Hello everyone, This is Max. For my previous posts, which are more detailed because I did fewer girls at that point. So, let me give you a brief introduction of me, I'm an 18 year old college student fairly attractive, and I had approach anxiety for a long long long time.

What I did to get over my AA:

First, I set out to get rejected by 5 girls. And I first did this by asking out girls I was interested in. I was rejected by all of them, which only increased my motivation. I was already numb to rejection, and I decided that I would approach a few random girls every day. Some cases I crashed and burned and laughed at myself OUTLOUD right then and there and when I did that even the girl that I crashed and burned to was OVERWHELMED WITH MY SELF CONFIDENCE. Everyone here seems to forget the fun of pickup. Its just hilarity ensued. You will meet a lot of fun people, you will meet a lot of stingy people. And you will meet some stuck up bitches. That's the truth and don't take any interaction as something that would work for all girls.

Anyway, I had set out to do the 100 set seddit challenge. And I continued on approaching girls on my campus.

Last Monday, the weather was fucking great. I was extremely motivated to approach girls. As I walked in between classes with my friends, without a single moments hesitation I talked to girls who I found attractive and attempted to get their number. It got to the point where my friends who were very impressed with my approaching started to hold me back because it started to get ridiculous. I'm about to share with you what I learned from just a single day.

Daygame kino is considered a nono by a lot of PUAs my favorite (Sasha daygame) included. However I found that sometimes when you shake a girls hand and keep holding it, if she's comfortable the whole conversation would be more intimate.

FOR THOSE WITH APPROACH ANXIETY:

When you see a girl, and you want to approach her. Unless you have some fucking experience or someone to push you through it... YOU WILL FUCKING HESITATE. abs the PUAs speak of the 3 second rule where you would instantly approach the girl. But that's not always the case especially for beginners like me. Even if that 3 seconds is over don't BE AFRAID TO APPROACH! Even you noticed a girl sitting by herself and you didn't make the move within 3 second GET YOUR FUCKING ASS over there and just say HI . a lot of people have reinforced that it doesn't fucking matter what you say to a girl so don't worry about your opener.

Next, the thing is with day game is a lot of times the girl would actually have a boyfriend. For me personally, I ask if the girl does have a boyfriend early so I don't waste my fucking time. A lot of people prefer to go after the girl even when she firmly says she has a boyfriend. Stop wasting your time and MOVE THE FUCK ON.

Now, for the part where I say my experience. I will not be able to describe every interaction because there was just so many so I will describe some good case scenarios along with some bad case scenarios.

Bad case scenarios: I approached one girl who was on the phone who shrugged me off because 'she saw me do this before' this happens because I'm doing daygame at a campus and I laughed her off and walked away, because she only thinks a man approaching women is wrong as a result of the social conditioning we have going on.

Edit: there seems to be a lot of m is understanding about this scenario so I will shed some light on this, she was very uptight, to the point of humor. By social conditioning I mean that in todays society, some people are so attached to what society finds 'weird' (a guy who's approaching girls is NATURAL yet society makes people think its weird, and some people are very caught up in what society thinks and she was one of them.

Another bad one was some girl who gave me a really strong attitude that instantly turned me off. remember that every girl who gave you an attitude helped you dodge a bullet, and saved you the trouble of hanging out with her troubled self.

Remember that you are approaching girls to get to know them to see if you like them (or fuck them whatever you case may be) so make your intention clear. Don't be afraid to make the conversation sexual.

Good scenarios: my good scenarios were way more frequent than my bad scenarios. A lot of girls complimented me for my confidence. A lot of guys even, in fact at one point I approached a girl and told me the guy sitting next to her was her boyfriend and he told me that he respected what I just did. So don't be afraid of people in friend groups, the friend groups would most likely encourage the girl to give you her number especially if she's single. One girl took my phone and put her friends number in. One girl asked for my number at one point of conversation. One girl told me I was extremely smooth and set up a date with me.

Results: got a bunch of numbers, a few dates lined up and some girl who told me we can have something casual.