looking for a male perspective! :)

entitledwank · 2024-12-03T23:23:00+00:00

it’s okay to be a little selfish sometimes you gotta do what feels best for you. being in top is your time to shine

if grinding feels good do it. As a guy it’s true i don’t feel much but im still vocal so that she really enjoys it.

so to answer your question do what you enjoy and be vocal about it. moan, call him sexy things, make it known that your really enjoying it. He wants to please you as much as you want to please him

Charge36 · 2024-12-04T00:11:48+00:00

Grinding is good. Lifting up your entire body and slamming it back down is terrifying and dangerous. Whatever you do on top, do it in controlled motions so you don't break his dick if he slips out. Girl on top is a leading cause of Dick injury.

-Alvinolagnia- · 2024-12-03T23:22:48+00:00

This is totally going to depend on the guy. For instance, I bend upwards, back towards me, so if you’re on top and start to lean back, it just physically won’t work that well. I’ve been told that it feels good for girls (with me) when they have me sit up and they come close to me. Just an angles thing. But as I say, everyone will be different.

SplashGodNate · 2024-12-03T23:29:37+00:00

I honestly don’t feel much when someone rides me. But I know both me and my partners typically feel more when I pull her down as she’s on top of me and start thrusting upwards.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-12-03T23:43:04+00:00

Most women I know when they do WOT love grinding it back and forth instead of going up and down. Better for you guys but less for us lol; constantly hits your c spot yet less friction on our skin. And less tiring too for you (now you know “up and down” movement requires lots of energy). But anyway, WOT is actually good for guys, or at least for me, it kinda gives me a break.

My most fav position is always doggie style, and I never have women complain, sounds like they love it too. It’s a win win.

Anyway, no matter how good your pussy is or your moves are, IMO nothing beats oral. It’s just so damn sexy when a woman goes deep throat and finally receives the load in her mouth.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-12-04T00:20:29+00:00

If grinding is making the guy uncomfortable, turn around to reverse cowgirl and lean forward to put your hands in a pushup position on the bed and start dropping it, that way your knees and hands are taking most of the weight.

Side note for the gentleman: notice how most posts from men pertain to getting sex and most posts from women is about sex they are already having. This is why you don't exert effort into impressing anyone.

asanskrita · 2024-12-03T23:47:22+00:00

Depends on what exactly you want to do. You’re on top, you’re taking lead.

Variety is good. Nobody wants to just pound away, or be pounded away on, in the same position for extended periods unless you’re building up to an orgasm.

It’s okay to be performative. Not so much that it comes off as fake or insincere, but you get a chance to show off when you’re putting on the moves.

A woman cumming while riding me is super hot. If you can have an orgasm from rubbing your clit against his pubic bone, do it. What creates friction for you will not necessarily create it for him though. So either switch things up then get yourself off, or get yourself off first and then provide some variety.

For pure visual appeal, reverse cowgirl is hot asf. It’s not really a sustainable position, just something to throw in every once in a while.

There are two ways I can typically cum from below. Both involve our torsos close to each other. If I’m on my back, she can lie on me and fuck me with longer strokes, the head of my cock pressing against her front vaginal wall. My partners who have vaginal orgasms can often cum this way too. The other is with me leaning back but both of us basically sitting upright. In both cases you’re creating more friction along the shaft of the penis by making larger motions instead of just grinding.

You can go hard and fast but I hope you have good control, especially if everything is slippery and wet, because a missed motion can break a guy’s dick 😬 But it’s also hot to feel someone else in control and trust them.

Play with your tits while riding. Put his hands on your tits and then your hips. Take turns letting him thrust from below and you taking charge.

Twerk in reverse cowgirl, gently. Extra points if you got a big booty, but not required.

I dunno these are just some things I’ve experienced.

InternationalSwan162 · 2024-12-04T03:24:24+00:00

Reverse cowgirl and she is soaked

Historical-Case9201 · 2024-12-04T00:25:48+00:00

Personally I let her do whatever she wants when she’s on top, it’s like a sex show for me honestly. Idk what there really is to spice up as far as her being on top.

I love to watch the tits bounce, hear the moaning, but when I’m about to finish or I’m ready to I usually pull her close so that we’re chest to chest and go crazy until I finish.

Several_Ad_8363 · 2024-12-04T11:45:47+00:00

It is harder to finish in this position. That's a feature, not a bug. Letting her take charge in this way extends the sex and gives me a bit of a rest, and lets her express herself too.

maxreddit0609 · 2024-12-04T00:38:43+00:00

Definitely will depend on the guy, grinding on us is fine when you’re on top but if you want to get us to cum try bouncing up and down more rather than grinding. In terms if another position, I have heard from multiple men (myself included) that doggie always makes them cum the fastest.

walker2186 · 2024-12-04T10:34:18+00:00

Grinding doesnt do it for me. Its not bad its just not great... what does it for me is feeling her ride the full length of my cock from tip to base. And as much as fast feels good but slow can feel really good. I like the fact when its not predictable. Squeeze my balls ride me shallow then deep

Lynheadskynyrd · 2024-12-04T11:11:34+00:00

Perfect your kegels while up and down like a sewing machine or a West Texas oil rig type movement. I can only dream of a real yoga girl that has a degree in kegels.

acadiawaterbottle · 2024-12-04T19:27:12+00:00

When she was on top, she would switch it up from grinding deeply and moving her hips in an intoxicating rhythm to leaning down, hugging me tightly, and continuing to move her hips while she kissed me or sucked on my neck. I feel like that’s my favorite experience, rather than just having someone get on top and grind for a few minutes. I remember she would do this thing where my penis would go deeper and deeper like doors kept opening and this texture would hug my penis like it was stroking it like it was a hand or a throat. Girl was a real slut tho I’m guessing she had many many partners before me. You know what they say 10,000 hours to be a master or something like that.

garlopf · 2024-12-04T21:03:19+00:00

What often turns men on the most is the feeling that she is losing it. We don't necessarily want her to please us, but be pleased herself and show it, of course without faking. So best tip I can give is find out how to get what you need from the guy and just let lose.

AgentXXXL · 2024-12-04T21:05:41+00:00

Tickle the boys.

Bitter-Theme-1487 · 2024-12-05T00:27:44+00:00

Are u guys having sex?

Solid-Frame-6860 · 2024-12-05T02:15:43+00:00

Learn to float like a butterfly. In other words, keep your weight off me, and keep it moving without banging my pelvic bones. If you don't keep a proper and steady pace to keep me aroused you've lost the moment and I'll take over the driver's seat.

Huge_Ad_6444 · 2024-12-08T05:52:53+00:00

Well best when they are hitting there spot while on top of me it's so hot feeling that pussy clinch and juice up y so it's better if she gets off same time

Either-Swimming-2977 · 2024-12-08T09:54:21+00:00

Hey baby

Title	looking for a male perspective! :)
Author	litanonymous
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Date	December 3, 2024 11:17 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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