I'm not sure if I should get it on with this girl

Looking4FunYYC · 2022-05-05T18:45:58+00:00

Sounds like you have two choices either fuck her or change your name because it doesn’t sound like you’re any kind of bossman

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-05T17:52:48+00:00

What aren't you telling us

BigTBoneDog · 2022-05-05T18:38:33+00:00

If you don't trust her to keep it under wraps then it doesn't sound like a good idea

RSNK10 · 2022-05-05T18:40:26+00:00

I don’t see the issue if it’s just family friends. You’ll get different opinions on here though. At the end of the day it’s your dick, so do what you want to do lol

Bambampres · 2022-05-05T18:56:35+00:00

I was actually in a similar situation. Our families have been friends for 15+ years and I was babysitting her younger brother at the start of the pandemic. She was always around the house so we chatted and hung out some. When she wanted to progress things I backed off because I was going back to college and didn’t want to make anything messy. Not worth it IMO unless you really like her and see something long-term. Plenty of other girls out there

Indian_Doctor · 2022-05-05T19:37:05+00:00

1)rub one

2)toss a coin

3) Choose your 2 options with her/not with her

4)Catch it but don't see it

5)Close your eyes and think what you hoped for

6) you have your answer.

I think you have already thought of pros/cons,joys/hardship, short term or long term before posting it online and asking strangers an important decision.

Anyway goodluck champ with whatever you decide

Tannerite2 · 2022-05-05T19:28:22+00:00

If she's been pursuing you for a year, it sounds like you haven't been clear with her? It could end worse if you don't come clean on what exactly you want (nothing, just friends, FWB, or relationship) and make it abundantly clear.

moleratical · 2022-05-05T21:52:42+00:00

Sex with friends is often fantastic.

You already like each other, it's really fun, just be clear that it's about having fun and as much ad you lije her you don't want a relationship.

Basically a FWB.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-05T19:23:13+00:00

You should hookup with her and stop overthinking it.

Hanif_56 · 2022-05-05T21:51:31+00:00

Your parents sound Asian...you south Asian by any chance ?🌝

Sandvicheater · 2022-05-05T22:16:57+00:00

Look banging your cousin or niece aint cool OP

rockaxorb13 · 2022-05-05T19:30:50+00:00

Just sayin, if you are not mad interested, its safer not to go forward with this.. because family gatherings will be awkward, everyone will know what happened and it's bad because its between family.

nikgos · 2022-05-05T20:08:46+00:00

Trust me dude it's never as bad as you think it would be. Just go for it

ajrfuntimes · 2022-05-05T21:42:40+00:00

What’s the worst that could happen. Man up grab your balls and give it a shot

Da_Druuskee · 2022-05-06T00:18:40+00:00

There’s a lot of family friend woman I wish I slept with but didn’t due to some “don’t shit where I eat” rule. I regret all of them. We don’t even see each other anymore as much as we used too. If she wants it, give it to her.

Mundane_Natural5131 · 2022-05-06T01:35:24+00:00

Just tell her straight up that you want to keep it on the low for reason x if shes truly interested in you she wouldn’t mind

moomoo2300 · 2022-05-06T04:04:40+00:00

“I never showed her much interest but she’s been desperately trying to get my attention for over a year.” Did you never show her interest bc of the family situation or bc u genuinely were never that interested in her? Based on how ur talking about ur you seem like you’re not that into her and you’d only be fucking her just bc u can. If that’s the case, and you don’t know what kind of girl she is in terms of how she will react if things don’t work out, then I personally don’t think its worth it. If you were super into her then my response would be a bit different but still cautious. Also, she’s been desperately trying to get your attention for over a year? Idk the details about how “desperately” she’s been doing this, but doesn’t sound like the type of girl that won’t be butt hurt if things don’t work out or if she ends up feeling taken advantage of/used. Also, consider how she is w her family. If you’re a private person and don’t want anybody (especially fam friends and potentially your own family) know about your dick game, then I don’t think you should do anything you’ll regret. Sex, especially secretive sex which can feel even more exciting/tempting, can seem hard to turn down but I don’t doubt you can find it elsewhere too with someone you have more sexual chemistry with and the potential losses are lower. If you’re still having trouble deciding, imagine the worst that could possibly happen in this situation. Like genuinely imagine it, and then imagine how good the sex would have to be for you to not regret it. Then ask yourself if it would be possible/worth it. Haha sorry for thr dragged out answer but this is coming from someone who gets super tempted by stuff like this and has been in some messy situations after. In my experience, even when it’s been the best I ever had, it unfortunately wasn’t worth the pain and bad aftermath. Good luck and if you choose not to, I think you should be clear about it respectfully since she seems not to be getting the idea

bandsupjay · 2022-05-05T19:39:21+00:00

Things under wraps wdym? Y the fuck would she tell lol and if she does fuck her and whoever that doesnt like u😂 its been a year my dude. FUCK her. She wont tell lol.

krispykreme01 · 2022-05-05T20:50:55+00:00

Doesn’t really seem like a big deal.

Wazzzock · 2022-05-05T21:01:57+00:00

Buy johnnies

Low_Fondant9911 · 2022-05-05T21:41:46+00:00

Is she mildly fuckable?

miojo · 2022-05-05T23:53:05+00:00

You gay bro?

grizzled083 · 2022-05-06T00:00:35+00:00

Would you not date her?

coldbrew18 · 2022-05-06T00:54:16+00:00

If you don’t you’ll regret it later.

Swede-speed-mead · 2022-05-06T03:07:18+00:00

My take is, pussy is pussy. There is the whole “don’t stick your dick in crazy” and while that’s true it’s more “don’t stick your dick and get married to crazy”

For God sakes use protection.

I can count more ass that i coulda had than didn’t vs ass that I got and wished I hadn’t.

BatShitCrazytimes · 2022-05-06T03:32:30+00:00

Don’t wait for some other dude to make a move first

whyidonteatpotatoes · 2022-05-06T03:47:35+00:00

If you never showed her interest in the first place then it’s one-sided and not worth the time? Once you hook up with her, you’ll have to deal with the consequences of your OWN actions because she’ll think it’s reciprocated interest. So I say, don’t.

marchbaby87_ · 2022-05-05T21:05:51+00:00

Some of these questions, I swear 😂 LOL

notLOL · 2022-05-05T21:17:13+00:00

Legit date her. Have fun. Then break up amicably. String her along as an ex with benefits?

Title	I'm not sure if I should get it on with this girl
Author	bossman1162
Upvotes	136
Comments	71
Date	May 5, 2022 5:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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