Home dates --- how to smoothly transition from cooking to sex?”

BounceThatShit · 2026-01-14T01:21:28+00:00

Watch a movie after and see if the vibe is there and make a move. Or if she’s sick offer her a massage

PostAvailable9966 · 2026-01-14T04:18:46+00:00

If she is inviting you at her home and she is not super sick, sex is on likely on the cards.

In general, being at a home massively increases your chances.

Because it is first meeting, you need to go over all the escalation steps however. Treat as a normal date imo, just with the potential to be faster

ThatDarnSmell · 2026-01-14T05:09:09+00:00

She's sick. Give her some time on her own to recover.

cyrusm_az · 2026-01-14T01:26:55+00:00

You’re willing to get sick to have sex? Lol. If she’s telling the truth yeah that’s the risk. If not it’s her rejecting you

FromTheCaveIntoLight · 2026-01-15T01:40:20+00:00

Just don’t fuck up and do anything creepy or say anything weird. So long as this is a real girl and you don’t get robbed and jumped by 3 dudes, her inviting you over is 80% boner time guaranteed. Just be interesting and escalate regularly. Light touching turns to a playful grab or tickle turns into dogging her out on the couch. Simple.

OkAntelope7260 · 2026-01-14T03:26:52+00:00

After dinner, have a drink, and then just move in and touch her

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2026-01-14T20:52:01+00:00

Having sex with a girl when she's sick is uh.....not the vibe my dude.

Even further, a lot of women don't WANT all that much food before having sex....unless its kept to something VERY light.

Respectfully you might wanna get back to basics man, you kinda seem to be playing fools game here.

NO girl would say....hey let's have a ski date.....wait I'm sick....let me make it easier to have sex with you while I'm sick and just invite you over and let u cook for me cause I was sexy time still.....

She's probably imagining its gonna be a lighter night and not all that much physical activity man. She might wanna hang with you and keep it easy going/vibing vs sexy time, which is why she had no problems just having you over and letting you cook instead.

bonvoysal · 2026-01-14T22:35:44+00:00

Her saying she is a bit sick, immediately i thought, that's her way out to say, sorry, but not feeling so well, whenever you initiate the sex part.

Come back and update us...

ChicoBrillo · 2026-01-15T17:43:53+00:00

I personally wouldn't try to have sex with someone who's sick because I find that gross, but do you. Just look up "escalation" and "kino" basic idea is to start with safe touch like shoulders, top of back, etc, and based off her reaction (enthusiasm/shrinking away) either escalate or deescalate.

Hopefully she won't have a bunch of mucus lol

FearInoculumTool · 2026-01-16T02:10:24+00:00

Start with a glass of wine and tell her you’d rather have sex on an empty stomach and eat afterwards, because after you are done with her both of you will be famished.

PeakAcrobatic6031 · 2026-01-14T21:02:21+00:00

Home date is sex, I think all that is needs is experience then it all feels comfortable and easy. Damn I fucked up unecessarelywwhen i was younger haha. Good luck brother

First_Inspection_478 · 2026-01-14T16:01:07+00:00

get some wine, set the mood with some jazzy or rnb music. try small stuff like trying to feed her with some light touches. maintain eye contact. if she's ok with coming to your spot then you are halfway there. just dont be too eager because well she's also sick

sleepwalkthrowaway0 · 2026-01-14T16:49:08+00:00

Touch her playfully while cooking

aeturnus95 · 2026-01-15T15:15:45+00:00

Cooking-specifically make a dish that invites intimacy. Like eating with your fingers. Think sushi or tapas. Those kind of dishes make it easier to get a foothold and escalate while eating together or whatnot. Remember, the dish itself is not as important as how you guys eat it together.

7Seas_ofRyhme · 2026-01-15T16:14:14+00:00

not when she's sick. smh

Otherwise-Sympathy87 · 2026-01-15T18:55:14+00:00

Small chance she’s just saying she’s sick to get you to come over

thai-rhone · 2026-01-16T11:31:53+00:00

Finish dinner, have dessert on the couch. No TV but make sure the music is on, and the lights are dim. While talking over dessert reach your hand out and start making out with her.

You don't really need to escalate much before this point. Although you do need to be comfortable throughout the night and by doing so she'll feel comfortable as well

Title	Home dates --- how to smoothly transition from cooking to sex?”
Author	SebastianGraphicdsgn
Upvotes	35
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Date	January 14, 2026 1:01 AM UTC (6 months ago)
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