How do you make same night lays easier off dating apps?

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-10-23T16:03:52+00:00

Have a bottle of wine + other interesting things back at yours that you can use as excuses for her to come back. For instance, a unique drink/dessert, a pet, etc.

During the date you could hint at it, but most importantly at the end of the date, you need to bring up the thing. Whether it's to share some wine back at yours or to meet your cat or whatever, that's how you get her back to yours.

Then you pour her a drink, sit down next to her, and escalate to sex.

AngryGoose21 · 2025-10-23T13:43:39+00:00

Actually find it pretty easy. If I don’t get laid on the first date I find it odd. Bar near my place. Build a lot of comfort. Tell her I make better espresso martinis than the place we’re at. I go back to my place and make her the best martini of her life. Panties come off. That’s my formula, you’re welcome

Sandvicheater · 2025-10-23T15:59:36+00:00

Its easy:

Be attractive
Don't be unattractive

backizwack · 2025-10-24T00:25:14+00:00

“Well, I gotta get home. I need to feed the plant and water the cat. You’re more than welcome to join me”

E-Z P-Z

norwegiandoggo · 2025-10-23T14:22:09+00:00

Can you tell us what particular problem you're usually encountering when you go for the same night lay? Or is this just hypothetical mental masturbation?

NuncaContent · 2025-10-23T17:32:05+00:00

After a divorce and a couple years on the dating scene, I told girls I met on the apps, that if our date went well and we vibed, I expected her to spend the night at my place at the end of our date.

Didn’t always work but my direct approach led to a lot of fun conversations and a lot more first date sex.

entitledwank · 2025-10-23T12:35:46+00:00

getting the date is the hard part getting them back to your place is the easy part, just start at a bar nearby and early on mention something you want to show her back at yours.

i usually tease pictures of my cat early on, then end with wanna come meet my cat? then pour her a drink and start making out with her

AshyBoneVR4 · 2025-10-24T08:03:35+00:00

Be a guy in shape and pick up fat chicks.... literally.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-23T14:53:52+00:00

For the first date, pick a bar within a few blocks of your place. 10 min walk max. Has to be as convenient as possible so they are less likely to make excuses. Eliminate the friction as much as possible.

Mindless-Goal-5340 · 2025-10-23T16:23:31+00:00

Lower your standards

DrBarackPendergrass · 2025-10-23T14:42:06+00:00

Rule #1: Stop saying the word "date", seduce them before you even meet in person, then set the logistics for the first meeting to be at your place.

Rule #2: Re-read Rule #1.

(This is my standard first "date.")

Jironasaurus · 2025-10-23T12:36:59+00:00

Insert innuendos in your bio to imply that youre being sexual. And then do the same during your conversations.

I personally don't like being direct unless it's clear that she is. Otherwise you risk a report and/or a ban.

NChSh · 2025-10-23T14:36:28+00:00

The thing you can do before is get in really good shape and go on a diet and then also be funny in your chat with her

Disastrous_Affect742 · 2025-10-23T12:34:37+00:00

Go out to get drinks

GatsbyCode · 2025-10-23T12:51:47+00:00

If you can get sex from dating apps, good for you

Title	How do you make same night lays easier off dating apps?
Author	HedgehogOk3756
Upvotes	33
Comments	29
Date	October 23, 2025 12:31 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1oe20hr/how_do_you_make_same_night_lays_easier_off_dating/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-do-you-make-same-night-lays-easier-off-dating.1564823 https://theredarchive.com/post/1564823

Comments