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[–]labyrinthlilith 183 points184 points185 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, bc that post nut clarity be hitting.
[–]chilihummus 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
post nut clarity only lasts like 10 min
[–]RedNewPlan 45 points46 points47 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
You don't find that having sex decreases your motivation to go out and get more sex for a while? It not, give it a few years.
[–]krixxxu 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I do it for validation
[–]labyrinthlilith 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Oh honey 💗 this hurt my mama heart. The only person that can validate you is YOU. Don’t rely on anyone else to determine your worth.
[–]RedNewPlan 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Isn't it good to know your market value, as well as your internal self-worth? I think I am awesome. But that is not always helpful in knowing how to approach the world. Having a realistic view of how others see me seems like helpful information, in deciding what to do. You don't agree?
[–]labyrinthlilith 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I totally agree! But I think there’s a difference in having enough self awareness to understand how others see you, and using sex/women for validation. I also think that when we allow other people to define us(our looks, our worth/value, etc) it can lead us into a vicious cycle of people pleasing and approval seeking.
[–]RedNewPlan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, I agree. Testing your value in the marketplace can be useful information. But doing it again and again, to keep proving the same thing, can indeed be a vicious cycle.
[–]Czekraft -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean by realistic view?
[–]RedNewPlan 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean understand what people perceive your social value is for dating. I may think that I am awesome. But it is also good to know whether all women also think I am awesome, or whether they are all repulsed by me. Or somewhere in between.
[–]Czekraft 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Realistically speaking, the club scene is women who are looking for fun or drinks, not women that want to know if you got yourself a 401k, is debt free, or can put a down payment on a house, which can be seen as sexy to woman that has her shit together.
And realistically, you’re not going to please everyone. Some women like muscles/dad bods, dark/light/tan skin, blue/brown/green eyes, 6’4”, scruffy, guys that look like Chris Hemsworth, some only like other women, the list goes on.
It’s important to ask what your time is worth as well, as not all women’s opinions are valuable.
Seeking validation will never end so long as the person never feels good enough with their self. And that need is something no relationship, no amount of social media, and no club girl can fix.
[–]wolfbee16 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Was in your shoes homie. Hooked up with close to 40-50 girls in a year seeking this “validation” and all I found was depression. The only person who can validate you is yourself. Seeking happiness from others will never make you happy ❤️🙏
[–]Glynnroy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If your a woman , it’s not that hard to attract guys and have sex , quality vs quality or just plain old sex
[–]derpadurp 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn bro. That might be worth working on. Sounds unhealthy from my perspective 🤷🏽♂️
[–]Havocnumbanine 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop looking so deep into it lol. It might it might not either way still approach. Who knows you might fuck your fwb and sleep the rest of the day. 😂🤷🏾♂️
[–]Czekraft 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, unless you are a sex addict. But then again, my idea of a great night is sex, then eating, cuddling to a good movie, sex again, then passing out.
Only difference is having to go out of your way to a scene.
[–]loofyd 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
only one way to find out
[–]MattPruga 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It works, it's like chicks can tell you've been fucking and they want you even more.
[–]krixxxu -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's what I thought. Let's see it in practice
[–]willgo-waggins -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agree 100%.
My hit rate (when I’m not too lazy to do this) is near 100% on the second pick up for at least some action (handy or blowie if they aren’t wanting ONS).
[–]intensely_human 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes it will work.
[–]FaithInStrangers94 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’d have Sex then think “actually if rather go hang out with a friend now or play guitar rather than spend all night trying to chase women around”
[–]rayvin4000 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Y'all are gross
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Already done that, I noticed a neutral effect.
[–]GorillaGlue89 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
damn the internet let’s internal thoughts get out. some things shouldn’t be shared bro. that’s kind of gross. But take a shower and get it! Some women are just as gross lol
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[–]Clearly_Ryan 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man, it depends on your energy and goals. If that fwb isn't enough for your libido, just go clubbing.
[–]AccomplishedReason18 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes it kinda works in a wierd way but yea
[–]Snoo-62854 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Any updates?
[–]krixxxu 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's 22pm here just on my way to fwb
[–]ashutossshhh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
update my man
[–]krixxxu 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There was a huge line at the entrance of the club and I rather went home. Guess my libido isn't that high lol
Worked for me on more than one occasion. My theory was pheromones or some shit.
[–]willgo-waggins 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I do this from time to time.
Right now I had a great date on Thursday with a woman I met on NYE then again when out a month later.
We had a lovely night out. Dinner. Drinks. Then back to hers where we fucked most of the night.
Hung out with friends who were in town for the night last night and going out tonight to a live band where I will happily hook up if the opportunity presents itself.
Good luck to you!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Life your life homie. You’re in the drivers seat
[–]FlanneryODostoevsky 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Life your life. Fuck the bullshit just life it.
[–]celio961 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nympho lol
[–]MrFunnything9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do you think that will make you happy?
[–]drueberries 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Motivation will be too low to push through a night out. In my experience.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or you could just hit fwb twice and swipe on some dating app after, or get a job and hire a hooker so it's a sure thing
[–]krixxxu 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have a good job but i never ever would do a hooker
Doing a hooker with a condom is about as safe as picking up a stranger at a bar for sex
[–]Marcoscondit 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To me this don’t work because after I already fucked I do feel good if I go to the club but then it’s like I’m satisfied and don’t want to fick , anymore but I’m way more relaxed witch makes it easier to talk to girls or for them to approach me
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