Can you guys settle an argument for me? Do you think you can tell without doubt if someone is interested in you only from the way they look at you?

Imlouwhoareyou · 2022-03-14T17:42:35+00:00

My guy has never been hit with the eyes

Kiltmanenator · 2022-03-14T17:41:34+00:00

Yes and they're called BDE - big doe eyes. Had a gal look at me with them 2 years, knew right away i'd be plowing that ass like snow in the arctic circle - and i did.

Zebrahead033 · 2022-03-14T18:33:11+00:00

Women know how to give "the look". If you don't know what that is then a woman has never looked at you that way.

Lefanteriorascencion · 2022-03-14T19:05:54+00:00

This happened a handful of times to me . The most recent , I was at a shopping center and this attractive Brunette land I locked eyes. It sounds corny at but it felt like I’d known her for a lifetime and like we were meant to be together. I don’t believe in soulmate crap and I’m fairly stoic so it was a weird phenomenon, felt bad for the boyfriend, but alas out of respect I just enjoyed the moment and kept it moving.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-03-14T19:19:55+00:00

Yes, absolutely. It’s not just the expression on their face, though, it’s their body language and follow-up actions as well.

great_account · 2022-03-14T19:54:41+00:00

Yes you can. Just cause you missed it, didn't mean it wasn't there.

ur_notmytype · 2022-03-14T21:34:42+00:00

Yup, every guy that was interested in me looked at me like they wanted to eat me up and I gave them a look back and the rest is history

2022-03-14T22:03:29+00:00

If she’s interested in chugging your yogurt you’ll know.

If she’s looking at you a little bit cause she’s curious, you’ll know.

If she’s not into you at all you will know.

And she doesn’t have to say a word.

Dodechaedron · 2022-03-14T18:25:16+00:00

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/dilated-pupils-meaning

Illustrious-Exit290 · 2022-03-14T17:37:19+00:00

willgo-waggins · 2022-03-14T22:39:45+00:00

I can absolutely tell. And honestly when I have acted on it I have never been wrong yet.

caledonguy · 2022-03-15T00:30:15+00:00

Some people are natural at reading body language and and pickup on what type of eyes a girl is giving them. I don't do alot of approaching girls but when I come across a girl that gives me a certain look I know that if I shoot my shot they're a 95% chance of me getting her number.

In short I can tell and I think it's a built in feature(maybe could be developed) and I've gotten girls since I was in grade school.

blackwing2198 · 2022-03-15T17:36:14+00:00

I think there are certainly times when it is obvious but there’s no way you can definitively say that every time someone looks at you you know how they’re feeling about you and if they’re interested. Especially if they’re any good at hiding it which they’re probably trying to do in the first place

Gwitness · 2022-03-15T18:12:02+00:00

don’t even have to read the story, brother you will know when the look a girl gives you is off of attraction, you just know. I’m not one to always think when a girl makes contact with me is checking me out, but when a girl looks at you like she’s staring into your soul, I knew and was always right. you got her, only you can f it up

anou142 · 2022-03-14T20:19:32+00:00

u will understand if you watch this Nina giving the eye

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-14T17:36:36+00:00

Dude, if you like someone approach them. Stop trying to read minds. It’s a pointless debate because while you two are discussing if the girl is interested, a guy with balls who gives zero fucks about rejection has already approach the girl and having a good time with her.

BlancheCorbeau · 2022-03-15T01:38:12+00:00

The question itself is irrelevant beta nonsense.

Don’t hang back in fear of rejection. All that matters is whether you’re interested - and to a lesser extent, whether you can show interest without coming off as an asshole.

Ruminate over whether you can read tea leaves or eye blink rates to assess interest all you want… but it all basically amounts to simple tricks you’re using on yourself to overcome your own fears.

Just be afraid, and approach anyway. So much time and energy saved.

Fletcherskate · 2022-03-15T02:22:10+00:00

It’s a vibe

_je11y_bean · 2022-03-15T10:44:47+00:00

Short answer. Yes.

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