How do I look?

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-13T12:49:48+00:00

How honest do you want us to be?

mothersspaghettos · 2022-04-13T12:50:49+00:00

Yeah, as the Canadian said....how honest?

Hemroc · 2022-04-13T13:00:16+00:00

My opinion, nerdy and slightly curvy.

Michaelpolerman · 2022-04-13T13:04:46+00:00

You gotta hit the gym fam

essentially_everyone · 2022-04-13T13:09:00+00:00

In whatever case, remember you're posting on a subreddit filled with people who don't have any luck at dating. You're making yourself vulnerable for toxicity - just remember not to take these comments too seriously.

VDKay · 2022-04-13T12:54:37+00:00

Honestly. Let me put it that way: You look OK, but people are always gonna choose your friend in red top over you any day.

CommercialPlay6204 · 2022-04-13T12:54:11+00:00

Loveable

BrettTheHitmanHartX · 2022-04-13T12:56:38+00:00

Lose weight you have alot of potential.

Join Gym and within a year guys will be drooling over you.

But do it for yourself

Axelyager · 2022-04-13T13:07:12+00:00

I would date you as long as your personality made up for your weight. Honestly you have a cute smile. But definitely need to work on your weight if you want better results. I'm sure there would be some guy out there that will date you as long as your standards are realistic.

joshroqueee · 2022-04-13T13:10:53+00:00

Appearance wise you're cute, Just be yourself and you'll be fine

2022-04-13T13:10:47+00:00

You look very shy but you give the vibe of a good hearted person who is assertive

abdul97babar · 2022-04-13T13:13:43+00:00

With your eyes and through glasses

Paul_Morgan · 2022-04-13T13:20:59+00:00

With your eyes

kathruins · 2022-04-13T13:21:26+00:00

you dress like a hip bisexual or lesbian. while it can be considered cute, it doesnt scream "approach me!" try some pants with a tighter fit. if you do go loose jeans, make up for it with a crop top or something revealing up top. frumpy is a popular style right now, but something intended for the male gaze will get you, well, the male gaze.

hekloblaka · 2022-04-13T13:23:55+00:00

Please post at r/amiugly the next time if you want less toxic feedback. This is absolutely not the right place. You just have to reduce your weight and you’ll see everything falling into place. Also, maintaining weight will help you lead a healthy life and you know what, health = wealth. So why not put some work on yourself!? Good luck!!🤞

EthicalSeduction · 2022-04-13T13:15:17+00:00

People! This is a great opportunity to get your eyes in order and look beyond her weight. Those of you who have commented are (1) generally harsh and (2) missing a LOT. Look at her smile and face and tell me what you notice about her personality.

u/APBohm I can tell instantly from just these two photos that you have a happy energy that is fun to be around. You are very close with your friends and loyal and value them very much. You also have some body insecurities (since you pasted asking how you look) BUT you are also courageous and brave enough to ask for help and thoughts. Anyone who goes out with you is going to have a great time because you are playful and fun. That is your power and super attractive.

I'm going to guess that what you want to watch out for is that you should not settle for someone simple because you are happy to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Work on (1) being happy with who you are, (2) knowing what value you bring to the table (Your personality and uplifting energy), and focus on doing fun things you enjoy (which will get people approaching you.)

u/APBohm how accurate is that? Was I way off??

Andress1 · 2022-04-13T12:56:32+00:00

Too fat for my taste.

If you lost weight and became normal like your friend it would be a big improvement.

2022-04-13T13:03:48+00:00

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verticalstars · 2022-04-13T13:21:40+00:00

Sadly in America you might be an 8 out of 10.

But in canada or some other countries you might be a 4.

dannik80 · 2022-04-13T13:21:47+00:00

Put it this way - 99% of guys would not look twice at you.

The great thing is that there is so much potential. Honestly, 6 months / 1 year of work in the gym would make you even better looking than your friend.

Lose the glasses, and use lenses for the great eyes.

Consider wearing less baggy clothes.

LIGHT make-up.

Suddenly a lot more of these comments would be positive.

Best of luck, fatass. (jk)

Nabil8006 · 2022-04-13T13:13:55+00:00

You have a nice skin and lovely eyes. Change your glasses to something that will highlight your face and try to lose some weight

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-04-13T13:14:33+00:00

Honest assessment:

You look like you have nice eyes, that’s a big plus
Like others said, getting in better shape is the biggest factor here. Even losing about 10 lbs will help
The frumpy, oversized pink hoodie has to go. Girls can look good in hoodies, but that one looks like you borrowed it from your mom
Your teeth look slightly stained in this picture. Suggest whitening
You would look good with lighter hair.

