Have you ever seduced someone who previously rejected you and you reacted badly to the rejection?

personal_cheezits · 2026-07-29T09:53:09+00:00

I can’t imagine why she changed her mind.

Quiet_Rock_5696 · 2026-07-29T09:52:45+00:00

Seductive behavior is the absolute opposite of what you're describing

Lacunaethra · 2026-07-29T10:35:35+00:00

FrontTheMachine · 2026-07-29T09:51:15+00:00

You're dodging a bullet, just walk away, such behavior ain't worth our time nor effort.

JamesCruse · 2026-07-29T10:37:05+00:00

The best way to be un-rejected (in my experience) is surprisingly counter-intuitive:

Being absolutely un-affected by the rejection. Total calm and just moving on like it didn't matter.

I've had women that I've been rejected by I just kept going like it was nothing.

Then they see me again and they're very interested in me, coming over to talk to me or at least being near me, following me around, trying to get my attention.

This has happened during the day, bars, clubs.

This is why I think a lot of women will reject you in clubs, when they see you're relaxed unaffected behaviour post rejection, she becomes significantly more interested and is very open.

I've even had this from women that I met them, got their number and they never replied back. See them again and I'm like whatever, unaffected and slept with them that day.

Zestyclose-Chance219 · 2026-07-29T11:32:03+00:00

What I’ve noticed on this sub is that most of yall aren’t getting play bc you guys are creeps and crazy

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-29T11:21:37+00:00

No. And trying is patethic.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-07-29T10:40:06+00:00

Yeah, just keep escalating like nothing happened. I never react badly. I react like it didn't happen and either back off or keep going depending on the type of rejection. Some rejections are shit test like in your case. If it's real, back off ASAP though.

BTW, she was testing you for a bad reaction and you didn't pass the test. So the likelyhood of success might be low but not impossible since she probably craves validation. Learn to give and withhold validation for success with these types of women.

Illusion911 · 2026-07-29T10:55:00+00:00

My life is way too short to be stuck on negative emotions like this.

I rather spend it on people who want to have fun adventures with me

fabmarques21 · 2026-07-29T13:12:23+00:00

yes but i did not reacted badly since im not a fucking stupid asshole.

she told me she did not had interest in me on the first time we met.

4 years later we talked again and now after 6 years of relationship we are currently thinking about being parents and marrying.

all because i understood that she owns me NOTHING.

Blackmagician · 2026-07-29T11:47:44+00:00

Get some control over your emotions and needy behavior.

badabing654 · 2026-07-29T11:50:41+00:00

Beg and plead to see her and then don’t show up

razama · 2026-07-29T13:21:52+00:00

Someone told me the secret to doing this and it was true:

You have to be the kind of person who would never do this. Your inner game is so broken being in this mindset any success you have is going to be fleeting and temporary if this person or anybody else.

electronic_rogue_5 · 2026-07-29T13:49:40+00:00

Move on. You seem to miss the point of this sub.

And no. She came back after few years but by then, I was in a serious relationship. I wasn't going to fuck it up over revenge sex.

tilldeathdoiparty · 2026-07-29T14:23:26+00:00

Just move on, plenty of women available, so you shouldn’t chase ones that have rejected you.

Have some self respect

Extreme-Bid-5989 · 2026-07-29T10:43:02+00:00

You only have chance when you did not react badly because reacting badly shows neediness which is a major attraction killer. Whenever you get rejected don’t be affected by it. It kills future chances with the same person

Omniscientbystander · 2026-07-29T12:16:12+00:00

Change into an abundance mindset ignore the girl and keep it moving showing detachment is attractive via outcome independence that’s your only chance

JackSquirts · 2026-07-29T14:54:32+00:00

No. I have, however, turned no into yes, simply by not reacting negatively to rejection. Had a girl actually tell me that how I responded when she said we weren't compatible made me much more attractive. I didn't care, so I just told her no problem and wished her the best. Hit me up a couple days later asking for a date. Of course at that point she moved from potentially serious to forever casual. Second chances for sex only, not relationships. This scenario has happened in various ways several times in my life.

KLR6969-stop3871 · 2026-07-29T18:00:29+00:00

Female sociopaths are not to be trifled with: run, don't walk away: they exist to make you feel like shit.

Matter_Still · 2026-07-30T13:00:46+00:00

If I was in your shoes I'd probably feel the same way and then seriously think about getting help before I hurt myself.

fluffypun · 2026-07-29T12:51:23+00:00

Andrew taint actually teaches that! A word of warning tho, what he teaches might sound non consensual. But from reading what you wrote that isn't a big deal to you as long as you get your revenge for getting your feelings hurt.

Title	Have you ever seduced someone who previously rejected you and you reacted badly to the rejection?
Author	chicomuchachos
Upvotes	0
Comments	34
Date	July 29, 2026 9:43 AM UTC (3 weeks ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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