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[–]loofyd 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]BluePsychosisDude2 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sales helps with rejection. Once you start doing it you realize that even if some people hate your product and some people are on the fence, there are those who actually are interested in what you are selling. It's a matter of separating the red lights from the yellow lights from the green lights. It gets easier the more you do it. Once you actually have some people interested in buying the product you are selling it actually proves to you that you can actually make it!
It's the same thing with attraction, yeah a lot of girls won't like you, some might even say "ew" if you ask them out, but some will be on the fence, and others will actually really like you. It's realizing you seriously, seriously, SERIOUSLY don't need every girl to like you in order to get laid. I need to drill this into my own head because it's the literal truth. It's not some binary 1-0 between girls liking you and not, and some of the guys who get rejected the most also get laid the most because they actually put themselves out there. Rather than the guys who are too pussy to ever talk to a girl and take one rejection to be a unanimous decision from the entire female part of the species.
[–]gammaJinx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Facts
[–]prtkjnn 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What if I told you I'm Elon Musk? 🤔
[–]gammaJinx 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can I have a Tesla?
[–]Dakessian 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can WE have a Tesla? And the answer is no.
[–]sauceyzaddy 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bro this actually facts. Bunch of pussies in here too scared to get rejected lol. Who gives a fuck if you get rejected it’s always closer to getting a girl.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The endless discomfort you’ll feel from being alone and knowing you never tried will far outweigh the momentary discomfort you get from a girl not saying hello back to you
[–]The0rangeKind 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
the sad reality is there really a e guys out there that will strike out because they truly are the bottom of the barrell. just think how many fucking obese and hideous women there are out there, with disgusting fake tits and ugly tans are still getting laid, paid for and provided for. the difference is the determination and building endurance a man has will make them way more attractive and inevitably catch interest. the woman’s job is to just exist for a man to provide for them, the man’s job is showing he can be the woman’s entire world and eventually get to the point that she wouldn’t ever want to have something else even in a world of temptation
[–]jwilhelm0618 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd say you are right
[–]socozyinhere 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True there are 1000s but they aren’t all in my suburb. It’s the search that’s difficult.
[–]Electric_kundalini 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd be a happy boii
[–]gammaJinx 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My man
[–]DoktorK1ng 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actually this is true, but more of us are blind, because we are chasing specific girl.
[–]CodineDreams 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What if I told you that there are trillions of dollars just out there…just make the money, it’s easy 😎 just make money ! Every time you meet a person, ask for a dollar, just keep asking till you make a billion :D
[–]gammaJinx 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man y'all really coming with this negative mindset lol
[–]BE_AtPeAce 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol
[–]nucci728 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If the energy ain't there why bother fellas.
[–]M133A 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
how will u even find them...its hard
https://chat.whatsapp.com/IH1pvs6l9lb6kLFswkgkgK
whatsapp link for only men that are playing the field
[–]CicadaProfessional76 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Awful platitudes bro
It’s all just mindset shift that I thought would help people approach more
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Lol so stupid you sound like Tony Robbins
[–]gammaJinx 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]The0rangeKind 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
tony robbins def pays to fuck. nobody gonna fuck with that chin giant
[–]wallynext -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He’s married...
[–]The0rangeKind 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what’s your point...he paid a ho to stay with him
[–]MentalCelOmega -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't believe you.
Ok
[+]thelambofdeth -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (68 children) | Copy Link
Lolno. Do you guys even read before you post these baseless clickbait threads? This is idle false hope at it's worst.
[–]gammaJinx 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (67 children) | Copy Link
So is what I'm saying wrong?
[–]thelambofdeth -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (66 children) | Copy Link
Yes, emphatically.
[–]gammaJinx 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (65 children) | Copy Link
How exactly?
[–]thelambofdeth -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (64 children) | Copy Link
Losing weight and being social aren't anything special. That's not going to suddenly make women interested in you. Aspects like those are prerequisites. It's like writing your name on the test, simply that doesn't entail passing. Women have thousands of matches, hundreds of DMs, simps and orbiters everywhere from school,work, etc. You have to be actually special in a regard to have anywhere near as many willing suitors as your trying to sell. That doesn't even include barriers you cannot help such as height, race and whatnot. Sure, doing those things you mentioned help, but for attractive woman you have do quite a bit more just to have a few possibly be reciprocal let alone dozens or hundreds lol. You're minimizing and giving false hope.
[–]AelfredRex 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
But that can all be overcome with a generous application of rock-n-roll.
