How do casual hookups work?

CometAzur42069 · 2022-07-14T01:21:25+00:00

hi lets go get a drink or some food.

if she says yea, you’re in. No need to be pushy. Act chill in person, little flirty, ask about her life maybe delve into some of her ideal partner or person, then say lets go back to my place.

If shes makes an excuse to not go without offering an alternative, she isnt interested.

also dont expect to see them again after fucking, well maybe you will, but most of the time people get post nut clarity and lose the attraction caused by the “chase”.

GoFast--DontDie · 2022-07-14T00:59:55+00:00

Invite them over to your place for a drink

cloppyfawk · 2022-07-14T01:07:03+00:00

Invite them over for drinks or a movie or something. They will know the intent is sex, get up close to them and make a move towards making out, then proceed

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-14T02:02:16+00:00

Don't invite them to your place. Casual means you're meeting someplace in the middle. Scope them out, see if they are for real, first. Let them feel you out some, then proceed to go from there, be it your place or hotel.

serialkiller_mne · 2022-07-14T03:57:40+00:00

What age are we talking about? Are you and the girls younger adults or like over 30?

Philipparty · 2022-07-14T14:22:07+00:00

Ask then ti meet you at a bar. If they say yes your only job is to not mess it up and get them to your place.

Talk to then, compliment, make jokes, ask questions (if you want to ask a big obe google the 36 questions for love and steal one) and touch her hands.

Have a "reason" to go to your place. Watch a movie, show a video you talked aboutz have more drinks, etc. Try to get a kiss before you leave.

bogues04 · 2022-07-14T17:19:35+00:00

Here are couple of things to keep in mind as you get started.

just be prepared to burn through a lot of partners if you want to just have casual sex. Most women are cool with it for a time but there will always be a point where you either take the next step or they will move on. It’s very rare to find a girl especially a quality one who is good being a fuck buddy indefinitely.
Be upfront about your intentions. Don’t lie and say you are looking for a relationship etc if you aren’t.
you also need to keep your feelings out of it for it to work. This is hard in the beginning because you aren’t used to it. It’s hard even for me to do it sometimes and I’ve had a lot of partners. Sometimes you will meet someone you really vibe with and this will put you to the test.

Zicronblade0 · 2022-07-14T18:20:12+00:00

Homie that’s what every date is… you’re getting to know them and if you’re compatible. If you wanna sleep with them FOR ANY REASON then do that. Doesn’t mean you can’t pursue a relationship. Just don’t fall for the hoes. They aren’t for relationships lol.

Obvious-Guide-3926 · 2022-07-14T15:22:27+00:00

How my hookups go- he sends me a message on a dating app. If he mentions anything from my profile then I'll answer him. Anime questions get an immediate response. He asks me, what are you looking for? I say, just a hookup. We both say cool, and start planning out to meet up at his house. Bam wam thank you ma'm and I'm out. One of us sends a message during the next week asking to hang out again and repeat. No bars, food, drinks or endless messages. Simple.

Due_Avocado_1921 · 2022-07-14T15:00:04+00:00

I have experiences with that stuff. Drop me a DM.

Jamesdoink · 2022-07-14T15:25:35+00:00

Wine em dine em 69 em send them home 🤣🤷

gucciwillis · 2022-07-14T01:21:22+00:00

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SeaBreezy209 · 2022-07-14T07:19:01+00:00

first off, be black or white, then swipe right. then ur good

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-07-14T02:48:37+00:00

I like my high paying corporate job too much to add additional risk to it.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-07-14T16:07:51+00:00

I usually look at my dates like a movie, we just get to know each other, and often times I start to doubt that do I like her or not if she says something that I dint like that much then in the end I start to change my mind and discover what's special about her and we got home and the rest is history. it works most of the times

Title	How do casual hookups work?
Author	n0msayn25
Upvotes	85
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Date	July 14, 2022 12:31 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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