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willgo-waggins · 2021-11-05T15:06:37+00:00

It’s a spectrum just like anything else. Some people like more consistency, some people like less. Guys are the same way. The girl I loved the most was practically bipolar.

But I agree with your main point, always be on your toes and try to keep things interesting. I did my best but I could’ve done better in the past. I fell victim to the mindset that women just want an “ideal” man all the time who supports them and makes all the right decisions.

Lotus_82 · 2021-11-05T21:07:37+00:00

Post sounds like a dumb bitch illogically rationalizing her choices, but the point is true. I was cringing reading that shit….

field512 · 2021-11-05T15:48:11+00:00

Agree about the porn killing sex lives, I sometimes feel like I basically don't exist to woman because I rarely feel sexual.

Emotional_Grape8449 · 2021-11-05T20:07:38+00:00

Damn even a big dick, 6’2”, and rich, he can’t still keep a woman??? Are you for real or just bored so you can write this up for some attention?

TallSwaggOVO · 2021-11-05T15:50:59+00:00

It’s definitely gonna vary from person to person. This is why you not only date, but get used to talking to different people in your life to see the type of personality traits they and you desire.

At the end of the day just be confident and be yourself, but try new things as well. You’ll be more likely to find people you mesh with well

thecobitroupe · 2021-11-05T17:42:05+00:00

What about seduce men which we really want

Stone-Cold-Advice · 2021-11-05T23:33:10+00:00

Ya, it's not our job to entertain women. Any woman who says she gets "bored" because her guy doesn't want to be her dancing monkey can hit the road as far as I'm concerned.

Bored? WTF are you women bringing to the table besides looks? Because there's beautiful women all over the place.

Turbopre2 · 2021-11-05T17:50:56+00:00

Also the bad boys tend to be more assertive and confident. They'll easily text you to get ready and take you on an adventure. The safe boys ask the woman what they want to do on a date lol. Girls just want to have fun.

concentricdarkcircls · 2021-11-05T19:59:55+00:00

Tf is a "bad boy"? Those things don't exist outside of movies, we call them felons

Zyzz2179 · 2021-11-05T23:06:18+00:00

Ah OP got an onlyfans and a single mother of two.😂😂😂 Why are we listening to her opinion?

Celestron5 · 2021-11-05T15:58:46+00:00

Food for thought. Thank you for sharing

skyrunner22 · 2021-11-05T19:48:37+00:00

Most times when guys ask I just link this.. Also its funny how women just want it allllllll and can get it and still not be satisfied, lol..

https://archive.md/m2dvv

myartificialself · 2021-11-05T20:43:02+00:00

If he was such a boring fuck why was he your SO for 4 fucking years?

This post feels so weird...

kurapikachu020 · 2021-11-05T21:38:59+00:00

Don't put us all in the same basket as you. I certain am not interested in 'bad boys.'

Lotus_82 · 2021-11-05T18:21:07+00:00

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DisastrousDaterHere · 2021-11-05T16:53:05+00:00

Lost me in the first sentence 😂

kpay10 · 2021-11-05T19:49:10+00:00

This is a unpopular opinion but some guys like me aren't able to show a wide range of emotions. I have a really shy, introvert and quiet personality. I can't become a outgoing extrovert personality overnight. I can't ever imagine myself having a "bad boy" personality such as Gordon Ramsay as a quiet and shy guy. I wish I could though

GroundbreakingBus138 · 2021-11-05T20:59:43+00:00

Cuzz they are retarded

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slickestwood · 2021-11-06T00:25:56+00:00

Heck, I like Bad Boys. Will Smith, Martin Lawrence, what's not to like?

Lotus_82 · 2021-11-06T02:34:41+00:00

I don’t know why some of you guys are getting so bitter all she did was explain that “bad boys” are more attractive to women because they show more emotion and have a bigger range of emotions and that makes them more fun to be around.

Why are some of you taking this so personally? Did you not know this was the case before seeing this post? I’m a guy and I don’t see what the problem is.

jwaters0122 · 2021-11-05T20:12:12+00:00

The traits that women love are people who stand up for themselves, have confidence and pride. "Bad boys" although some of them are complete jerks have these traits.

Women want a balance where men have those traits but aren't jerks

willgo-waggins · 2021-11-05T19:07:45+00:00

Great post and so very true.

It’s a very hard and fine line that most guys have a lot of trouble learning as to where the break between “fun bad boy” and “responsible mature adult” cross.

I’m a bit older and luckily I got it down a long time ago. It’s likely that is why I can pretty much pick and choose and am at a point where I do so from the women that approach me rather than wasting my energy pursuing.

And attitude has a lot to do with it. I know what a great catch I am and that flows through my entire bearing.

Quick edit:

Looked at your timeline. Now I’m having a great laugh because I see why I liked your whole take so much.

You’d be right in my wheel house and look like a blast!

