Is there any differences when trying seduction on college women compared to older women?

Kavika · 2011-06-16T00:21:07+00:00

Add more alcohol.

griffin3141 · 2011-06-16T04:18:19+00:00

You can amp up the attraction component and tone back on the rapport. Also, social networks are extremely important. Get to know everyone, and don't be afraid to make friends with girls. You can fuck their friends. It's expected.

huckfinn68 · 2011-06-16T14:42:08+00:00

Here ya go. The main difference is older women 35+ are looking for one of two things, sex or husband. They generally don't play games. They've been there, done that, just want to fuck. College women are still for the most part trying to figure out where they are going in life.

However, the seduction part is basically the same for both groups.

durrrrrrrrrr · 2011-06-16T01:48:46+00:00

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diercksw · 2011-06-16T03:42:34+00:00

At least 50% of PUA material goes out the window. If they are intelligent they have learned to see through this stuff and have probably had a bad experience with a cocky alpha.

If she is even over 30, you might be able to get away with "intelligent guy who is a good listener."

I find it strange that girls in their 20s don't think much of me but 40 and 50 year olds are always hitting on me and asking me why the girls are not all over me.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-06-16T00:34:34+00:00

Huh? Are you trying to seduce the college women or the older women? And how old is older?

TheDancingRobot · 2011-06-16T00:53:24+00:00

if you are a graduate student, you certainly have an attraction bonus to the undergrads and other grads. on older women...not necessarily the case...

heckz · 2011-06-16T02:53:54+00:00

if you are a student or look like one, there is less screening they need to do of you so things should be easier.

side2 · 2011-06-16T02:26:02+00:00

Part of the answer is this: the more a girl thinks of herself, the harder you have to neg her down. If you are seducing a young princess then you should hit harder (when appropriate, not indiscriminately); anything too soft makes you look intimidated. If you are dealing with a modest girl, going too hard can backfire.

Often as women age they realize they lose some of their attractiveness and are less confident so you don't want to tease as much. But sometimes they get into Sex-in-the-City-Everyone-loves-me mode and you might have to pick it up. Age can be a good indicator but you have to take each situation as it comes.

College girls are also famous for experimenting and they are absolutely everywhere so be extra bold now; threesomes might not be so simple when you're older so don't waste the good years!

peterg300 · 2011-06-15T23:58:16+00:00

I would really like to know what people think about this too, giving you an upvote for relevance =D

Shapsters · 2011-06-16T00:06:24+00:00

I'm no expert but I recommend the book 'Conquering Your Campus'.

I'm halfway through and not even going to college yet and I'm loving it, great insight as to how the social scene in college works.

That being said the book is obviously for college girls ladies, can't help you with older ones.

alkabitous · 2011-06-16T00:04:49+00:00

you should test it to see for yourself.

dand11587 · 2011-06-16T00:45:45+00:00

depends on the type of person you are going after, of course. if you continue to go to college-type bars (cheap drinks, loud music, etc) then the women are the same.

ehhhhhhh · 2011-06-16T05:35:15+00:00

before a big test ask if her if she wants to study with you, it's fucking gold

2011-06-16T08:29:28+00:00

I find that the older they are, the more they are going to look towards ambition, career, husband/father potential. It's not about game and looks. I'm in my 30's, in LA, and have been in serious relationships with +30's and currently and just having fun with 22-25 yr olds (didn't pick the demographic, it just happened that way)

The older ones have been through all the bullshit, clock is ticking, and they need stand up guy/husband material. Younger, don't really know what they want, just someone who is physically attractive and fun

the much older ones just want a young boy toy to fuck

Dexter77 · 2011-06-16T13:13:18+00:00

Interesting that so many PUAs seem to think the older women are more challenging. I interact a lot with nurses on daily basis. Most of them are in their late 20's or early to mid 30's. I couldn't imagine an easier group to prey on.

Most of them understand their attractiveness is in descent and they're desperate to feel wanted. Give them that feeling and they're yours.

2011-06-16T18:41:29+00:00

Nope. Be a social butterfly like you would normally. College is the prime time to meet people as there as SO MANY walking around every day.

Asilus · 2011-06-16T01:38:43+00:00

In my experience I would say that the principles are the same but the application is where the difference lies. With college girls you can get away with saying stupid, immature sounding, high school stuff, with older women you have to be a bit more discriminating.

frogma · 2011-06-16T04:41:52+00:00

There's some weird responses in here.

Well, I'll tell you, as a younger guy, I've fucked 50 times more younger girls than "older" women (I won't say the real numbers, feel free to try to work it out yourself).

Out of all those younger girls, some were easy, some were harder, and some were really hard (and the "game" I used was "normal," if you feel me). 100% of the older girls were easy as fuck. In my limited experience with older women, they generally seem to be more forward and they're not big fans of bullshit. Younger girls tend to be big fans of bullshit and they'll play hard-to-get and shit, but like I said, some are easy, some are hard.

I still prefer the younger girls.

Title	Is there any differences when trying seduction on college women compared to older women?
Author	JerkingOffToKarma
Upvotes	57
Comments	47
Date	June 15, 2011 10:07 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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