We all want to improve our ability to seduce women, that's why we're here. Why we want to depends, on our maturity level. But the ultimate WHY for all of us, is love. The teenager or young adult who wants to learn seduction to outfuck his friends will come to this conclusion at some point, because the bliss obtained by sex without love is unsustainable.

Without love we disintegrate into deeper states of depression, colored with unpredictable explosions of passion and despair. Love is the answer to the problem of aloneness, and we come to the subreddit in hopes of guidance on the path to Love.

With this goal in mind, r/seduction should be focused less on technical, situational, and ecstatical snippets, and more on the path of self-enlightenment, the path of self-love, and harmony. Only then will we achieve want we truly want.

A quick background: Discovered “The Game” in a thread on reddit in 2007. Transformed from a high-school loser with no sexual experience into an exercising, food-conscious, meditating, working professional who has had the pleasure of speaking with thousands of women, dancing and kissing hundreds, and sleeping with 30+ women composed of lovers, friends, one-night stands, and a couple exclusive relationships. Having read virtually all the literature in this space, I’ve applied most of the theory in real life and credit a large part of my success with women so far to the literature and community of thinkers I’ve encountered through reddit.

I arrived at my most recent conclusion, based on a combination of eastern and western philosophy, theology, as well as books like Models, The Sex God Method, and The Natural Game. Only when r/seduction focuses more on achieving self-love and the corollary, ever-increasing capacity to love others, will we sustainably improve the lives of our community.