Underrated_Prince · 2021-11-05T20:12:59+00:00

This post just proved that woman are never satisfied

There's no point in trying just do you man

Finish

Tron_1KRR · 2021-11-05T21:10:55+00:00

True, a man is supposed to slap you butt cheek while pulling you hair while having sex. Nothing more exciting than having a quickie in a place that you most likely get caught. But there’s more to life than that. Like having blast while riding a sport bike or doing some pulls on the track. Or diversifying your portfolio and investing in high risk, high rewards assets. Surfing, riding jet ski or in the yacht to the Bahamas. Traveling the world to learn about other cultures. Falling down and getting back up. Supporting each other in the good and the bad. That’s what makes a relationship last. I’m fit and and train martial arts but I cry like a baby when I’m in love. Some people are more connected with humanity then others. I came to this world to touch people’s heart and impact their life in a positive way. That being said, I also find today’s women boring. The majority are shallow and are always looking for ways to bite you somehow. Difficult to establish trust. A perfect man doesn’t exist at some point you’ll have to compromise in some areas. My weakness, I believe I think too fast and I’m always in high alert due to PTSD or ADD due to some past experiences. That however haven’t stopped me from living the most amazing life that few have experienced. By the way Porn is not killing the sex drive. That may be some Blow. Could be the opposite.

_Valeria__ · 2021-11-05T23:50:35+00:00

Bad boys 🙄 How clique. I absolutely do not want a “bad boy”. I like my man to be stable and healthy. Nothing wrong with a hard working man who just wants to relax with his woman and watch some Netflix on a Saturday night. Or maybe I’m just getting old and the idea of a bad boy sounds exhausting.

I also find it hypocritical that you tell men to stop watching so much porn but simultaneously have an OF account lol.

Andrew__IE · 2021-11-05T23:23:28+00:00

“I could predict exactly what position in sex he would do (you guessed it, missionary!!!)”

You’re the one who’s in control of the position, assuming you were the sub in the bed. You didn’t try to change positions or bring up the idea of trying something new?

Maybe the sex would’ve been better if he felt that you were into it too? One could assume from this that he had to do all the work which he may not have liked.

2021-11-06T02:10:10+00:00

Never take advice from single women. They're idiots.

Time will pass, you'll hit the wall and look back and realize how much of an idiot you are...and still single.

Did you even think that YOU were the boring one? All you did was sit there and wait to be surprised. You are the boring one, letting life go by.

He dodged a bullet.

LOL

NiceChad69 · 2021-11-06T02:15:29+00:00

Bad Boys who are also “Good Looking”. A nerd doing an IT Job/Desk Job 9-5, with a recessed Jaw, Balding Hairline, protruding nose, disfigured cheekbones, high body fat will not make any woman wet. 🤷🏻‍♂️ So the key here is looks, if you got the looks, it doesn’t matter if you’re a bad boy or a Shy Boy 🤷🏻‍♂️

Communist_Mustache · 2021-11-05T14:59:44+00:00

I've tried explaining this so many times on here and I always get downvoted by men who don't want to admit this to themselves.

Its true. Badboys keep us guessing! And it's fun and interesting.

No_Acanthisitta5052 · 2021-11-05T19:35:43+00:00

Also, bad boys have the capacity to take advantage of other men. That makes them more relevant over several generations, so a preference has been inherited.

Become the guy she would cheat with.

rudebwoy100 · 2021-11-05T20:08:29+00:00

For the same reason why men love loose, party girls; they're more fun and outgoing & generally more physically attractive and if you're not looking to get married right away they're the go to for us men.

We men want to date and have fun with the party girls in our youth and settle down with the sexual prude with morals and values when we're older and ready to start a family and women are the same with bad boys.

Agitated_Character41 · 2021-11-05T21:38:41+00:00

What the hell does "bad boys" have to do with any of this?

Mikeinjoco · 2021-11-05T22:58:53+00:00

I’m a bad boy , and although I don’t have a “giant dick” I do know how to use it, and it’s rarely missionary ! Eyes wide open and lots of dirty talk! Wanna play?

Ok-Investigator4333 · 2021-11-05T23:28:21+00:00

That reads like bad choices the explanation. Probably also the reason why many men stop taking women seriously at all, they want their cake and eat it too.

dark_helmt8 · 2021-11-06T00:11:14+00:00

Porn > you in bed. Got it

TheRiverOfDyx · 2021-11-06T00:56:48+00:00

The only use I have for porn since turning 18 has been spice. Theres so many crazy positions, so much to try. The kamasutra is a better alternative though, its not addicting

XanthicStatue · 2021-11-06T00:57:25+00:00

Sounds like he was a sociopath.

2021-11-06T01:09:54+00:00

Women say shit like this abs when the dude finally opens up, it totally backfires and he never does it again. Then the next woman he dates thinks he’s boring.

TLDR: don’t listen to women’s advice on what is attractive.

BobertBoberton · 2021-11-06T03:26:26+00:00

it sounds like you have a very specific idea about what you didn’t like in your last relationship and what you’re looking for in the next one, which is great! but please don’t try to insinuate that the stuff you’re talking about is just general and applies to everyone lol. every person is super different. everyone has their own ideas about what they want in a partner. some women want exactly the kind of calm, collected, stoic man you’re saying is boring for you. so please, don’t give bad advice. you open your post as though you’re speaking for all women here. things like compatibility exist for a reason, because different people want different things.

Lotus_82 · 2021-11-06T18:08:51+00:00

Lol the comment section this post stinks inceldom! Like the general bitterness and anger at women here is very telling of how unsuccessful with women these men are.

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