How do answer this question: what would I get after we have amazing sex tonight?

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thisiswater95 · 2025-03-07T16:35:08+00:00

Great sex tomorrow morning.

Glacier_Sama · 2025-03-07T16:16:39+00:00

"an orgasm, hopefully" leave it at that. You aren't trying to sell her on it. Either she wants you sexually or not.

klumpbin · 2025-03-07T16:21:18+00:00

15 seconds of pure pleasure

norwegiandoggo · 2025-03-07T16:20:25+00:00

Usually, it means she wants a relationship. And she's not wanting to have casual sex with you only for you to bounce right after sex. She's checking your intentions.

Most women want a relationship with sex. Not sex without a relationship.

So what are your intentions? Casual sex or a relationship?

BatBottleBank · 2025-03-07T16:22:25+00:00

£10

111moses111 · 2025-03-07T16:36:14+00:00

Nice breakfast in morning

321sleep · 2025-03-07T16:31:39+00:00

A wedding ring and a baby

Firm_Birthday_3364 · 2025-03-07T19:04:45+00:00

Your uber home baby

timtimr23 · 2025-03-07T16:43:14+00:00

STDs

KingLeoricSword · 2025-03-07T16:52:29+00:00

A big spoon.

guitaristbyheart · 2025-03-07T20:33:43+00:00

That my friend is a "beta bait"... Do not fall into the trap of answering it logically.. Tease her on " Amazing sex" Part.

Silly_Randy · 2025-03-07T17:59:11+00:00

An orgasm and if you're a good girl, cuddles.

Dandys3107 · 2025-03-07T18:13:39+00:00

"I am guessing you would need nothing else after I am done with you".

Generally, don't treat such questions as a threat, but a chance to increase sexual tension even more.

dasitmane85 · 2025-03-07T17:01:32+00:00

Jizz on yo face

BASEDnPILLED-player · 2025-03-07T17:14:25+00:00

You get to make me a sandwich

LandShark805 · 2025-03-07T18:26:48+00:00

satisfaction.

LogicalChart3205 · 2025-03-07T19:56:34+00:00

Gonorrhea/Pregnancy Scare/Breakfast in Morning/Hairy Cuddles

Something similar that tells her you're funny.

Or if you want to tell her that you're not just a Playboy then you can add a jk at the end and say maybe a relationship so you can get more of it.

I saw somewhere that you're planning to ask her directly what she's looking for. Well i wouldn't advice that because you're ruining the mystery, also women already want to have a relationship with guys specially if you're good at bed. So if she's asking to have sex you already know the answer. Also just saying you want a serious relationship in beginning is boring for some. Be unpredictable, it's way more attractive than wanting to seem serious. Make her wet first, have sex, then bring up the relationship question. On further encounters.

And if you don't want a serious relationship, then never bring it up again and keep dodging questions with jokes.

And god no don't ask her what kinda sex she likes. Just do your best, don't ask her please for god's sake. You don't want her to remember her previous Good sexual encounters when she's with you. You should be the main focus.

liftingnstuff · 2025-03-07T17:14:16+00:00

If she's the one bringing up sex, a disqualifier is great here. If you're trying to keep things casual, lean into a enjoying each other's company in the moment and letting the serious decisions play out later frame. If you're open to seeing her again more seriously you can say that you'd be open to seeing her again and then add a disqualifier like as long as you aren't hiding your red flags.

Cactus2711 · 2025-03-07T17:30:05+00:00

A pat on the head. There’s a good girl

Kukantiz · 2025-03-07T19:07:18+00:00

Bacon and eggs in the morning.

JackSquirts · 2025-03-08T02:44:52+00:00

A high five and an Uber ride.

LostGambler · 2025-03-08T06:24:13+00:00

Me crying about my ex.

BroccoliMcFlurry · 2025-03-08T06:57:47+00:00

A high five

unevendopamine2 · 2025-03-08T07:26:45+00:00

A high 5

dikshantsharmaa · 2025-03-08T10:28:02+00:00

what every you want? i have some plans will tell you about them then. say this. then ask, we will be cuddling so sometime that is sure - if she likes cuddles. women usually like that i feel it makes me warm.

JustinCredable1 · 2025-03-08T13:40:48+00:00

A very prompt taxi ride home... Lol just kidding, you know these arms were made for cuddling.

Purple_Advantage9398 · 2025-03-09T17:23:22+00:00

$25 and a placard that says prostitute.

Conscious_Yak_1002 · 2025-03-07T18:35:49+00:00

"my eternal adoration". (Some form of meaningless flattery)

Don't delude everything to sex, keep seduction angle running.

LegendaryZTV · 2025-03-07T19:02:30+00:00

I’m gonna say what no one else is really saying; just lie & keep it light. Since it sounds like you just want a FWB situation for now at least, set that expectation.

Complete the mission & if you want more, then convey that thru action. Just ask yourself what do YOU want after sex & work off that, not off of her

No-Buyer-6278 · 2025-03-07T19:25:40+00:00

Herpes

Title	How do answer this question: what would I get after we have amazing sex tonight?
Author	Otherwise-Secret2687
Upvotes	72
Comments	44
Date	March 7, 2025 4:12 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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