How exactly should I go about getting laid in college?

kalz44 · 2018-09-01T02:02:16+00:00

My first question would be how long have you been taking action and what are you learning. My second question is do you have any self-esteem issues or hang ups.

My advice to you would be to join a club/recreation group on campus to gain some confidence and friends being part of a group.

As far as sex, go to bars and clubs and shoot your shot. Eventually someone will be interested.

hiddengym · 2018-09-01T01:54:52+00:00

are you initiating any type of physical attraction when in person when on dates etc...Like touching (not sexually but just touching building it up)?

joniii123 · 2018-09-01T03:20:30+00:00

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lItsAutomaticl · 2018-09-01T05:17:37+00:00

In college your best bet is to make friends with as many people as possible. Network like a mofo.

WhereTruthLies · 2018-09-01T02:21:03+00:00

t i n d e r

As a CS student I can vouch, I get a lot of success on there with dates but not much irl because I'm usually inside studying/playing videogames and I don't drink so meeting people is hard.

Kitt_55 · 2018-09-01T10:58:31+00:00

Fundamentals of Female Dynamics The pick-up bible for engineers

Lambdal7 · 2018-09-01T13:29:54+00:00

Don't do daygame in college for dates, but for social circle

College is all about social proof. So, make them as part of your social circle, become the guy that knows everyone and girls will flock onto you like nothing.

If you approach hot girls indirectly without hitting on them, you'll become the college king quickly.

You can do everything like in a normal approach, rapport, playful, teasig, qualification, just don't flirt.

chesterfieldkingz · 2018-09-01T04:12:35+00:00

Don't get discouraged, that happens, and you're in what? Your first week of college. You should feel good about the amount of work you've put in and the numbers you got. Just keep plugging away at it and keep note what tactics seem to be working.

2018-09-01T06:25:02+00:00

Honestly I'm sensing a lack of leadership in your interactions. Remember she wants to be excited by your touch and asking herself what are you gonna do next and will she like it. Lead the interaction in a dynamic and vulnerable way and she'll respond by being vulnerable as well (sex being there ultimate act of vulnerability ). I genuinely think if you led the interactions with clear intent (and maybe be a little more prompt about it) it would at least minimize the "friend zone" issue

thevaluelifestyle · 2018-09-01T02:03:54+00:00

How long are you waiting to follow up? Girls meet a lot of guys and forget a lot of guys as well especially if the interaction was short lived and you did not remind her of who you are.

austinbayarea · 2018-09-01T04:24:15+00:00

I’m not gonna lie I didn’t get laid as much as I’d like to during school but house parties were the easiest. Just go out to have fun, not to pull. Girls will notice and find it super attractive. Also hit the gym! It’s shallow but so is human nature.

2018-09-01T08:02:26+00:00

If they want to be friends then attraction is the problem, work on maximizing your SMV.
Flaking however may have many causes, if you're sure attraction is there, maybe you're forgetting to set-up the date properly. What you want to do is, once you get the phone number, tell her what you two are going to do (Ideally is something you both like, keep it low-pressure). OR ideally, you can eliminate flaking completely by going to seduction and trying to go for a same day lay. Another thing, this is pretty common from people who just learned the game, maybe you come off weird or creepy. Get a wingman, someone you can trust, and ask him his honest opinion on how you come off.

Silvermaskedman · 2018-09-01T13:08:03+00:00

First year engineering estudent here... Definitely keeping my eye on this post

FishesNBitches · 2018-09-01T13:37:54+00:00

Current junior here. Been starting to get laid more often, and here's all I do. Have a not give a fuck attitude, as in you're laid back and dont give a damn about conversations not working out. Hit up girls at parties, school clubs, etc and be friendly but keep your cool. Then just invite them over for pregames or when you have people over, flirt, and take them to your room. PM me and we can work on our lives together

FreckledViking · 2018-09-01T03:52:37+00:00

Tinder, go to bars/clubs on the weekends, join a frat, sit next to women you're interested in your classes (if there are any), and or approach women and initiate conversation and swap snapchats/numbers if you click. Endless ways. You just need confidence and a little game.

black-kramer · 2018-09-01T04:12:28+00:00

i sucked at getting laid in college, but it was also really hard to do at the school i went to - almost everyone was very type A, very focused on grades. girls your age are gonna flake 9 times out of 10. i'd say the best way to proceed is to use apps - all of them. i just got hinge and it's a life changer. tinder sucks, relatively. i'm a lot older, but i don't see why it wouldn't work for you. if you're getting a number, try texting during non-evening hours with just some random crap from your day, build a rapport. don't expect to close any deals the first date.

SweatyAnReady14 · 2018-09-01T05:26:02+00:00

Dude college is fucking easy. Ill just say, as a recent grad in my opinion fuck tinder it will only fuck up your game and its basically an uphill battle to get anything worthwhile. It's all about the basics baby! Don't over think it don't go to gurus. Just go out to social places be confident and talk to girls. Its that fucking simple.It sounds crazy but, A lot of the guys i knew in college who weren't getting laid could not do this. We would be at the bar all night or in the cafeteria and they would absolutely refuse to interact with any girl unless it was on tinder. Heck, my freshman and sophomore year i did the same thing. But once i started having fun and talking with girls it was like night and day. You don't even have to drink either dude. College is a social playground talk with girls in class, at the cafeteria, in the dorm, join a club, etc. Just have fun and be sociable and they will literally come to you.

aatpacalypse97 · 2018-09-01T03:08:05+00:00

You have to dorm there, and you have to Make alot of friends, and then they'll introduce you to some girls, and that's how it seems to work. If you don't have friends who will look out for you and who want you to succeed then your screwed. Idk, I had a friend who got laid on the first day of college! And that was his first time ever. Whatever. Im a loser who cannot make friends so i have to humiliate myself by doing cringeworthy cold approaches as a punishment because it's the only way for me. But you don't have to. Get yourself a dorm room and socialize as aggressively as you can. But yes, if you haven't had any success then mentally it makes it VERY hard to continue. But you have to push yourself and you will suffer. But It's the only way.

JW_2 · 2018-09-01T04:16:52+00:00

When you say you’re straightforward, what do you mean? What do you say to them?

And if you’re asking them on dates...people rarely date in college

2018-09-01T04:59:52+00:00

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moeseth · 2018-09-01T07:38:16+00:00

Buy a good bed

2018-09-01T17:51:46+00:00

Imagine if a buff, handsome gay guy had a "straightforward style" and tried it on you. Would you fall into his arms? Why not?

Have you tried treating women like human beings as opposed to something for you to wank into?

55redditor55 · 2018-09-01T16:03:37+00:00

Open Tinder?

LimitedContributor · 2018-09-01T16:48:47+00:00

How does the concept of getting laid in college really exist? The girls just magically let you in their dorm room?

jerema · 2018-09-01T19:28:29+00:00

My best advice to almost anyone is to join a wrestling or bjj classes instead of gym. The effects and benefits are surreal for building confidence and rapport with pretty much anyone. You get extremely conformable kino-ing, expressing yourself. Overall, you become alpha as fuck.

I myself find to have a lot of the same obstacles that people share in this sub and so far bjj has been the most effective way to naturally achieve the results being sought here.

Good luck.

WIA20XX · 2018-09-01T02:24:41+00:00

What did you read?

What guru are you following?

Do you know what your sticking points are?

VelociraptorReptar · 2018-09-01T08:29:06+00:00

You use your penis. Hopefully

Title	How exactly should I go about getting laid in college?
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Date	September 1, 2018 1:49 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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