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[–]Toddyy23 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Pretty much, yes. Buzz killer for sure. Sounds a lot like she's letting you know that she's not interested, but still likes occasional flirt.
[–]cobraCL 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Spot on
[–]MattPruga 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
sounds like a normal woman, most of them do this. They give you mixed signals just for you to stay around as motivation and emotional support but don't want to fuck you.
[–]cobraCL 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nasty game honestly - only insecure women need a rotating circle of orbiters. But yeah, I think this chick definitely isn't interested in OP. He's 'one of the girls'.
[–]SocialReject101 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Start calling her David. See where that goes
[–]cobraCL 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Loool, I'm sure that would make for some funny exchanges 😂 I'm all for it honestly - a good deflection
[–]Clean-Requirement-15 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You look mighty fine in that there dress Walter
[–]AbstractObjectioner 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Before you listen to the quitters in the comments, is there mutual attraction? Have you actually told her your intentions?
If not, go for it and see what happens. No point reading into it. The way she talks is just the way she talks
[–]redditisforgeeks1 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
actually no I haven’t I haven’t even asked for her number cause I don’t want to get rejected. But I mean the flirting is hardcore tho. Like she has plenty of times gotten close to my face to talk where where the personal space is being distrupted
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So the worst thing she could say is no, the worst thing she can do is not want to be friends after that. Then what happens? The world doesn’t stop buddy and there’s ALWAYS more girls out there. I’m a girl - I know. So just flirt back, ask her out or something. It’s more fun that way.
[–]StarBreacher 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Based w*man 👑
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m sorry - I don’t know if that’s a good thing or not.
[–]Mriconicdev 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro you need to make it known you’re interested.
[–]FallFromGr4ce 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Say hey girl I need my duck sucked
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be sure to ask the duck for consent first. 😊
[–]Mysterious168 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not accidentally mate. The thing about woman is that they give you signs whenever they like you or not. She calls you girlfriend because she’s telling you you’re a friend to her. And the flirting is cuz she likes the attention. Know your worth mate, don’t pursue her.
[–]MattPruga 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
my thoughts too
[–]Difficult_Ad_8299 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I would go for a playful second degree comment like "yes girl haha have I told you I'm a lesbian BTW? ;)" or some weird shut but that's my personality I take everything second degree
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is solid advice. Maybe something to respond with next time she calls you girl “keep calling me girl and I’m about to come out of the closet on you and tell you my feelings.” If you don’t sell this with the confidence of ric flair on prime time tv with 3 rails of Colombian in his nose hair, this will collapse on you like my stock portfolio.
[–]LucianU 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like your use of similes
[–]cobraCL 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great plan actually!
[–]LandscapeClear1630 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would correct her every time.
[–]150420throwaway 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve heard the occasional “you go girl” so I’m tagging along on the post to see what people think.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol
[–]aporter0131 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly that seems like a bad sign.
Maybe try calling her dude and man? Haha idk 🤷♂️ sort of joking. I really have no idea what I’d even do in that situation. I’d probably just move on tbh.
[–]No-Remove4548 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well you say she is also flirting. Maybe it’s her style? There was a girl who was calling me dude but she was all over me.
[–]Toddyy23 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Being called dude is very different than being called girl tho. That's like very deep in the friend zone, she's legit about to start talking about other boys with you.
[–]_LilDuck 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah... Also assuming you're a guy, it feels really emasculating. Which feels kinda counterintuitive to your goals in the relationship
[–]No-Remove4548 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When she was calling me dude I was getting friendzone vibes too. Idk, I’d not chase excessively but I would not cut contact either if I was OP.
I absolutely agree. I would even argue that guys who call women "man" and "dude" are not very interested in them. But calling a male "girl" just takes that shit to a whole other level...
My theory is that most heterosexual people are sexually attracted to polarity. When someone starts esmasculating or defeminizing you, you know you're not their first pick
[–]strikerx07 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm sure that's how she talks to her girlfriends.
[–]appmanga 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Grab her hand, put it on your dick, look her in the eye, and say "Do girls have this?"
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Seems like what you consider flirting isn’t actually flirting
[–]redditisforgeeks1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do you consider flirting ?
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good question that you should answer first
[–]LuiP80 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
when you say something to her.. say " ay man "
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She toying with you
[–]joetinnyspace 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Talk with "him". Maybe she's kinky :D
[–]diegggs94 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bruh
[–]ChrisVicar 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Return the favor. Call her dude... Dude is pretty gender neutral.
[–]Prof4CMV 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Were you born a girl?
[–]Mriconicdev 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
[–]Mutated_seabass 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Call her “bro.”
[–]ConsiderationNo9804 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are beautiful and strong but confusing fuck. Yes this can go both ways. This just my personal opinion
[–]tes_befil 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Act sassy with her like your one of the girls. She'll give it up real quick if you do that or she'll find it funny.
Start calling her bro
[–]JetPillar 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some people use hey girl like hey guys.
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