While in a bar, you go over to her and spill your Taco Line, you get rejected, now what. You're gonna be there the whole evening with her in the same room. Most of the time she's with friends, so u get rejected in front of all her besties. Also you're probably the tenth guy that approached her that night.

Mmm91for · 2022-08-23T15:47:50+00:00

This right here is the corruption of modern day thinking… “talking to people in person is advanced”. Before IG and all that social media, approaching women was the only way.. just talk to people like they’re humans you’ll be surprised at how many people a thirsting for a conversation.

IOnlyCameToArgue · 2022-08-23T18:02:37+00:00

Blind leading the blind.

Or more accurately, the sexless leading the sexless.

This subreddit and most of the whole pick up community is so full of guys that pontificate and preach about something they don't actually do.

Guys get hypnotized by the fantasy of easily picking up beautiful women that they believe the biggest bullshitters on YouTube. They become like religious zealots the way they regurgitate these pick up guru's lines.

If the goal is to get laid walmart works, the street works, OLD works, trendy clubs work, dive bars work, going back to college really works, spending 70 hours a week at a male dominated job like driving a truck doesn't work. Etc.

Just talk to women where ever you are. Get out of your house and make female friends. -shower -get a hair cut. -get new clothes that fit and aren't wrinkled. -shitty shoes make you look like a bum -make eye contact -don't be fat -if you're short or bald just accept that you're playing on hard mode. -wash your car.

Oh fuck I became exactly what I sought to criticize.

Superb-End6273 · 2022-08-23T14:29:45+00:00

I DO NOT believe that someone with a mindset like you will EVER fucking EVER in a million years be good at daygame. You allow these females to form YOUR self image about yourself. Why the fuck do you view yourself through the eyes of others? Because if you didn't you'd know that that shit is none of your business.

Stop spreading this bitch ass shit. Your killing yourself by doubting yourself and by rejecting yourself the opportunity to go out there in the daytime and approach those woman. You don't even trust yourself enough to be able to go to a fucking grocery store and approach these fucking woman and take it as a man.

Stop viewing the female as the success and see the success within yourself. The moment I've approached her I have succeeded bcuz I did my job. She is allowed to reject your ass, she is allowed to cuss you out, and she is allowed to ignore your ass. But guess what, I don't give a fuck bcuz my success is inevitable and it is not determined by some random ass chick.

Competitive-Link-912 · 2022-08-23T11:41:20+00:00

Yeah approaching girls at a wal mart sounds great online, but it’s not in real life. Go approach people in social situations where they are looking to be approached, not supermarkets.

Also that line you gave about shoes and tacos… lame.

I’m immune to rejection.. again lame.

If you really had feelings for a woman that you were dating and she didn’t reciprocate you would be sad. I’m not saying you would be depressed, but sad which is a normal feeling.

What you mean is I am immune to the impact of a woman’s initial filtering rejection. This is much more reasonable as no feelings are established.

If you want to approach a woman in the correct way when in a social setting, make eye contact, if she keeps smile, if she looks away, do the same and look back, if she is looking smile. Then approach and say hi and introduce yourself. This is normal the eye contact thing is simple, you look at things your attracted, both men and women.

Talking childish gibberish like shoes and tacos only sounds like it will work when you have no experience or only experience with highly invested girls. A highly invested girl will love the silliness, but they won’t when they don’t know you and will think you are a weirdo.

Environmental_Cress2 · 2022-08-23T20:14:09+00:00

this sub is hilarious. Every single day there’s a popular post that directly contradicts another

Every day

No wonder why you all are so confused

Mr_ambitiouz · 2022-08-23T12:15:27+00:00

"Oh hey, I like your shoes so I had to come over to flirt. I'm bad at this. Do you like tacos?"

There are like 3 topics in this, why are you jumping through them?

1-Shoes is a conversation 2-flirting is a conversation 3-tacos is a conversation

You can pick anyone and go with it, to load you opener with so much diffrent things

texaspete3 · 2022-08-23T16:35:14+00:00

The number 1 rule to know about approaching women in the field is making sure they are open to it.

How do you know a woman is open to being approached? Easy, she is out in public socializing usually with a group of friends at a bar or a club or restaurant.

WHat is risky is when approaching women when they are just doing daily chores like filling up the gas tank, working out, getting groceries. She may like you , and like flirting with you but she has a build in time constraint that is too easy not to ignore.

Day Game your approaches may go well but it in the end if she has to go home and feed her dog she is going to leave.

Twix1958 · 2022-08-23T19:14:52+00:00

Another great tip is if you just fix yourself and don't game at all you'll instantly can talk anywhere, treat the core, not the symptom

koseabjitt · 2022-08-23T12:35:09+00:00

"Oh hey, I like your shoes so I had to come over to flirt. I'm bad at this. Do you like tacos?"

pathetic.

2022-08-23T14:48:55+00:00

I do agree that the advice to go to stores to approach is bad (tough to disguise that you are sarging, difficult to start situational convos, you run into way too many married or underaged chicks, etc).

But those aren’t the only daygame spots out there. College campuses, coffee shops, bookstores, and parks are my favorite places to cold approach daygame, and I find them way easier than bars.

For someone with shit social skills, bars are overwhelming. Your attractiveness and nonverbals have to be on point and you’re often forced to approach girls in groups. Whereas in daygame, you can just approach a girl who’s alone and have a one on one conversation about topics of interest to you. At least for the breed of introvert I am, that’s way easier than going to a bar and dealing with a bunch of drunken tomfoolery.

Go to a college campus (or a park adjacent to one) for a few hours and do some daygame approaching and tell me it isn’t 10x better than a bar.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2022-08-23T15:51:17+00:00

I personally hate walking around just to find one chick that is my type.. its a waste of time unless you're in Vegas.. That being said if you're just doing stuff like grabbing dinner and seeing a nice-looking lady go say hi see if she has a ring on or whatever.. The bars is good for hooking up but to find a quality gf it's a dumpster fire.. I really suggest mastermind groups, and events like meetup.com or other actives you are already doing like yoga, or hitt class.. you can always ask around say you hate dating site and bars.. most of my hookups have been friends of friends or co-workers daughter,cousin, etc

Skizznitt · 2022-08-23T15:37:15+00:00

Quality of people in bars is overall much lower than most other places... no thanks.

Contango6969 · 2022-08-23T14:46:35+00:00

Day game is brutal and inefficient. You’re kind of smashing your head against a wall. But if you want to meet the kind of girls who don’t go to bars, don’t use dating apps, possibly like virgins and stuff it is kind of the way to do it. There are girls like that.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-23T12:01:55+00:00

If you are advanced enough you can do anything. But the reality is guys use daygame to actually avoid going to places where women go to meet men. It's part of the self sabotaging mechanism. Choose the method that has the lowest chances of success so you don't actually have to succeed.

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Jasonhardon · 2022-08-24T03:47:20+00:00

Problem with night game and bars are hot women almost always surrounded by friends. Bring a group of PUAs with you. Yes day game is super hard. I've pulled from it but you have to work like a dog. I concur, night game is easier. What you do is you bring your daygame skills to night and speed things up a bit

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