Fall Back guy disguised as Male Best Friend?

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-03-11T10:31:25+00:00

Got to love the irony of how frequently women behave like this whilst insisting that guys most know what they want and play no games

GotThaAcid5tab · 2022-03-11T10:13:04+00:00

well she aint gonna be relationship material..

SnooPets1514 · 2022-03-11T08:34:13+00:00

Just assume she’s dtf. You’ve got enough IOI’s. Get a bit more aggressive with it and if she tries to friendzone when you actually make a move, then at least you tried. Nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about

Amalasian · 2022-03-11T10:31:45+00:00

this is one look. another is she likes you is trying to push you to make a move with this guy who she says wont work out out of no where. she is trying to get you to be with her at her place. i dont know how much more you want with out her saying directly to you and thats just not the game here.
so i dont think your a fall back i think your the target. belive in your self more

Minute-Lie-2287 · 2022-03-11T11:47:44+00:00

Yeah the false pretense here is just a rejection shield. This is how girls shoot their shot when they absolutely have to. It's under some false pretense so just in case you're not into it it they aren't really rejected.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-03-11T09:06:47+00:00

Single momma prob 👆

Ps: wanna smash or decline her?

mightymite88 · 2022-03-11T08:37:27+00:00

if you dont want to be friends then dont pretend. be honest.

jackzander · 2022-03-11T12:42:55+00:00

Girl offers you food and friendship and you start 9D Chessing it wtf?

Give her my number, I'll bring a side.

zertsetzung · 2022-03-11T14:09:13+00:00

"Do I cut all contact or play this “friend” role?"

What if she was offering up the pussy to you on a platter? Would you really take that. She sounds like a fucking drama queen with concealed daddy issues.

Erratic behaviour in a girl should be considered a read flag no matter how low key it is.

You dont just fuck and then leave these types. There's going to be drama. Plus with the whole twerking thing, she's probably ghetto so you know she enjoys men beating the shit out of each other over her, and other drama so that she can get attention.

carloshps16 · 2022-03-11T14:01:39+00:00

But if she works with you it is a big no. There is a reason for the saying : you do not crap where you eat.

j_tothemoon · 2022-03-11T11:15:22+00:00

Escalate, she probably wants to be with you.

Nalayak_Launda · 2022-03-11T09:43:18+00:00

She's giving you ioi flirt with her and escalate when she invites you home. If she wants you as a friend she'll decline but at least give it a try

paddywacknack · 2022-03-11T11:07:54+00:00

God damn some guys are thick.

Amkg2020 · 2022-03-11T10:14:51+00:00

I mean I don't see why you would want her 🤷🏾‍♀️ especially if she's a boyfriend, but I mean if you start banging her fair enough I dint know what to say about the other guy but I suspect its just what happens

badabing654 · 2022-03-11T11:45:44+00:00

“So I’m at work” yeah good luck with this. Bro breaking rule 1

WagerGoat · 2022-03-11T09:45:15+00:00

The friend zone doesn’t exist, it only exist if you let it. Tell her what you want, and if she still trying to pull the friend card just cut her off. Me personally would make sure it a fwb situation if anything

Mo3 · 2022-03-11T11:10:41+00:00

She's giving a lot of IOIs, she wants you, I would not want one like that though.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2022-03-11T15:01:47+00:00

Guys, please rememebr women rarely know what they want when they are 18-28 ish years old. I've slept with plenty of women who said they just want to be friends or we hooked up years later. My advice is to have a lot of options yourself and don't treat her as "bro" tell her she looks sexy in person!!! and show intent (grab her by the waist, poke her, ect) even if your with a girlfriend or hookup buddy.

She is showing you videos for validation, tell her let's go dancing that the video looks staged or I beat you won't dance like that with me at the club or whatever you think will get her out of the validation BS

Zealousideal-Rawr404 · 2022-03-11T21:14:59+00:00

Wow. You sound…. Gross. She didn’t “twerk for you”, she said she wants to be good friends with you and all you can think is she dtf? Dude. She’s basically saying she wants more than that but you can’t seem to think with the correct head. Do nothing. Sounds like you’ll just waste her time.