Summary: If you lose 10-15 lbs, dress better, lighten your hair, whiten your teeth, you have potential. Having nice eyes is big advantage.

bittr_n_swt · 2022-04-13T13:20:36+00:00

Lose weight and lose the glasses More makeup

And you’ll be decent

foghatyma · 2022-04-13T13:22:34+00:00

Not sure where you are from but in Europe you'd be considered fat. Start eating healthy, you have potential!

Axeweilder9 · 2022-04-13T13:24:14+00:00

I see a beautiful smile. Your eyes are smiling too. It’s hard to tell from a pic but you seem like you may be a genuinely happy and fun person, the most attractive of traits.

Emotive69 · 2022-04-13T13:32:30+00:00

You look cool ;)

NinasFit · 2022-04-13T13:37:57+00:00

you look fun, personality wise, but there's something you're not validating in yourself. you dont really need us to tell you what you already know. waiting for approval is just going to throw you off from your own truth. if you're trying to date, start with what you want, and work back to your most ideal self. your most ideal self (according to you, not according to dipshits wanting you to drop your glasses, or suddenly become a gym goer lol) and then do the things that that ideal self would do if she loved herself. if thats going for walks, getting more sleep.. writing.. whatever would get you more in tune with you.. that's what's going to be attractive af.

2022-04-13T13:38:12+00:00

I don’t think you look boring or insecure. That smile looks genuine. And you look comfortable to me, which has its own appeal of confidence. Boring and insecure people tend to shy away from the camera, don’t smile as brightly, and look like they’re suffering. I don’t see any of that. I also think you are pretty.

I think the top commenter is just projecting all harsh negativity because he’s not sexually attracted to you. Which is okay. Beauty is subjective.

As a person obsessed with health and nutrition, I would say the biggest thing you need to work on is weight, but that’s entirely changeable and within your capability. Focus on eating a lot of whole foods and recipes made from scratch, and exercise 30–60 mins 5/days a week. The weight will shed off, but what’s most important is that you will be healthy and probably feel very good.

Good luck! You got this, girl!

2022-04-13T13:38:44+00:00

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GreatWhite9000 · 2022-04-13T13:38:48+00:00

Like I would go with you on a drink 🤣🤣

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Kobe_curry24 · 2022-04-13T13:42:28+00:00

Yea c’mon I’m man of God you need work but there’s someone for everybody

2022-04-13T13:44:27+00:00

I might have someone for you. You’re his type to a T

howtoloveadaisy · 2022-04-13T13:45:37+00:00

These other commenters are telling you to lose weight, and that's fine, but make sure you are doing it for YOU. Losing weight for the sole reason to attract the opposite sex is a recipe for self-esteem issues.

But here is some advice I have for you as a successful woman in dating.

You have long, beautiful hair. You can get it cut with layers that frames your face to make it look smaller. Learning how to do a blow out will also make a big difference! I recommend Revlon one step for beginners.

There is nothing wrong with your glasses and looking "nerdy." I think nerdy glasses can give a sexy academic vibe but to each their own. If you want, you could look for a better pair of glasses that suit your face shape and also look younger/more fashionable. Check out Warby Parker for affordable but stylish frames.

Also, are you into skincare? Women that are more fair in complexion can really show damage in their skin barrier and texture even if they have "clear" skin. Because of this, white women who do not have a good skincare routine tend to not age as well and look older than they are. Make sure you have skincare products for YOUR skincare type and WEAR sunscreen.

Are you into makeup? If you are, make sure your skincare routine is solid. Need a good base to apply makeup!

If you're new or not very experienced with makeup, try a no makeup, makeup look. I'm really into that style of makeup myself and I posted an image of one my fav foundations on me. It's for the L'oreal 24hr Fresh Wear and it looks like SKIN. If you want to treat yourself, grab the nars light reflecting foundation. Both of these foundations are great for all skin types. With makeup, you can also contour to make yourself look smaller. A great hack is to use your blush as contour ;) you will look younger, radiant, and still snatched!

