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PatientAssociation62 · 2021-10-05T00:07:31+00:00

“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.”

- Tupac Shakur

Throwaway902ve · 2021-10-04T19:14:11+00:00

Preach bro. It comes down to valuing your own time as much as you value any woman's imo. Great post.

Keezymac34 · 2021-10-04T19:39:13+00:00

Thanks man i really needed to read this. Its a tough pill to swallow but medicine isnt always easy to take. Every girl i meant is always on her phone so i should take the hint when they take forever to respond.Damn it really sucks to think about.

whatisthisaboutagain · 2021-10-04T21:18:05+00:00

My golden rule: "If you have to ask yourself if she likes you, she doesn't"

marian8523 · 2021-10-04T20:38:16+00:00

When will I ever see a success?

desperate_for_a_name · 2021-10-04T22:20:09+00:00

I have a question for that. I've met this guy and I'm getting such mixed signals that I don't know what to think anymore. Till two days ago everything was great. We've been texting nonstop, been meeting up atleast twice a week and we just had a great time. He even asked me if I could imagine a future of us dating which we both replied to with yes, but since said two days ago we barely speak. His answers are short af, he doesn't reach out on his own and I feel sreaighg up ignored. What's going on here? Please all men/women/non binary help!!

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-10-04T19:27:03+00:00

As a girl I can confirm most of this, I just wish there was a guide like this for girls about guys, lol!

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-10-04T19:31:30+00:00

Great post! A lot of guys need to learn this. Understanding this leads to having a lot of time and energy saved.

Spinuchi · 2021-10-04T20:46:22+00:00

Needed this.. Im one of those guys.. Definitely mixed signals.. Her responses went up from a few hours to like 30 or an hour at one point. She started messaging me just seeing how my night was going every now and then. Had pur 4th date 2 weekends ago. The next day she messaged saying she doesnt know if she has the capacity for romance or intimacy right now but has alot of fun with me and wants to hangout. Then offered to hangout the next weekend. I told her no worries we hardly no eachother no need to worry about anything. Since then though its felt off.. Her replies pace slowed up again. I ended up notnseeing her this weekend cuz I expected her to tell me a day. Saw her Friday at an event and its felt a little off. I messaged her last night saying I was sorry we didnt get together this weekend, some stuff came up. And that I want to see her again if she wanted to hangout soon.. Still no reply

This whole thing has felt off from the beginning and i kept getting mixed signals. In person things were great, but outside of that I couldn't read her. Then she finally started to warm up a little. Then hit me with that text last week. Since then its felt off.. Really sucks a have had other women show me interest since I met her, but they were all so boring. I m so attracted to this one for so many reasons.. But mentally im drained dealing with all this

douknowmasha · 2021-10-04T19:56:36+00:00

mn i read this shit in a funny voice and the move on part rhymed really well,😂

Xombie0991 · 2021-10-05T03:25:31+00:00

I’m surprised no guy came in here like “I disagree. If you have game you can change her to be interested.” The whole dating scene seems really confusing to me but this post gives me hope that it’s more simple than I think.

Calamity__Bane · 2021-10-04T20:23:56+00:00

Great post! With respect to this:

Is she playing "games" or being "confusing" or "playing hard to get"?

even if she is playing hard to get, the correct response is still to move on.

MrNiko_Bellic · 2021-10-05T03:02:49+00:00

R advice

Spirited_Citron_2352 · 2021-10-05T06:31:42+00:00

So about 2 years ago I got a new job and met a nice guy there who actually wanted to be my boyfriend. However I wasn't interested in dating a coworker because of all the pitfalls I've heard of. We acted like bf/gf but without the title. Well I left that job and we kept in touch via text and social media here and there. Asked the basics of "how you're doing and what's new?" but that's it. Well he eventually got a gf and blocked me on ALL social media but would still text me and say crazy stuff like he misses me and loves me and acted like we were back fwb. I told him this can't continue because he's got a gf now and that's crossing boundaries. Plus, I was tired of being his secret friend that he only talks to when his gf isn't around.

I woke up one day and was DONE and TOO TIRED to care anymore.

Cut him off FINALLY back in April of this year and haven't heard from him since. Do I miss him...a little. I miss the companionship/friendship.

Question? Once he got a gf, why did he start saying inappropriate things? I tried ignoring him and told him he's crossing boundaries but he still continued. Why do people play games like this?

wejaow · 2021-10-05T15:18:37+00:00

This post is so on point. I tell my homies all the time: “don’t ever give a woman the chance to reject you twice.”

2021-10-05T16:30:23+00:00

Ok when I’m talking to girls I’m gonna pull out this list. Preciate it

HotBubblegum1 · 2021-10-05T21:01:02+00:00

This post hits every point so well. I wish dudes took better hints bc when they dont consider social cues shit gets creepy feeling

TWA-GGLMG · 2021-10-04T22:53:51+00:00

Captain your own ship and you’ll never be lost

Notsoabc1 · 2021-10-05T02:43:50+00:00

As a girl I can confirm this. And I as I grow older I feel very bad for doing it (on behalf of girls I'm sorry) Most of the time it’s not because we want to misguide you. Some men can't stand being rejected and become aggressive if you say it directly (I.e. r/niceguys )

Reasonable-Pepper627 · 2021-10-05T07:28:54+00:00

Thank you

truuuuuaway · 2021-10-05T01:31:34+00:00

So there’s this chick at the gym who’s always trying to work out next to me and I always feel her eyes on me. Every time I try to talk to her she pretend likes she doesn’t hear me, when does finally answer, she gives me super short answers and goes straight back to working out. I though she was disinterested at first or maybe it’s because my openers are wack. I left her alone and moved on. Next day/week she back to working out next to me reassuming my oneitis.

I know she’s not shy since I always see her talking to everyone in a bubbly way, but when I try to talk to her, she turns into a chick that’s too good for me. I also don’t think she’s just fishing for attention, there’s so many other dudes there she can get it from but it seems like she doing it to me

Last week after trying to get her attention I looked in her eyes and let out the biggest smile/laugh after realizing this whole thing is ridiculous. I saw her make a super quick smirk for like 1/5 of a second then her face straight back to bitch mode after I tried to talk to her like an autist lol. But yeah anyways, I’m still not sure if she’s into me that’s why I haven’t asked her out this whole 4 months this has been happening.

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