[FR] Testing out direct/aggressive text game

ImJustAMan · 2012-08-18T15:28:52+00:00

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cygnusness · 2012-08-18T17:19:29+00:00

This is one of the better FRs that I have read. It really helped with the extra notes explaining what you were thinking for each reply.

Congratulations !

seemorehappy · 2012-08-18T14:39:25+00:00

Wow, I'm almost cringing reading this. Balls man, you have them. It seems aggressive for my taste, but maybe i should try them out. Do you think that you might already have it in the bag by line three?

Teh_Nigerian · 2012-08-18T19:47:45+00:00

I didn't think this was too aggressive. This is immaculate work, and I think this should be the par for what we do in both text game and actual conversation. You shouldn't be repeating yourself, you should not back down from what you meant to say and you should not give the woman too much validation. He was confident, funny, calm and most importantly, he stood his ground. We fucking done, sir. Bravo!

dont_be_scared · 2012-08-18T15:41:10+00:00

Yep, it seemed little pretentious and forced at times. But hey it worked! I think you learnt quite a bit on this field trip.

Jewbot69 · 2012-08-18T23:56:12+00:00

the only thing i disliked about your conversation was the "how the fuck are you beautiful" but other than that it was rock solid.

cygnusness · 2012-08-18T16:06:36+00:00

Not bad, too aggressive for my liking. I don't know what you are like normally but if you are a chilled out guy this could come across badly. As a general sort of rule any sort of game should be an amplification of your positive attributes, as opposed to something completely different

2012-08-18T18:12:23+00:00

This is great IMO. I think it's important you didn't jump on the "oh lets hang out tonight" card as soon as she implied she's free. You dragged it of before you asked, while maintaining the power, and that's why you succeeded.

squarehouse · 2012-08-18T18:20:53+00:00

Awesome FR. I think the biggest lesson I learned from this is that by being direct/aggressive, you're actually making the lay easier for her. Shit tests are sort of code for "if you're going to make this hard for me at all, it's not going to happen." She doesn't wasn't some guy she doesn't know very well coming over, and asking her a ton of questions, seeking validation, or ruining the sex for her by making it awkward.

Great game!

VR53KS · 2012-08-18T15:52:32+00:00

Brisneyland? :)

shavedaddy · 2012-08-18T17:57:36+00:00

as someone who has been doing very poorly in text game, this helped a lot

2012-08-18T18:03:56+00:00

Honestly one of the best FRs I've read. Thanks for sharing

The-Night-Fox · 2012-08-19T01:07:38+00:00

You fucking pimp, that was glorious! Was scared that you might have fucked it up towards the end but everything worked out!

2012-08-18T16:07:00+00:00

This works, I used to be a fan of the aggressive game and if they're responding positively then it's good to use a lot of kino with it. I'm more into a slightly less aggressive game now.

I_am_ME_ama · 2012-08-18T18:26:53+00:00

You played it well overall.

HB08: Same. Me: hot! (she replied with one word that killed conversation, she deserved the same back.)

It wasn't a bad response. However, it's always best to be outcome independent and respond by agreeing and amplifying rather than giving her a one word response back.

I have one question: When she says in the first couple texts she has nothing to do...do you not respond right away with you guys getting together to not make yourself look needy to hang out with her (when you say she is testing the waters)? Thus, making her seem like your more of a "catch" because you're not asking to hang out as soon as she suggests she has free time?

zattacks · 2012-08-18T14:30:03+00:00

HB08: All good I need to clean my room its soooooo bad haha I have clothes everywhere

I'm sensing an escalation involving something along the lines of cleaning up clothes being a futile effort.

6PoolPwnage · 2012-08-18T19:00:05+00:00

Slightly off topic but has anyone noticed if you're texting a girl without putting X's on the end of the text, the girl wont either, then say you start adding them after a few texts, they will also immediately start adding them. I was motivated by this post to texts some girls who's numbers i've got over the past few weeks, i started texting 2 of them and did the above and noticed it.

Anyone got any insight into this? Its got me really curious.

Auzie · 2012-08-19T00:07:10+00:00

good shit

2012-08-19T01:51:28+00:00

really cool - especially when you state when there's a shit test coming and how you choose to respond to it - impressed by you f-closing and impressed of how well you managed to write that field report! awesome!

gx61 · 2012-08-19T02:48:13+00:00

TIL women shit test..a fucking lot. I know I'd of been an afc in my responses, I'll keep this in mind for next time! Upvote!

2012-08-19T03:15:41+00:00

This is awesome. I feel like you can only pull this off if you build rapport beforehand. I love this.

2012-08-19T07:32:18+00:00

OP, you said you chatted with her and clicked pretty well. How much escalation did you do back then? I'm a firm believer that text game is rather futile if your first impression wasn't great, its weird if you were friendly and non-touchy in person but started getting aggressive and sexual on text (no congruence).

throwaway131316 · 2012-08-20T08:57:55+00:00

The best thing about this is how you keep the conversation rolling when she gives one word conversation killers. This works great in face to face interactions. Shows that you are directing the conversation and that you DGAF if she tries testing you.

trunski · 2012-08-19T11:08:44+00:00

I really like how you take control. Great FR!

StormTAG · 2012-08-18T22:13:00+00:00

"HB08: Was meant to go to a mexican party then valley but I didnt get back from the markets so my friends left already... So now nothing haha (she is testing the waters)" How is this a shit test?

2012-08-19T17:55:55+00:00

Great FR, man. You navigated that mine field of shit tests and hesitation with confidence!

mdwdirect · 2012-08-19T02:16:31+00:00

Reading r/seduction usually gives me total douche chills. Come on guys! Getting your dick inside as many women as possible is NOT winning. Unfortunately for everyone else you leave a trail of used women in your wake that someone else has to deal with. Show some maturity and think with your big head. That being said, this FR is insightful and leaves me with no unanswered questions. If you are going to pursue a meaningful experience with a woman this is an excellent example of overcoming her hesitation and insecurity. Thanks OP!

bblk3 · 2012-08-19T09:27:42+00:00

dude you sound like you got some game recognizing and handling those shit tests. how'd you manage to get to that level?

dogfapper · 2012-08-19T07:59:54+00:00

so what you're saying is that this girl is a major ho? She was bored sitting at home looking for someone to give pipe to her and you happened to be in her contact list. Judging from this conversation, you did almost nothing right aside from changing the subject and saying "oh i get it". You half assed your way through the conversation until she was finally like "uhh yeah i get bad when i'm bored", basically she pulled the trigger and made the first move AFTER SHE ALREADY TEXTED YOU FIRST LOL!!! This bitch would've taken dick from anybody, you hit the lotto that night. Also there is no way she was an 8, she ran game on YOU because nobody local wanted to fuck her. please step ya game up

grohlbarkermescudi · 2012-08-19T02:47:53+00:00

I like this

SirMinami · 2012-08-18T21:02:19+00:00

Why are you telling a supposed HB8 that she's beautiful and gorgeous? AFC material right there kiddo.

Title	[FR] Testing out direct/aggressive text game
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	219
Comments	66
Date	August 18, 2012 8:56 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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