Is it normal to not understand woman’s behavior as a man?

RexHastalam · 2024-06-19T01:45:47+00:00

My rule is that if I’m into a woman and I’m not sure if she’s into me, I escalate (in an appropriate way) until it’s very clear if she is or isn’t into me.

Therefore it shouldn’t really matter if they are confusing.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2024-06-19T01:44:38+00:00

This happens. Women often claim that they are very good at communication. But I don’t think that’s true. I think they may be good at communication with other women, but not so much with men.

I think you should talk to her about.

More than that, make a plan. Give her an opportunity to fix the issue. And if she doesn’t, be prepared to leave her. You shouldn’t have to put up with that.

soulshock22 · 2024-06-19T02:24:29+00:00

If you're young or haven't been around much women, then yes that would be normal. But if you're older or more experienced with women, you'd understand them better.

If she's mad at you and won't tell you why that's pretty standard entitled princess behaviour. She's mad at you for something you did, and she's also mad that you aren't able to read her mind to figure what you did wrong. What you did wrong is one thing, but it's her responsibility to communicate her needs and boundaries, not yours. This is a huge red flag. Call her out on it. If she gets defensive, I'd move on.

CBguy1983 · 2024-06-19T01:58:23+00:00

To quote the great Al Bundy: I don’t try to understand women. Women understand women & they hate each other.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-06-19T02:05:26+00:00

It's not possible to understand a female mind if u are not female.

We can, however, take note of behaviors and see definite tendencies.

When a girl is mad and won't say why, do not push for an exclamation. You might be in a good spot. If she is mad at you, you are likely not boring.

Girls sleep with the guys they complain about.

Girls forget about the guys that do everything right.

GWARY54 · 2024-06-20T02:31:27+00:00

Shit tests and sometimes hormonal. Stop worrying about what your girl feels so much. They don’t even know

Fate-in-haze · 2024-06-19T04:08:11+00:00

I recommend reading Practical Female Psychology by Joseph South. That book is a gold mine.

Due_Flow7805 · 2024-06-19T05:52:09+00:00

I think it's normal; the more you know your partner, the easier it gets over time. However, there will always be things we can't fully understand.

I once read a book that mentioned women's behavior often focuses more on feelings, so they care more about your actions, reactions, and emotions rather than just your words. As a man, I found this difficult to understand and have been in your position. Just show her you care, and you might see what I mean.

It's just how it works. For example, I don't understand how they can gossip for hours, and they might not understand how we can talk about football or video games for hours.

YallWildSMH · 2024-06-19T14:12:43+00:00

Bro women can't even accurately understand or anticipate womens behavior

No_Bite_7238 · 2024-06-19T15:56:37+00:00

"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other."

Al Bundy

AnDeeJay95 · 2024-06-19T18:36:37+00:00

Their logic is strange.

Chatting on the phone while having lunch, and when I get up to leave after finishing my food, she gets mad at me because I didn't wait for her to finish hers.

"Saving money" by sending clotches she didn't fit back to the store and getting a refund.

And the very worst in my opinion: Crisis maximizing. When I have a problem, I solve it and move on with my day. When she does, she tells every single person about how annoying her problem is, making it way bigger than it is, instead of just solving it.

StockHamster77 · 2024-06-19T02:46:25+00:00

The issue, is settling for just one woman lol. If you had several, you could rotate between them while waiting for her to stop being mad for no reason

Head-Jury5846 · 2024-06-19T07:55:28+00:00

It's because you sincerely believe women and men are the same and reason the same, this has been drilled in our heads by propaganda but it simply isn't true ... They're not, they reason very differently and have different values/objectives/lives/difficulties.

You probably think "if I were a woman I wouldn't do this", but this is wrong at the base.

Nicklebuck · 2024-06-19T18:12:10+00:00

Repent and believe in the Lord Jesus Christ who died for our sins because He loves us and wanted us to know Him and enter into eternal life with Him

epimpstyle · 2024-06-19T07:38:46+00:00

Maybe you are doing something really stupid and she has a reason to be mad at you, but it can also be a hint for you because it is possible that she feels ignored. It could just be a simple "shit test" to see how you act when she is angry, it could be many things but without talking to her it is hard to tell.

They give all kinds of hints and many times they are hard to understand but for example when you are talking to your buddy, she might be looking behind her then later she will be angry with you because you keep talking to your buddy instead of stopping and walking away because she already gave you a hint to stop by looking in another direction but you did not notice her hint so for that reason you are stupid or maybe she will squeeze your hand when you are doing something then it is again your fault because you did not notice her hint. In other cases she will make a noise when you are watching TV for example, then it is your fault that you did not hear her, so again you are silly and actually stupid for not paying attention to her. Don't try to understand, it's hard...just take it as it is.

Dandys3107 · 2024-06-19T09:10:08+00:00

Girls don't want to spoke out some things. It would make them feel uneasy and it won't put you in a good light that you didn't figure it out. Girls often are getting carried away by emotions, I guess their hormonal system is very potent. But anyway, if you can forget about all social indoctrination about women's true nature and learn from scratch by evaluating their actions and decisions, not words and wishful thinking, then you can get much better with handling them.

TRTGymBro3 · 2024-06-19T10:35:06+00:00

You are violating rule #1: who cares what they think.

Inconceivable1985 · 2024-06-19T14:57:14+00:00

Tale as old as time brother....

artownz · 2024-06-19T15:59:34+00:00

It's expected

Title	Is it normal to not understand woman’s behavior as a man?
Author	Amazondriver23
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Date	June 19, 2024 1:32 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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