This is not rocket science. It sucks women feel like they need to be coy about getting their emotional needs met along with their physical ones but shit… look at this comment thread.

hootingstar · 2022-03-11T12:07:55+00:00

Leave her immediately. Think about other guy, what if it were you? No need to trade your self respect man

carloshps16 · 2022-03-11T14:00:10+00:00

Always escalate things. When you are alone with her, make sure your interactions become physical. Start from hugs here and there and see if she gets comfortable with it. If yes, then play with her hair, hands and etc. Then kiss her and you know the rest...

Make sure you are always advancing towards the end goal ( sex)

notLOL · 2022-03-11T13:35:52+00:00

That's some good luck. Keep it going. Read her Actions not her words

ChrisVicar · 2022-03-11T14:19:26+00:00

Run.

Perfect_War5446 · 2022-03-11T14:24:46+00:00

Just say what you got to say to get laid, then cut contact

ZakTaylor05 · 2022-03-11T14:37:54+00:00

I would be out , never be the back up.

wont_give_no_kreddit · 2022-03-11T14:47:45+00:00

Damn bro, just go get some free food lol. Worst case scenario, you get free dinner!

GUCCIBUKKAKE · 2022-03-11T14:53:28+00:00

Smash and dash

Boos_TZ_ · 2022-03-11T15:04:24+00:00

Show intent. Strong eye contact and light touches on her hand, lower back, etc. See if she reciprocates. Keep convo sexual, but bait her to lean into it more.

You gotta take the lead. If you don’t, you’ll def be her “gay best friend”. Just my two cents.

Snakehead004 · 2022-03-11T15:38:12+00:00

Why don't any of you dudes want actual friends?? I don't see why this is a loss or why you'd cutoff.. Please elaborate..

gannex · 2022-03-11T16:23:40+00:00

Twerking tik toks? Wal Mart? I don't think I want to live in this century anymore. I just want a gf I can take to the symphony.

Thepurge101 · 2022-03-11T17:16:26+00:00

Shes interested in You. Shes letting uk shes still single, shes trying to get you to take the bait. If you meet up for dinner i guarantee you shes gonna send you some clear cut signs.

Chrisanova_NY · 2022-03-11T17:36:48+00:00

You need to give more back-story.

I would have grabbed the free dinner, and then asked when there would be more delicious food. You know, we can use for resources just like women do. Float the ambiguity.

Mtbr_29 · 2022-03-11T17:49:15+00:00

Don’t take any of this nonsense my man, she sounds like a drama queen. Forget it and move on.

artofmajic · 2022-03-11T19:12:01+00:00

Man I matched with a coworker on tinder who I thought was open for a relationship. I asked her out and she was down but plans never aligned. She ended up telling me she was moving not to far from where she was at and needed help. She said it’s gonna be a two day thing cause she’s off and I’m thinking oh she needs a man to help her and it’s possible that I’m spending a night. Im thinking to myself I’m putting it down tonight. When I finally meet up with her outside the house I brought some flowers as a house warming gift for her but had second thoughts because of nervousness and said I’ll wait it out and left them in the car. She tells me we are bout to smoke and we’ll then get ready. I’m thinking ok me and her bout to smoke so I’m bout to make a move. I walk in the house and theres three other niggas. Her baby daddy and I’m assuming two other friend zoned guys who thought they was coming for something else there to help her move. She texted me the next day saying thank u for helping her move which I never opened the message and I proceeded to block her on every social media I had of her. That was the last I saw of her

VegetableStandard774 · 2022-03-11T21:33:05+00:00

Nut and leave

Title	Fall Back guy disguised as Male Best Friend?
Author	Sticky__Fingaz
Upvotes	153
Comments	55
Date	March 11, 2022 8:31 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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