I finally asked her out!

hunterpua · 2022-01-26T02:32:45+00:00

Great feeling just taking the shot, isn't it?

Good job man! Keep pulling that trigger with other girls that catch your eye.

daring_innovator · 2022-01-26T04:44:39+00:00

Good job bro! But next time change the “drinks sometime” part to “Hey I gotta get going now, I have a very busy schedule but LETS grab a A DRINK sometime!” Because saying “drinks” sounds like you’re gonna get her drunk and that’s conveying the wrong message.

Women liked to be led, so we must use “follow me”, “I got you”, “I got this” “I’ll handle this” “Lets do this” & take her by the hand. But only do this with the girls that are attracted to you not complete randoms.

Havocnumbanine · 2022-01-26T02:35:53+00:00

I think this is awesome. Now start to develop a “strategy” to talk to girls even better.

allislost81 · 2022-01-26T02:51:21+00:00

Good job brother! You got rejected and nothing was lost because it was no big deal! On to the next side quest!

everyth1ngscopacetic · 2022-01-26T07:09:59+00:00

Bro right on. PROUD OF YOU BRO

5yn3rgy · 2022-01-26T03:35:50+00:00

Hey, you took a shot and that's what counts! Doesn't it feel great (even if she said no)?

ahr90 · 2022-01-26T03:53:36+00:00

Great start and good effort mate. Really well done! Keep it up!

damiancontrol · 2022-01-26T06:54:02+00:00

Here's a tip... know what your common interests are and use that instead to ask her out.

"Hey, I remember you telling me before you're into xyxyx. I'm going to xyxyxy you should come along"

Minute-Lie-2287 · 2022-01-26T10:36:29+00:00

Probably a good thing on the rejection as well...I have friends that deliver beer. They will change your route if you start dating one of the girls on it, and fire your ass if youre just banging them.

Not assuming your company has similar rules but I'm sure the reasons theirs does apply to you as well. Avoiding favors, buyer/seller conflict of interest, drama etc.

elay3n · 2022-01-26T14:27:52+00:00

Good for you dude! Nothing feels better than shootin your shot

hoegaarden_ · 2022-01-26T15:18:45+00:00

I love this post. Way to go mate!

lozboss · 2022-01-26T16:48:39+00:00

Good work bro. Tahe the shots and you'll hit some. Can't score without it.

Now don't bother with future conversations with her anymore. She's got nothing for you bro.

Melinored · 2022-01-26T02:46:28+00:00

Never Give Up ! Keep on experimenting with other girls you approach and it would surely give you an edge over other guys.

itsthechamp2022 · 2022-01-26T06:41:59+00:00

Her lose not yours

ExtremeNihilism · 2022-01-26T07:42:37+00:00

She didn't actually have a boyfriend, that's just what they say.

Placated_Venom · 2022-01-26T06:36:36+00:00

THE KING! Good job buddy

ahboon20 · 2022-01-26T13:43:59+00:00

Her: i have a boyfriend Me: girl... We haven't know each other yet, and you're already thinking about getting into relationship 🤣

CompendiumDigital · 2022-01-26T15:22:42+00:00

shouldn't have done it.

Buttamilk_Buscuit · 2022-01-27T02:02:40+00:00

Yep, it's not always about scoring a successful date. Just getting over the anxiety of asking someone out will make it easier to do it again with other women. Thanks to online dating, people are approaching each other in-person less and less. The better you become at approaching women who are in front of you, the more likely you will have success. At least that's what I think. Not sure how you look and dress, all that jazz.

But awesome that you asked her out! Don't feel embarrassed about it, rejection is just part of the process. We all will face it unless we are lucky.

ComputerScienceGod · 2022-01-26T05:56:17+00:00

Whenever a girl tells me they have a bf I usually say "Wow lucky guy!"

FidelCatto92 · 2022-01-26T14:46:47+00:00

oh yeah the classic bf excuse lol

YxDexd · 2022-01-26T06:32:03+00:00

Ur happy u got rejected ?

Slightside · 2022-01-26T08:03:34+00:00

Hell yeah dude congrats! This is your start to feeling more comfortable putting yourself out there. Best of luck you got this!

enositis26 · 2022-01-26T11:28:03+00:00

Did the same at the gym this morning. She likes me i can tell but i think she was surprised. I didn't play very well as when she said "you went straight into it" i downplayed it instead of saying, you are absolutely right to project confidence. you live and learn...

Title	I finally asked her out!
Author	Ninjaswagxz
Upvotes	385
Comments	60
Date	January 26, 2022 2:27 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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