[–]thelambofdeth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
...what??
[–]AelfredRex 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Never underestimate the power of the groove to make you, as the man said, to "walk this way".
[–]thelambofdeth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Oh, my bad I thought you were trying to be serious
[–]AelfredRex 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
I am. You can be short, poor, and a factory worker, but if you got a head full of good music, you'll have the soul strong enough to look into a supermodel's eyes.
[–]gammaJinx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (40 children) | Copy Link
Ok then what exactly does a guy need to do to stand out
[+]thelambofdeth -10 points-9 points-8 points 4 years ago* (39 children) | Copy Link
Be good-looking, rich, have high status, or be extremely charismatic. Most guys these attractive women indulge with are in shape and hygienic...things like that are the bare minimum. You have to be noticeably better to have a shot...
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[–]thelambofdeth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link
That's fine. At least I'll die being honest to myself instead of a gaslighting troll like many of this sub.
[–]Brownspots_NO_TP 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Nothing about what you posted here is honest or true. You created this reality for yourself.
[–]gammaJinx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol good luck to you friend
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
Is that what you do to have a shot? Be the best at everything?
[–]thelambofdeth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I said or not an. If you want to stick out in a sea of dudes to an attractive woman, yes, realistically you'll need one those aspects. Confidence isn't enough...
[–]thelambofdeth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (21 children) | Copy Link
I said or not and. If you want to stick out in a sea of dudes to an attractive woman, yes, realistically you'll need one those aspects. Confidence isn't enough...
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
So you have one of these aspects and confidence and it works for you?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So you have one of these aspects and confidence?
[–]Onyhx2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude this is totally not true, the simps and orbiters don't even approach IRL, just over text. If you ever talk to a girl you can tell within a few seconds if she's interested in you or not. Approaching already gives you full advantage over the guys that say all the shit in text what they should say in person.
[–]thelambofdeth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Way to avoid the bulk of my argument. The point is she has a ton of attention already. The simps are in addition to all the guys shes already fucking, is interested in and is on the fence about. And the orbiters she's going to see and be around constantly at school, work, etc and they're giving her even more validation in person. In addition to all the matches and DMs she'll have, why is she going to waste her time on some stranger just bc he approached her UNLESS he's good-looking or rich? It's not realistic. There is no advantage inherent to approaching anyone. This isn't the 90s. You have to already have an advantage going in.
[–]RegretsNothing1 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
And then there's us who are ACTUALLY pulling women, and seeing this cringe untrue shit. Being a nasty lazy goaless needy child will not land you a hot babe no matter how many cold approachs you do. This is karma bait. Become more attractive first inside and out
[–]gammaJinx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok lol
[–]RegretsNothing1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry, I mean, it's just stupid hype up and an excuse to not improve yourself first.
[–]FlanneryODostoevsky -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Man this kind of thinking is destructive
[–]gammaJinx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How so?
[–]FlanneryODostoevsky 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It makes dudes think they need to put all this effort into themselves for the sake of just becoming more attractive to women.
When did I say that?
[–]brofisting247 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This. That’s why I don’t understand why some people uninstall Tinder
[–]CodineDreams 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uh cuz it’s literally made on the idea of preventing you from matching people so you stay and pay for the app longer? They don’t even care enough to remove bits, they want thirsty dudes hoping for a single chance which leads them in buying gold or some shit.
[–]Brutal-Black 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would believe you, then still be hesitant
you’re probably right but the one thing we don’t want to think about is what kind of fucked up pasts do they have? drug problems, terrible to their parents, shoplifting history, countless blackout fuck stories. but i won’t know that till i knock that bitch out and drag her to my cave (metaphorically)
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[–]gammaJinx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What
[–]lucythepretender 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
posted in wrong thread/ post not sure how that happened
[–]JimBeamAndCoke2016 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd say you are a liar.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Right, but that knowledge is useless if you can't find them
The point is to just get you motivated to try
But man that shit is obvious, there are 7 billions of people in the world, i don't know how disgusting someone would have to be that no woman from 3,7 billion would want him
[–]ja6j2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Unless you're extremely ugly, short and have bad social skills. When you're dealt those kind of cards the glass doesn't even exist.
unless you're deformed and literally incapable of communication with someone, you have a chance. and that’s all you need
just go out and be determined that you offer the world something of value. don’t waste your time on the girls that only want the best of the best.
[–]epicarcanoloth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is true.
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