What to reply when she says she's "not that type of girl"?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-13T14:57:21+00:00

Sex needs to happen spontaneously, you should never seal the deal logically when she is cold, it needs to happen without expressing that’s what you want.

One thing needs to lead to the other in the heat of the moment by turning her on… not by telling her that you want to reach a deal to have casual sex.

Indian_Doctor · 2022-05-13T12:26:07+00:00

🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨Antislut mechanism activating🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨

incognito3107 · 2022-05-13T13:40:27+00:00

You just agree with her that she is not that type of a girl and continue to do your moves. Girls are saying different things, but it is the emotions and sexual attraction that drives their choices. She needs just some space to make up her logical mind.

Noob_elk · 2022-05-13T13:48:42+00:00

ASD has been triggered. Don't say explicitly that you want to sleep with her, instead invite her to hang out at some place where you can escalate (netflix and chill).

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-05-13T12:21:07+00:00

This is a classic slut shield. She may be dtf, but she doesn't want to be called out on it due to the stigma.

Give it a little time and then invite her to hang out. Then escalate kino.

Outside_Guava8627 · 2022-05-13T14:57:27+00:00

If she’s catching feelings, and you say you’re not looking for a relationship, she may not entertain you (if she’s smart) because it hurts too much. Nobody wants to feel like they’re being used.

Vangelis76 · 2022-05-13T15:41:07+00:00

And girls can generally get bored of us once they feel that they know us well. It doesn't take long for us guys to become predictable. We operate on thought and behavior patterns and girls pick up on patterns very quickly. So the more you text, the more they know about you and less they feel curious towards us. Stay busy, occupy yourself with various things and let this girl to be a compliment to your life. Not necessity. With that mindset, you'll definitely elevate your attraction towards her. Mystery feeds curiosity and desire.
And as others say, limit texting more for checking in for a bit and discuss next meetup date. Sexual escalation means nothing over texting. Flirting is fine but to a limit

Khower · 2022-05-13T15:58:26+00:00

Nearly every girl can be that type of girl for someone they feel comfortable with. They key word is comfortable. If she know its just a fun time and it’s stress free to hangout and be something casual with you then she will be more open to that idea

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-13T12:25:05+00:00

she means "i'm exactly that type of girl" , act by totally ignoring it like U didn't even hear anything said by her.

ask her to meetup/come over few days later & try to fuck ;)

George97o · 2022-05-13T14:15:12+00:00

Op thats not how you get an FWB ..

zozozie · 2022-05-13T14:08:00+00:00

Honestly bro texting is for planning to hangout, it shouldn’t be used for conversation. Be kinda dry, but not too dry, so they know to get the best part of out you is to see you in real life.

Give her time to miss you, she seems confused, so let her figure it out. And literally just treat her like a friend and flirt with her. The key is to build tension and anticipation and hold it for as long as possible before letting them relent.

You said you gave bf vibes too soon, what did you do specifically that makes you think it was romantic?

progisherman · 2022-05-13T15:07:06+00:00

I hate this subreddit

bdlndz · 2022-05-13T17:11:11+00:00

Have you ever thought that maybe she really isn't that type of girl?

I said the same thing to a guy once because I didn't just want to fuck him and then I ended up getting coerced into sleeping with him. If she wants to fuck you, she will let you know. If her gaurd is up that says a lot.

bDsmDom · 2022-05-13T17:24:01+00:00

Exactly that type of girl

WoodpeckerNo5416 · 2022-05-13T17:36:50+00:00

She is that type of girl when the right guy comes along

Kitchen_Entertainer9 · 2022-05-13T17:40:47+00:00

Personally I I think you came in too hot, I did this same thing before. I knew she wanted it but asking before hand is a red flag, but when we hang out its a bit faster.

I usually reply, " oh really?" Or "I know...'

Lust9897 · 2022-05-13T17:55:41+00:00

This has major douchebag vibes.

“I want her for her body but she’s offended. What do I do?”

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-13T14:00:43+00:00

I think you should back off and maybe wait a week and ask her on a date. Tell her you miss her and you realize that you might have given her the wrong idea. Tell her you’re not just a player. Otherwise, I think you blew it.

rushopolisOF · 2022-05-13T14:50:48+00:00

Don't say anything. Just roll up to her place with the song that goes "STOP PLAYING BITCH LET A NI**A SMASH" on max volume.

CPink32503 · 2022-05-13T16:05:24+00:00

THIS is exactly why I'm a lesbian. MALE SEXUAL ENTITLEMENT SUCKS!!!

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-05-13T13:13:56+00:00

i'm pretty sure she is that type

PurpleCookie_Og · 2022-05-13T12:15:14+00:00

Ehh looks like she’s just putting up last minute resistance your almost in

reversedbydark · 2022-05-13T14:36:37+00:00

Pull back on texting/calling her, just like her message and stop communications.

Woujo · 2022-05-13T16:26:00+00:00

I sent her a message saying I don't want a relationship right now but I want to sleep with her and just talk some more.

WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU TEXT THAT??? Have you ever in your life texted that to a woman and it worked?? Why on earth would you think that is a good idea.

Holy fucking shit.

Do you understand how women think at all.

Women are not logical creatures like men who sit and analyze this shit. They just catch a vibe and go with their feelings. But they definitely do not make an agreement with a guy that they will be his fucktoy.

No, there is nothing you can say here to fix this. Move on and just never, ever, ever, ever, make this mistake again.

I know almost for sure she wants the D because she was really attracted to me before giving off the boyfriendish vibes.

I can assure you she does not want the D anymore dude.

emlcul · 2022-05-13T18:00:16+00:00

This subreddit gives off such rape-y vibes sometimes

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-05-13T13:48:56+00:00

She makes rules for you

TripleZeroh · 2022-05-13T15:52:32+00:00

Honestly I think you've shown your hand here and might have lost the game. You've turned the excitement and mystery about your interest and intentions with her into an obvious play for her pants. She might have wanted you before, but now you're "one of those guys".

To be clear I don't think you lost it by giving off the "boyfriend vibes" as that could have been salvaged, but you definitely lost it coming out and saying you just want to sleep with her. Like that can be how it plays out if she doesn't want anything serious, but you don't come right out and say that. You've reduced her presence to a bootycall anytime you try to hang out with her now, and she knows that and isn't comfortable with it.

Live and learn dude.

mugatucrazypills · 2022-05-13T16:10:31+00:00

"She's not that type of Girl, Booger "

nmf343 · 2022-05-13T17:15:24+00:00

uh... or respect what she tells you? I get what everyones trying to say but this is so dangerous. She rejected you and the advice is "ignore it, she doesnt mean it". great way to end up accused of assault. just find another girl who is on the same page as you, dont push someone past what they say their boundaries are

luclme · 2022-05-13T17:47:13+00:00

She said no so you leave it and move on.

Elbynerual · 2022-05-13T17:58:31+00:00

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Title	What to reply when she says she's "not that type of girl"?
Author	George97o
Upvotes	51
Comments	137
Date	May 13, 2022 12:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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