First draft. It's all the wisdom I've acquired from the seduction community/resources, digested, and deemed important enough to carry in my head during a date (date != pickup). It's field tested and refined each and every date I go on. Thought you guys may find it useful.

1) Assume she is attracted to you. If you follow other dating rules/etiquette, there is never a downside.

2) You make all decisions. You may ask her opinion whenever you like, and oblige her if you like. She never feels required to decide anything. Take it as far as being prepared to suggest what she orders, if she delays.

3) Treat her like an equal. She is not better than you, she is not beneath you. Even if you like her a lot, or hate her. This also means she must treat you like an equal. Defend your boundaries quickly, clearly and fairly.

4) If you do something nice or chivalrous, it is because you choose to. You do not have to hold doors, pay, or bring the car around for her. Knowing this intellectually isn’t enough. Practice not doing these things so when you choose to do them, you truly know it’s not out of obligation. The act then becomes genuine, and she’ll be able to tell.

5) Be genuine. Don’t be thinking about game (important, but should be natural/reflexive), or what you’re going to say next. Take a real interest in her and try and relate. Let her talk plenty.

6) Don’t go out of your way to impress her. If you’ve got a lot of impressive things you want to tell her, let them be a cool secret that you can smile at to yourself, knowing you’re even cooler than she thinks you are. If they are conversationally appropriate mention them in a modest fashion. Or don't.

7) KINO ESCALATION LADDER Remember when I said not to think about game? This is the one thing you’re allowed to remind yourself of over and over. It is fun for both of you. Don’t be afraid.

8) Spread your attention - You’re on a date, sharing an event together. Don’t spend all night focused on her. It’s weird. Have fun where you’re at, talk to some other people, check some things out. Enjoy the event.

9) Make fun. This includes a lot. An exercise left to the reader.

10) Smile + Eye contact

Made another post, tangentially relates so I'm linking it here. Good read if you're wondering more about compliments, paying, doing favors, or when to call. It's much more abstract than this was though. Follow the Rules