Message me privately if you need help with tips to lose/maintain weight, makeup, skincare, or just need advice from another woman. Best of luck!

shittybatmantattoo · 2022-04-13T13:48:29+00:00

You look like a very friendly person that has a lof of interesting things to offer but... I wouldn't look at you twice. You're far out of what I find attractive.

ThemasterofZ · 2022-04-13T13:48:43+00:00

Cute but not hot. Also get gold frame glasses

flights4ever · 2022-04-13T13:50:41+00:00

Lots of people are saying hit the gym, which I agree but you don't really *need* to, maybe a diet change is all you need. You've got nice hair and teeth, maybe glasses that fit you a bit better.

cupjames · 2022-04-13T13:53:21+00:00

I would say that frames for your glasses that better fit your face structure would make a big difference!

Miloslolz · 2022-04-13T14:01:53+00:00

You have a pretty face honestly but you're overweight as others said, also eye contacts will help. Good luck fam.

JohnnyLazer17 · 2022-04-13T14:02:32+00:00

I think you’re asking the wrong question. The right question is “Is there hope for me?” and the answer is yes. If you’re dedicated to ‘looking’ better, there’s a combination of things that you can do that will break you out into the ‘upper average/above average’ echelon.

Mr-Kabuki · 2022-04-13T14:04:43+00:00

Lose weight, get better glasses, whiten teeth, and put on better make up (do something to thicken/ darken the eyebrow) and you could be a legit hot girl. The potential is there you are just not utilizing any of it. Good luck.

ProtagonistOfMine8 · 2022-04-13T14:04:54+00:00

With your eyes. Duh.

shathecomedian · 2022-04-13T14:07:21+00:00

You look good to me, wya

poly_nerdy_panda · 2022-04-13T14:07:30+00:00

nice set of tits for sure, to be honest, I'm sure a ton of guys would fuck you without thinking twice, the issue is would you be their type long-term or just someone they fuck till someone better looking in their mind comes along. I know plenty of girls that look like you that do very well in onlyfans and have lots of guys wanting to date them long-term.

RepulsiveCat1681 · 2022-04-13T14:08:02+00:00

lovely teeth and eyes. work hard, you got this :))

heftyearth · 2022-04-13T14:10:48+00:00

Many people tell you to lose weight. However, if you don’t want to and feel healthy you don’t need to. My advice is to put some effort, I don’t know the context of your picture but when you go out use nicer clothes and maybe lipstick, it can be a huge difference

tgf2008 · 2022-04-13T14:20:00+00:00

If you want to lose weight, then do it, but for yourself & not because people on Reddit told you too. Losing weight is hard enough as it is. But you’re not THAT overweight & as we all know a significant portion of the population is overweight/obese anyway (I’m assuming you’re in the US).

Some fast fixes that I can recommend are:

New glasses - those frames are really outdated & do you no favors even if they were in style.
New clothes. Just because you have some weight to lose doesn’t mean you have to wear unflattering outfits. Pick something that’s going to highlight a physical asset. I suggest getting a great push-up bra & showing a little cleavage. You can be in-your-face about it or more subtle. I’m guessing a more understated approach would be more comfortable for you and that’s the whole point - do what fits your personality to begin with, and polish up your presentation.
New hairstyle-center part, soft fringe, highlights. It’s amazing what a new updated style can do to boost confidence!

I think you’re really cute, and judging from your smile you seem like you are a lot of fun to be around. Some small subtle changes will go a long way to helping you feel amazing & energized, and that is always extremely attractive!

Competitive_Pen335 · 2022-04-13T14:28:55+00:00

I think you have the potential to be very good looking. Find a fitting outfit, not that loose sweater, lose some weight, get a nice haircut.. you have great eyes and very nice proportions on your face! The weight losing party may be the hardest but also will give you the best results :) start slow! But just start! It is enough to gain some momentum and to include a little bit sport into your everyday life :) as I said, I really think that you have the potential to be very attractive!

E7331899 · 2022-04-13T15:33:35+00:00

Yo have blue eyes which is already a good thing. Lots of people in many cultures find blue eyes very attractive. But You could try to make your teeth whiter because they’re yellow. And about the weight, it all depends on what kind of guys u searching for, some men will love that weight, specially if it gives a fat butt and big tits, but if it makes u insecure, then u could start working out. The glasses are fine. The hair is fine. Just make those teeth whiter

Title	How do I look?
Author	APBohm
Upvotes	15
Comments	150
Date	April 13, 2022 12:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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